Are you in a toxic relationship? Well, it just might just shorten your life span:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/ar...tors-warn.html
"Dr Liu’s theory is supported by previous research which has shown that the happiness of marriage has a powerful influence on physical health.
Recent research from the University of Utah revealed that people who think their partner is not supportive are more likely to develop heart disease.
Scientists found that people who say their spouse is sometimes supportive but also sometimes upsetting have higher levels of artery calcification.
This suggests their arteries are diseased and they are at greater risk of premature death.
Another recent study, from UCLA, revealed that marriage is also good for a man's bones.
It showed that men in stable marriages have stronger bones than those who are single or divorced."
The real concern is this: what percentage of men are in truly happy marriages in western societies these days? I believe that percentage is shrinking rapidly. Society does so much to bring men down while elevating women and it's doing significant damage that will become evident in the next few generations. We have such a hard time getting doctors to get us TRT while it's easy for women to get birth control, liposuction, boob jobs, etc.. Men are shown as stupid animals on many sitcoms on TV these days. We are pressured to make a lot of money while we are criticized for being "superficial" if we ask women to stay in shape for us. Wives can withhold sex from their husbands and husbands literally cannot do anything about it. If they divorce, then they lose everything. If they cheat, they lose everything. Courts are always on the side of women in most cases so men often have to start their entire lives over in their 30's, 40's and even 50's. Either that or they develop the "cheaper to keep her" mentality while they slowly die inside...effecting health and well being.
I'm not saying that all men are in unhappy marriages, but the issue can't be ignored. Sometimes I think that men stress about not being "sexually able" when the problem is that their wife is 50+ pounds overweight and/or nagging the hell out of him everyday and night. Of course these men are going to have ED issues, heart problems, strokes, etc...
- bigcockpussylicker
- 03-01-2014, 12:08 PM
- bigcockpussylicker
- 03-02-2014, 08:23 AM
I saw an episode of
Who the (Bleep) Did I Marry (TV Series)
Gold Digging Grandma
Elden Bowen was looking to spend his golden years with a good woman. Sweet, petite Shirley Cassara seemed to fit the bill. But after two years of marriage, Elden came face to face with the real Shirley - a woman who wanted much more than his heart.
Shirley, a 50+yo lady, marries a Elden, and gets him to put her name on his checking account and on the deed to the house
(I have no idea why you'd ever do that? but he did it)
within a few days after this, she calls the cops on him saying she got abused and showed them a small cut, she says he made. he says WTF?
Cop arrest me he goes to jail and gets bailed out the next day by his son,
Elden can't go home, a Restraining order was filed , to the man couldnt go back to his house...
when he went to the bank to get $$$$ to pay $$.5+tip(my choice) for his friend, his bank account is wiped out
at the end of the show, you learn Shirley was already married when she married him and was in the process of getting married again, even though she wouldnt sign the divorce papers
she got 1 yr in jail for bigmy and some time for embezelment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3c-ljhzQJw
Does stuff like this really happen? or is this just tv making up tv shows?
Who the (Bleep) Did I Marry (TV Series)
Gold Digging Grandma
Elden Bowen was looking to spend his golden years with a good woman. Sweet, petite Shirley Cassara seemed to fit the bill. But after two years of marriage, Elden came face to face with the real Shirley - a woman who wanted much more than his heart.
Shirley, a 50+yo lady, marries a Elden, and gets him to put her name on his checking account and on the deed to the house
(I have no idea why you'd ever do that? but he did it)
within a few days after this, she calls the cops on him saying she got abused and showed them a small cut, she says he made. he says WTF?
Cop arrest me he goes to jail and gets bailed out the next day by his son,
Elden can't go home, a Restraining order was filed , to the man couldnt go back to his house...
when he went to the bank to get $$$$ to pay $$.5+tip(my choice) for his friend, his bank account is wiped out
at the end of the show, you learn Shirley was already married when she married him and was in the process of getting married again, even though she wouldnt sign the divorce papers
she got 1 yr in jail for bigmy and some time for embezelment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3c-ljhzQJw
Does stuff like this really happen? or is this just tv making up tv shows?
- vitokc
- 03-02-2014, 02:56 PM
I agree with this study. No doubt there are others on this board who agree, especially about the health issues. It seems that those who participate in the hobby are looking for something that
can't be found at home. Whether it's the sex (quality and quantity), the excitement, affection,
or just plain companionship. If the situation at home is toxic, all the more reason to head out and
look for some diversion. Even if it is only for an hour at a time.
can't be found at home. Whether it's the sex (quality and quantity), the excitement, affection,
or just plain companionship. If the situation at home is toxic, all the more reason to head out and
look for some diversion. Even if it is only for an hour at a time.