I even ate my Wheatie's today.

How do you deal with the utter frustration of an appointment cancelled an hour before. Not bashing, but I hate taking things into my own hand...

Hey things happen in real life and an hour notice is way better than NC/NS.

Try short notice thread and see what happens.

Consult,
To keep perspective, you still have that cash; although you had your time wasted and you are understandably frustrated, maybe pride a bit hurt, but this too shall pass. You likely took time to prepare well, get things in order, but the appointment fell through. Definitely a drag. There may come a time when you have to cancel an hour ahead; it's possible.
I was NCNSd last Friday, even sitting in the parking lot. Not fun, but not EOW. Took off work, showered up, drove 30 minutes to the incall, then silence. We've been in touch since, but no offer to make it right. Not right, is it? But it does, it will happen.
Be cool and keep control.

Have a Plan B, C, D, ad infinitum.

It happens, and I agree with LuvsDATY that, while there's no doubt that it sucks, it's better than an NCNS. It's especially frustrating for me because I enjoy having several days to work myself up for seeing a particular lady, and it just doesn't work as well for me when it's on the fly. I'll either check the Short Notice thread to see if there's a potential good repeat visit, or I'll head for a good AMP (VIP, Barcelo, etc.) where there's usually quality FS on demand, or just take my lumps, pocket my money, and plan for another day.

Get an UTR an ATF a Traveling Regular and one off the provider grocery list page and you won't be left SOL....
On good days you can score trifectas! Today I hit a daily double with my ATF dropping by after I had completed a morning romp with a UTR so line them up jack and you will avoid the frustration

Next time one cancels on short notice consider the option of a bng at a strip club.

Have a Plan B, C, D, ad infinitum. Originally Posted by Precious_b

Concur, both Pb and KA... this is the reality of the Sport... and oh by the way, there is probably an exact same thread reversed in the Powder Room side...

Thanks for the advice guys.... It was more a quick vent than anything else. I'm just getting started, and the excitement of it all goes to both heads and can lead to some frustration. I try to have backup plans, but that can be difficult because I have a certain taste in ladies, and am still a fairly new guy. Still taking my lumps if you will. AMPs don't really appeal to me as while I enjoy Asian Cuisine, I am typically not attracted to their women. And strip clubs are just a pain in the ass. Been doing that for years, and the girls are moody, unreliable, and have serious GPS. Takes so long to develop a dancer properly, and then they are gone.....

We almost all understand your pain. Had one NCNS after I drove to her location and set there for about 20 min. The bad thing on my part is I normally have appointments planned and set in my schedule and only have that allotted time so that is the only chance I get. Makes you figure out the more reliable ones real quick!

The girls have to put up with the same as well. Just think if they book a room and that happens to them!

Aww that sucks. Hopefully you got some relief! Cancellations suck. For both sides.

I would agree with those before me much wiser and smarter... Plans B and C are great.

I hate taking that little blue pill and running out of time to use Plan B & or C. Then the damn blue pill effect runs out by the time a can crank up the SO.....


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Still taking my lumps if you will. AMPs don't really appeal to me as while I enjoy Asian Cuisine, I am typically not attracted to their women. Originally Posted by TheConsult01