This is an interesting thread. I've been hobbying on and off for quite sometime. During this time, I've only seen 2 providers on more than one occasion, and one of those was purely by accident. So, I've probably have seen scores of ladies and only once did I purposely see the gal again. Now, that doesn't mean I won't call on a provider again in the future. It just means I really haven't been looking for an ATF. I enjoy seeing a variety of ladies I guess I'm a bit defensive when it comes to exposing myself be seeking an ATF. If you keep seeing the same provider over time, things get complicated. You run the risk of getting caught due to complacency. You run the risk of blurring the line between business and pleasure. You run the risk of becoming emotionally attached to the provider-- at what point do you want to stop buying the groceries and start eating for free? Now I'm not saying one can't have chemistry with a provider. It can happen. I've had some really good chemistry with providers I've seen just one time.
CP, I wasn't looking for one, but I'm glad I found my ATF.
IV, for lack of a better word, everything about her is....right -- body, personality, attitude, etc.
To top it off, I am not repulsive to her. Granted, I don't see her 24/7/365. She may do lots of things wrong that I never see, and granted, she may be good at hiding her revulsion of me.
However, for what it's worth, when we are together, the world is right.
she has the physical characteristics you find attractive...
you even like her flaws...
the sex is amazing...
after 4 hours on a 1 hour date you find your self saying...'are you sure you dont want me to leave???'
she has the physical characteristics you find attractive...
you even like her flaws...
the sex is amazing...
after 4 hours on a 1 hour date you find your self saying...'are you sure you dont want me to leave???'
Originally Posted by bubbaJay
There's chemistry and communication. She let's me know what pleases her (and she wants to be pleased, she isn't simply punching my clock). Like me, she's into trying things so long as we agree.