References question

I'm a newbie trying to get into the hobby. I know some providers are newbie friendly but I have run into problems because of where I work and I know some want an employer reference.

This is the problem. I work for an agency that may scare away providers if I tell them where I work. I don't want to lie or be dishonest but id like to enjoy the hobby like others. I know honesty goes a long way in the hobby.

I have seen a couple of providers but one doesn't provide anymore and the other I wrote a review on here.

So if anyone out there has some advice I'm all ears. If you'd rather PM that's fine to thank you for any help

I see P411 in your future. That way "the call" only happens one time and its not from a provider, just someone calling to talk to you. Then when you get in on p411, it makes things soooo much easier that providers have no need to call you at work. Its probably the best thing ive done for my hobby life...

Ill see you for a massage, but you have to screen with me--I wont call you at work, I dont need that info. Ive got p411 and the ladies, well most of them, know who I am, and that I dont deal with BS men. Ive vouched for many new guys, and your "agency" doesnt scare me at all.

I have given several men a start in the hobby, if you need to know more just private message me or email me at

chellaohchella@yahoo.com

I prefer the yahoo address to be used. Place your handle here in the subject line please.

Dude, don't see anyone that requires an employer reference.