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Not sure where I stand, but interesting thread, especially on a sex website. Many threesome reviews extoll the lesbian interaction of female participants and many complain of the lack thereof. Somehow it differs when the male gender becomes blurred....I'll admit to a degree of homophobia myself.

Random thoughts:
I think we're spending a lot of time fretting about a relatively small group of the population that may be better spent elsewhere.

There is a difference between cross-dressers, transsexuals, bisexuality and homosexuals and one opinion doesn't necessarily fit all.

Personally, I don't care who uses a public toilet with me. In the 60's with women's lib, it was common for a female to use male facilities to prove a point...of course I'm a guy and not sure the converse would have been well received.

I don't think it wise for minors to receive irreversible sex change therapy even with parental consent (note irreversible). Too much can change, but once of age, then it's their decision.

I'm not a sports guy, so sue me, but IMO, too much emphasis on winning at the ElHi level and not enough on the satisfaction of simply participating. Olympics, college sports might be different and restrictions based on hormone therapy are OK by me.
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Some of these latter comments demonstrate what offended Little Monster so much; just because you have a delusion does not require the rest of us to fall into line and accept that you're correct. I've noticed a couple of commercials that have lines like, "not for use by anyone who was assigned female at birth." What kind of medical advice is that? So now you can't say that this is not for women? Originally Posted by the_real_Barleycorn




I guess calling you out on your lies really
got to you. Feeling a little inferior are we?? No biggie.
Can't believe I'm actually going to say this but, I agree with HF's post. Carry on Ol' Wise one
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Transgenderism or gender dysphoria is not a psychological issue per se. It's a function of having a "female/male brain" in terms of it's physical structure. Men's and women's brains are not the same. Women's brains are composed of more white matter than men, who's brains are composed of more gray matter. Women's brains are also more connected between the right and left hemispheres while men's brain tend to more connected front to back. There are other differences, but you get the picture.
What is the culprit, you may ask? Pre-natal testosterone. Too much at the right/wrong stage in utero can produce the male brain patterns while the converse is true for lower than normal testosterone levels. Pretty straightforward really.
Though I've never heard a sex researcher make the claim I am about to make, I would be willing to wager that the issue of homosexuality is related as well. It seems like a matter of degree to me. This also seems to tie in with the phenomena of most young people who think they are trans resolving to them realizing they're just gay as they get older.
I guess the point would be that it's not a choice for those who are truly trans nor is it some kind of fixable psychosis.

You can hear more from sexual neuroscientist Dr. Debra Soh here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GY5eOHnQU5A

Go ahead and take a gander, she's cute!
And btw, having never seen this particular video before, she does seem to back up my claim about homosexuality. Judge for yourself.

Carry on.
This also seems to tie in with the phenomena of most young people who think they are trans resolving to them realizing they're just gay as they get older.
I guess the point would be that it's not a choice for those who are truly trans nor is it some kind of fixable psychosis. Originally Posted by Ducbutter
Nah, I chalk it up to social media. Kids do retarded shit for popularity
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I guess calling you out on your lies really
got to you. Feeling a little inferior are we?? No biggie.
Can't believe I'm actually going to say this but, I agree with HF's post. Carry on Ol' Wise one Originally Posted by Little Monster

I've broken through! Hallelujah! I like my new nickname!

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Not sure where I stand, but interesting thread, especially on a sex website. Many threesome reviews extoll the lesbian interaction of female participants and many complain of the lack thereof. Somehow it differs when the male gender becomes blurred....I'll admit to a degree of homophobia myself.

Random thoughts:
I think we're spending a lot of time fretting about a relatively small group of the population that may be better spent elsewhere.

There is a difference between cross-dressers, transsexuals, bisexuality and homosexuals and one opinion doesn't necessarily fit all.

Personally, I don't care who uses a public toilet with me.


But do you care who uses a toilet with your young daughter? That's the point.


In the 60's with women's lib, it was common for a female to use male facilities to prove a point...of course I'm a guy and not sure the converse would have been well received.


