Question for the ladies...

Since I pretty much only do outcalls, I try to ask what beverages I can have available as well as anything else that a lady might want. It usually can make things more comfortable off the bat if it is the first time we have met.

How often, if at all, do you thank or tell a hobbyist after a session that you had a good time? I'm not talking as the session ends, but later that day or maybe the next day if it was a night session.

just wondering...

Edit: I'm finding that about 50% send me a msg later.

It depends on the session, really and the client. How often does your housekeeper call you the next day thanking you for allowing her to scrub your baseboards?

-LLL

lol. Point taken. :-)

Ahhhh yall silly boys! A housekeeper is SO different from a hooker! lol

I will always send a thank you email the next day saying I enjoyed the fun! Although I may be a redneck slut,I WAS raised a southern girl with manners!

just curious as to the normality of it, and often you ladies find yourself doing it

I always send a message to a provider I had a good time with. Usually within an hour, to thanking her for seeing me and let her knows that I appreciate what she does. While it may seem patronizing to some, I don't think a little kindness is asking too much of me.

When a provider sends an email after its a good touch, moreso if they personalize it to your session. But I'm not dissappointed if she doesn't. I have usually spent a whole night with them, gave them a hug, and ate breakfast together.......the pleasantries are just added incentive at that point.

Remember what Charlie Sheen said: "I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave."

Remember what Charlie Sheen said: "I don't pay them for sex. I pay them to leave." Originally Posted by LisaLyonz

Word my cuz!

as I travel alot,I feel that a "thank you note" is proper to let the guy know that I had fun and would love to see him again when I tour that way again.

I always send a message to a provider I had a good time with. Usually within an hour, to thanking her for seeing me and let her knows that I appreciate what she does. While it may seem patronizing to some, I don't think a little kindness is asking too much of me. Originally Posted by river985

I do the exact same thing!

I do the exact same thing! Originally Posted by Riverstud

Me too. I always express my appreciation, usually by a followup text. And it's sincere- I do appreciate what the lady had done for me.

I will ask if I could bring a bottle of champagne or wine. Water is always good to have, especially for me!
I also send a thank you email or text after an encounter with a gentleman.

It's good for a provider to send a note or a text (I'm fine with either).

It helps to close the loop so I know she's satisfied with the session. I count the $$ maybe five or six times - but sometimes it's hard to get $100 bills and I end up with $20's or even $10's and that's a wad of cash to count. Since most of the providers I've seen don't even open the envelope until after I leave - sometimes I worry that I miscounted or did my research incorrectly and got her rate wrong.

A text lets me know things were all in order.

Best way - on an outcall - is to just leave the envelope in the bathroom and she can grab it when she visits the head - and count it too - out of sight.

It's good for a provider to send a note or a text (I'm fine with either).

It helps to close the loop so I know she's satisfied with the session. I count the $$ maybe five or six times - but sometimes it's hard to get $100 bills and I end up with $20's or even $10's and that's a wad of cash to count. Since most of the providers I've seen don't even open the envelope until after I leave - sometimes I worry that I miscounted or did my research incorrectly and got her rate wrong.

A text lets me know things were all in order.

Best way - on an outcall - is to just leave the envelope in the bathroom and she can grab it when she visits the head - and count it too - out of sight. Originally Posted by Arverni

you my friend are an awesome hobbyist!