Question about passing on a apt.

Kayleehotchick's Avatar
Do you think that a provider has a right to pass or back out on an apt if the hobbyist does something to make her feel disrespected or uncomfortable?
Abso-freaking-lutely.....if you don't feel comfortable, part ways, as long as you don't expect him to give the donation.

Just got passed on one today because the provider indicated a lack of fondness to a beard, and I currently have one that I wasn't trimming yet for a few cultural things I am doing, and I didn't know of her desire before hand or I wouldn't have booked. She was polite about it and I have no ill will towards that fact, I actually respect and appreciate it more, no sense in having a no DFK session.
dallasfan's Avatar
Providers have a right to pass on an appointment for any reason. Just be upfront about it.
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
He didn't come over. I backed out via pm.
IMO, either party has the right to back out of an appointment for whatever reason(s). It would be polite and courteous to inform the other party with as much advance notice as possible.
!!Sexy Erotic Morgan's Avatar
ABSOLUTELY! Kaylee you know that already you hot ass chick! Its always better safe than sorry.
Luke Skywalker's Avatar
Do you think that a provider has a right to pass or back out on an apt if the hobbyist does something to make her feel disrespected or uncomfortable? Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick
Your body. Your rules.
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
You rock Sexy Morgan! ;-)
Skout's Avatar
  • Skout
  • 02-12-2014, 11:42 AM
Either party has that right. If someone thinks otherwise, that's a good enough reason to back out of their appointment.
chris1107's Avatar
Absolutley, the hobbyist should treat all the ladies with respect. Being courteous and polite will get you waaay more than being a DICK!! We are all here to have fun and play safe.



Do you think that a provider has a right to pass or back out on an apt if the hobbyist does something to make her feel disrespected or uncomfortable? Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick
Absolutely you have a right to do that!

ps: I'm glad you didn't when it was me!
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
You were a lot of fun!!!
dallasfan's Avatar
There should be good reason though. Backing out last minute without a decent reason is a dick move on both parties part.
HEADKNOCKER's Avatar
Yes ma'am be tactful and try not to make them feel slighted. But you definitely have the right.
DallasDoc's Avatar
YES, ALWAYS.