Hell, every time I was in a very popular club, the women would have a line to get into the female bathroom so some of the braver women would walk right into the men's room and use a stall without a problem because there would probably more men that would chose to protect her than assault her but what if there weren't?


I don't think it wise for minors to receive irreversible sex change therapy even with parental consent (note irreversible). Too much can change, but once of age, then it's their decision.


And I believe if put to a vote, that is what the majority believes and while the majority is not always right, when children are involved, it is best to set age limits on what they can and can not do even with a parents approval. Try having a party for your 13 year old and allow them to consume beer because after all, you are right there to supervise them. Guess what, you are going to jail.


I'm not a sports guy, so sue me, but IMO, too much emphasis on winning at the ElHi level and not enough on the satisfaction of simply participating. Olympics, college sports might be different and restrictions based on hormone therapy are OK by me.


And again, if your daughter is set on getting an athletic scholarship to her University is beaten by a biological male allowed to compete for that scholarship? Does that change things?


Originally Posted by reddog1951

But that relatively small group seems to be having a very disproportionate influence on our culture and politics. It seems that most of us agree that we really don't care whether you want to dress as a boy or girl if you really aren't but when this relatively small group starts making demands that the rest of us MUST follow or be punished, that's where the problem starts.


Saying a person can chose what bathroom they want to use might be fine if ALL of those people are truly just looking for a place to pee without judgement but we all know that will not be the case and we must protect especially young females from the few that aren't there for that reason and you know damn well, they will be there so yeah, as with a lot of things in life, the few will invariably fuck up what just might be otherwise doable.


We simply can't trust all humans to do the right thing. That's why we have laws in the first place.
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Nah, I chalk it up to social media. Kids do retarded shit for popularity Originally Posted by GastonGlock
Social media is a huge influence on many. Abigail Shrier has recently published a book about the explosion of transgenderism amongst young girls outlining just that. This is why I used the term "truly trans" at some point in my previous post. If you doubt what I wrote that's your prerogative but know that your going against the science on the issue.
Transgenderism or gender dysphoria is not a psychological issue per se. It's a function of having a "female/male brain" in terms of it's physical structure. Men's and women's brains are not the same. Women's brains are composed of more white matter than men, who's brains are composed of more gray matter. Women's brains are also more connected between the right and left hemispheres while men's brain tend to more connected front to back. There are other differences, but you get the picture.
What is the culprit, you may ask? Pre-natal testosterone. Too much at the right/wrong stage in utero can produce the male brain patterns while the converse is true for lower than normal testosterone levels. Pretty straightforward really.
Though I've never heard a sex researcher make the claim I am about to make, I would be willing to wager that the issue of homosexuality is related as well. It seems like a matter of degree to me. This also seems to tie in with the phenomena of most young people who think they are trans resolving to them realizing they're just gay as they get older.
I guess the point would be that it's not a choice for those who are truly trans nor is it some kind of fixable psychosis.

You can hear more from sexual neuroscientist Dr. Debra Soh here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GY5eOHnQU5A

Go ahead and take a gander, she's cute!
And btw, having never seen this particular video before, she does seem to back up my claim about homosexuality. Judge for yourself.

Carry on. Originally Posted by Ducbutter
Social media is a huge influence on many. Abigail Shrier has recently published a book about the explosion of transgenderism amongst young girls outlining just that. This is why I used the term "truly trans" at some point in my previous post. If you doubt what I wrote that's your prerogative but know that your going against the science on the issue. Originally Posted by Ducbutter
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ts winn dixie is 100% man! Originally Posted by winn dixie
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Originally Posted by GastonGlock
It doesn't matter if mental illness just as long as you can get pick-up by you S.O. from the mental hospital.
The old bumper sticker saying has now become truth...liberalism is a mental disorder. The thing about liberals is that expect everyone to toe the party line without fail. Ever hear of a pro-life liberal. There are a few exceptions like the rich liberal being protected with gun toting men but they get absolution for supporting climate change vigorously while living at a beachfront compound. It is also sacrament to hate Trump, love CRT, and hate the country. It's not even a "gay" agenda anymore. It's all tied together with mutilation and destroying the next generation.
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How many of you drive big pickups?