This might be an answer for some as to why yall get ghosted or turned down

Yall,
When yall decide to use a fake number whether it be a GV one or a burner app one like Text Now etc etc

Using more than one reverse phone search app search on the number you are about to use to text us with.

Because
We also research cell numbers yall use before we agree to a session with any of you and we also use one or more number search app to do so with.

Cuz Im gettin real tired of having to turn session appts down cuz yall don’t research each burner number yall are about to use before you use it.

And Im sure some or lots of yall are complaining here and on other sites about us ghosting you after initial text contact or just not replying at all to your first text and wondering why that is happening at such a frequent rate.

That part using more than one to search a number is called cross referencing.

It might come back to a females name or to a married couple or to any number of others that the number belonged to before you chose it.

I can definitely see that happening. I take that into account when I research a possible provider as well, but I know to take it with a grain of salt.

I tend to think I get ghosted sometimes because I'm upfront that I'm really a GFE guy, and those providers not into GFE just delete my message instead of replying and turning me down.

Of course, I believe most of the non-responses I don't get are because of terrible TCB. A little organization & effort would lead to much higher incomes for many providers!

My cousin said the same thing. Thanks.

Sounds like another reason for guys not to make our first contact a text. PM first from an established account and following up with a text makes sense for so many reasons.

Sounds like another reason for guys not to make our first contact a text. PM first from an established account and following up with a text makes sense for so many reasons. Originally Posted by TinMan

Agreed 100%
I appreciate if anyone who contacts me for the first time that this is the information you could so kindly provide me. If it is TOO much to ask please don’t waste either of ours time. I am definitely NOT here to waste yours!!

***IF I CAN’T TRUST YOU I DON’T WANT TO FUCK YOU!!!
LOL!!

Can you tell me a little about yourself?
Username and what site:
Name:
Hobby Contact #
Age:
Height:
Nationality/Race:
Hobbies/Interests:
**Name and contact information of your current reputable provider references for screening for I am NOT NEWBIE FRIENDLY:

Reason you are searching for a companion:
**Can you please also send me a pm to verify your account is valid so that I can put the 2 together.
Xoxo.
Jessica utr

Agreed 100%
I appreciate if anyone who contacts me for the first time that this is the information you could so kindly provide me. If it is TOO much to ask please don’t waste either of ours time. I am definitely NOT here to waste yours!!

***IF I CAN’T TRUST YOU I DON’T WANT TO FUCK YOU!!!
LOL!!

Can you tell me a little about yourself?
Username and what site:
Name:
Hobby Contact #
Age:
Height:
Nationality/Race:
Hobbies/Interests:
**Name and contact information of your current reputable provider references for screening for I am NOT NEWBIE FRIENDLY:

Reason you are searching for a companion:
**Can you please also send me a pm to verify your account is valid so that I can put the 2 together.
Xoxo.
Jessica utr Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

I do like some of the questions you use to screen clients with. A lot of ones i screen try to give a lot of pushback when it comes to screening. Thier reasons for hiring a provider are pretty much moot to me. occupation is irrelevant other than pillow talk, but a good companion will know how to make a client comfortable. I ask for a selfie with their addresses covered.

from my point of view--texting a girl is best way to contact her---texts show up immediately on her phone----private messages on eccie take much longer--(she has to sign on to eccie to see a private message) TEXTS are IMMMEDIATELY received by the girl

Texts are good ,BUTTTTTT if the gent can't send a real text like his handle name time of day he like to meet , refes and so on it just slows things down for screening and Most Don't or give a name or any info at all ,( just Hi) not going to get me to run and send a text back.

Using more than one reverse phone search app search on the number you are about to use to text us with. Originally Posted by TexasAustin

What services do you use to do this research?

I know of Mr. Number, but you have to pay for that.

I know of verifyhim, but I think there's an audio confirmation to ensure only women are using it I would need to get past that somehow.

Are there any free ones?

What services do you use to do this research?

I know of Mr. Number, but you have to pay for that.

I know of verifyhim, but I think there's an audio confirmation to ensure only women are using it I would need to get past that somehow.

Are there any free ones? Originally Posted by LGBBQandT

Why are you so concerned with what alerts you might have 🥸
If you operate with bad behavior, you can have consequences. That should be true in every area of life

What services do you use to do this research?

I know of Mr. Number, but you have to pay for that.

I know of verifyhim, but I think there's an audio confirmation to ensure only women are using it I would need to get past that somehow.

Are there any free ones? Originally Posted by LGBBQandT

I figure if there was a bunch of negative stuff about me I’d eventually hear about it. It isn’t something a typical hobbyist needs to be worried about. Try to be respectful, not spiteful, and you’ll be fine.

Interesting post, I wondered about this as I use GV. I don’t see anything come up when I search my number, but I also assume the ladies have some thread somewhere with a black list of numbers. I’ve dealt with my fair share of not getting responses, but I always chalked it up to being part of the game with some ladies not being on top of business or getting too many messages

What services do you use to do this research?

I know of Mr. Number, but you have to pay for that.

I know of verifyhim, but I think there's an audio confirmation to ensure only women are using it I would need to get past that somehow.

Are there any free ones? Originally Posted by LGBBQandT

What's your intent upon gaining entry to our safety areas?
Asking for my Aunt Fran.

What's your intent upon gaining entry to our safety areas?
Asking for my Aunt Fran. Originally Posted by R.M.

Not really getting into your safety area more of a bad comment or review from a provider. There are always two sides to the story.

Example I had a provider get upset with me cause I wouldn’t give her a tip. She had already hustled me from $500 for HJ and then another $500 for CFS. She wanted another $200 tip before I was leaving. I told her no I had already paid more than I wanted to and she got mad and told me to leave, WTF

Now do I have a bad comment or review i dont know!

Why are you so concerned with what alerts you might have ��
If you operate with bad behavior, you can have consequences. That should be true in every area of life Originally Posted by DallasBella

Exactly,

Getting back to a first contact....
Yes an email, or PM, or fill out the web site application on the gals site.
I assume most of the guys are bright enough to have a hobby email.
Use it, protect it like your persona on a board, and check it frequently.
At a later point take the convo to text. But tell her in advance what number you will use so she's expecting that.

My only disclaimer is that simply follow the gals instructions for a 1st contact.