In the provider's mouth,... From the mouths of providers!

So I've been writing and reading reviews for some time now and there is a common vocabulary seemingly to describe a BJ... Amount of suction, spit, hand action, tongue usage, depth (dt/gagging), ball attention, teeth, etc. All used to describe good and bad bj-s. Most never really describe what the "right amount of suction" is... There are as many different techniques as there different ladies so I'm interested in hearing from the ladies what they have found to be the best bj techniques based on reaction and feedback from their gentleman callers. Covered or not covered, it doesn't matter for the purposes of this discussion and may I just stipulate that CIM is plus?!!

Some of my best experiences involved some prostate stimulation while receiving (hello Dallas!)

For the gents, does it really matter? Is a bj like pizza... No such thing as bad pizza?

IMHO there are only two types of BAD blowjobs

1.) Which I think most men will agree, is the one with way to much teeth which in my opinion is usually only seen in inexperienced women/providers (luckily I have never experienced this in the Hobby)

and by far the more evil of the two

2.) What I like to call The 30 second BJ (actual time may vary). While all guys love BJ's (see my sig line) we don't want to get all excited by one and just start to get going and then the girl stops. I have also been lucky here as I have only experienced one bad BJ in the Hobby and 1 in real life and both fell into this category and in the hobby it spawned into my only "no review". And while I have never been married I am sure some of my fellow Hobbyists are here because of this reason

just my .02

Great Pic Netx9 and great thread!

Candidly, (...ooohhh wait... Candi flashback... seated, mirror, gorgeous eyes...thanks Darlin'!)

This is similar to the DATY discussion, different strokes, different folks...

• First, enthusiasm to blowjobs is like a warp coil to starships... essential for both start and finish...
  
• Prefer stronger grip and suction...
  
• But... don't rip me out by the root either!
• Deep is also a tremendous bonus... Sweet!

(....oooh wait... Sweet Cara flashback, pinned down, one arm hooked around the back of my left leg for leverage and going to town... Wow thanks SEC Sugar!)

• Continue as I'm coming and even afterwards... really sets my hair on fire...
  
• Spit or not to spit... that's the dealer's choice and doesn't matter to me one way or another...
• Lastly, if you don't tell your provider your preferences, she'll have to wing it and that's not easy either...
  

The one that sets me on fire is when a girl sucks, then pulls back until the tip of my dick is barely on her lips - and then sucks it all the way to the base!!!!! Sucking on my balls is a huge turn on too - thus the need to keep them clean shaven!

Dallas does have the prostate/BBBJ down pat. I first met her a few years ago in NOLA - wild fucking chick.

Me, It's the eyes. Like everything else the best is when you have eye contact when either of you are doing oral.

As the comic Chris Rock reports there are 3 types of ladies that do blowjobs

1. The ones that hate it. My first wife.

2. The ones that do just enough to get by. Don't really like it but will do it since they feel they have to.

3. The ones that have the passion for it. You have to stop her so you can fuck her.

So to answer your question #3 is the one that knows what how and when to stop. I think she likes the control she has on guy while she is doing BJ, maybe not but possible.

Now I have never received a bad one just some a lot better that others. My top 5 are from eccie or p411 providers.

Not like pussy I have had bad pussy before.

You should have asked for us to list our top 5 BBBJ givers.

My best was the double with two girls.

I use several different techniques when pleasuring my lover, most of the positive ones here! But I also have this crazy little thing I do, and I have never heard of anyone else that has done it, and OH BOY........ the responses I get!

I use several different techniques when pleasuring my lover, most of the positive ones here! But I also have this crazy little thing I do, and I have never heard of anyone else that has done it, and OH BOY........ the responses I get! Originally Posted by Nicolet

Do share!

Another question... Position...

Standing or laying down?

awwww yall are so sweet--thanks!

ANYBODY can "suck a dick"...a REAL woman will WORSHIP the cock and treat it like a "reward"......and a prostate massage along with a bj is one helluva "topper"!!

I would rather show than tell. @Netx9, is that a rocket in your pocket, or do I have you curiousity aroused?

I would rather show than tell. @Netx9, is that a rocket in your pocket, or do I have you curiousity aroused? Originally Posted by Nicolet

I'm a computer guy... It's a mouse that grows into a keyboard with integrated mouse

Some techniques are better than others of course, but what gets me going is to see the lady who enjoys it so much that she totally gets immersed in it and forgets who she is, and for that matter, who I am.

awwww yall are so sweet--thanks!

ANYBODY can "suck a dick"...a REAL woman will WORSHIP the cock and treat it like a "reward"......and a prostate massage along with a bj is one helluva "topper"!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Amen! Gents, a couple of Dallas rain's greatest hits:

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=890127
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=730573

Zhivago52, I also like to look my lover in the eyes while I pleasure him. Sometimes he has to hold my hair back to see me looking at him, which seems to add to the appeal. And I tend to salivate when I give oral. A lot! Sometimes I include my hair in my repertoire, before the salvation begins of course! I wouldn't want to spend a lot of time brushing a cock out of my hair!
@Netx9, that just gave me the strangest visual!

Dallas, I've heard first hand information that you TRULY know how to do the worship.