Hobbyist how many attempts before you move on to the next provider?

Typically I send a few PM's to someone requesting an appointment and if I have never received a response after 3 attempts I move on and would NEVER send one to them again.

The info regarding Short Notice appointments are in:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=973322&highlight=

It seems that majority of the hobbyist prefer short notice. Now I assume everyone is around the same as far as what they feel is short notice. To me short notice is between Now and 3hrs. However the ladies are all about scheduling even we are mostly about short notice.

So hobbyist when you reach out to some of these ladies how many times would you reach out to them before you wash your hands and stop completely. We all know that even though some show to be online some are and some are not. Here is a little insight at least from my perspective;

I scroll through ads rarely read the ad but mostly check the pictures or showcase and rates then reviews and then I would contact 2-3 via PM to set up an appointment for that day. Playing the averages most of the time 1 lady replies almost instantly and 1 replies 3-4 hours later and the other would never reply. I usually go with the first reply as I think most of us guys do (just some food for thought ladies).

So hobbyist how many attempts before you will NEVER PM them again?

I usually try and book 2 to three days out and if I don't hear back after 2 tries I'm done and move on also only one ncns and I move on.

I try to book a week out.....short notice with who you really want is difficult at best.

1 and done,,

I will send a request per their methods of contact, usually I send a PM and an Email, if no reply, I move on. to many choices to worry about 1

1 and done,,

I will send a request per their methods of contact, usually I send a PM and an Email, if no reply, I move on. to many choices to worry about 1 Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Agreed

I really try to get back to gentlemen as soon as possible, men have better things to do than wait on us, we're here to wait on them! I can't imagine not getting back to someone. But it is difficult to book short notice appointments, especially those of us who really care about the experience we provide...I want to be high energy, totally amped, and beautifully presented and that takes time...plus you add screening and travel time and geesh!!! But I know when you chaps want it, you want it NOW haha which is totally understandable but sometimes tough or almost impossible to accommodate. I know when I'm in need, a three hour++ wait would really kill my lady boner

I enter every scheduling with a plan A-D. I give each one 24hrs, then on to the next! I will try to see them again. After 2 times no way

One and done. When I reply to an ad, it's more than 3 sentences so it shows I am serious. If they aren't interested then oh well. I tell them to read my profile and if they are interested then hit me up, they didn't think they match my personality?

Usually two. I think maybe the first one got lost, but the second just ignored. One particular girl I really wanted to meet & tried multiple times to connect. She responded one time, then flaked, so it just wasn't in the cards.

With 500-600 options in ATX alone & newbies jumping in the pool everyday its just not worth it to invest much in the first contact phase. And I have no data, but would think weak TCB in the beginning just leads to flakiness down the road. They seem to go together.

My best sources though have always been recommendations from other members, something like "I know what you like, and this girl is perfect for you". Wish we did more of that through PM's.

Toyz

Toyz that's a good point

I'm sorry when my dick gets hard I need service right away therefore I search the forums and see who's available

When it comes to the TCB, I'm the "three strikes you're out" kind of guy. But, an NCNS, cancelling the day of or cancelling while I'm on my way to the BCD, it's a "once bitten, twice shy" kind of thing.

Usually two. I think maybe the first one got lost, but the second just ignored. Originally Posted by JustAGuest

+1

It's a lot of 1 and done on the boards.

Usually two. I think maybe the first one got lost, but the second just ignored.

+1