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Dear John is spoiling for a fight and almost completely wrong. Originally Posted by Wayward
I'm not spoiling for a fight. My thoughts are simply this.........."Yes, we have all learned our 'social' lessons, it is now time to move on. This is my opinion and the reason for my posting earlier tonight. Let's forgive, learn, and move on. We can't forget or else this could happen again."

By the way Wayward, I have always respected you intelligence, however do you really think the whole and complete truth will ever come out? My glass is half empty and I don't. Of course some know far more about all of this stuff than I ever will and you're one of them. How much information about the social is Harvey the Rabbit, how much is complete truth, and how much is one's version of the truth?

If wanting to move forward is 'spoiling for a fight', then so be it. My only intent was to move forward. How many people will attend future socials, is up to them, and everybody, including newbies, will know the risks.
It is no secret on my end that I am not a computer expert. I learn what I can, as I can. Also, the Mods did not have the same level of "power" as the Admins, so I could not do all that an Admin could do.

There was no "automatic alarm system" to monitor and set off warnings when IPs were used multiple times. This work had to be done the old fashioned way: look up IPs for specific handles, compare and see what matched.

I do not know how you identify a location for an IP; however, I absolutely believe the Admin who told me it was HPD.

I need to list some "cop-out language," so here goes: The handles below are ficticious and placed for entertainment purposes only. Everyone is presumed innocent until found guilty in a court of law. These handles are merely suspect and may merit further evaluation. The copied threads show other members who are not and never have been suspects. There are many lessons to be learned from this.

Folks I am suspicious of:

candy_smiles
samanthakiss
kenwalt
Bombaygin
ronnie69
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candy_smiles

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Finally!!!!

Figured it out
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candy_smiles

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Open me up.....Please
























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Epicurus

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Welcome.. Where do we get more information?









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SIMPLETON

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what a nice ass. I like the picture

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Now, that's a nice butt! Can't wait to see the other side.
























10-20-2009 05:07 PM





















cyclist9

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Welcome.. Where do we get more information?
























10-20-2009 06:58 PM





















d7dug

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yea nice taste.. we want more!!









u gotz website?




















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houston_switch

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Very nice, do you have a web site? If not i suggest you get one quick even if just is one page and has just a couple of photos. Guys are visual and want to inspect the package they are thinking of buying.... a contact phone number or email address would b great as well.
























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69Mustang

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WOW! Me likey da pic!

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candy_smiles

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Thanks for all the warm welcomes and the advice....I am still trying to navigate through all this high tech computer stuff...Do you think if I get Carpal Tunnel Syndrome and can't use my hands I can apply for Workmans Comp?!?!
























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ibechill2

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Let us know when you get some more pics.
























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buckeyefarmer

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Welcome aboard! May I suggest you send an email to houstonpanel@aspd.net and ask for provider status. This will allow you to post an ad in the Provider Ad one time per week.

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sat45

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hello candy cannot wait for you to make me smile . setup your contract info and get it to us asap.
























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samanthakiss

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Howdy Fellas!!

Back in town and ready to get back in the saddle!!! Are you ready for the wild ride?!?!?1


























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candy_smiles

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Hey there cowgirl.....so glad you could join us
























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Epicurus

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Welcome back to Houston.









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kenwalt

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Welocme back! You got a pic of that "wild ride" you speak of ???
























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samanthakiss

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Thanks!!! I'll send you a pic through email. (Having trouble loading pic on this site)
























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taz1692

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Location: lake jackson

Posts: 8

hey welcome back babe !! come dive in and have some fun... have any pics babe...
























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Gfe Referrals

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houston_switch

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Welcome! Pics and a web site are tools of the trade... guys want info before they buy the package... just my $.02...
























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candy_smiles

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Big Hello!!!

Hey there all....not new to houston...but new to the site....love the idea of like-minded individuals as much as I love what I do!!! Hope to see some of you very soon...xoxoxo Candy


























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sat45

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Location: houston

Posts: 56

hello candy and welcome to our site .do you have any pictures or link to a site ?
























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69Mustang

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Howdy & Welcome, candy!

Got pics?
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candy_smiles

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I am not as "handy" with computers as I am with other things...I am working on attaching a pic
























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Hello Candy. Welcome.
























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BigSwinger-A

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Welcome aboard Candy. If you need help with posting a pic just send me a PM.









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Welcome, You will find all (ok most) of us are very nice folks...
























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candy_smiles

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Location: Houston

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Thanks to all for such a warm welcome....my phobia of computers has been somewhat tamed by the kindness have received from you guys...I will get a pic posted as soon as I can...but until then I can e-mail them by request...Thanks....xoxoxo Candy
























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Originally posted by candy_smiles

Thanks to all for such a warm welcome....my phobia of computers has been somewhat tamed by the kindness have received from you guys...I will get a pic posted as soon as I can...but until then I can e-mail them by request...Thanks....xoxoxo Candy






I'm new here too, nice to meet you and and pic request sent









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well, a 6 is being pretty harsh. If i saw here at a bar i'd still be into her. Im picky in the face department.






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Post: Review: candysmiles4u
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Date: october 09
Provider: candy
Phone or Pager: 281 433 9000
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Post: [url="http://www.aspd.net/showthread.php?s=&postid=25294 17#post2529417"]wrong link above.... http://houston.backpa
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Post: Review: ebony doll-bbw
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Provider: chance
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Hey there!Welcome. I'm kinda new to ASPD myself. Where to stay depends on what time of year you coming. Galleria area is always popular and downtown is hoppin' nowdays. Hope to see ya soon!






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Was at Rouge this weekend. No talent. Not worth the time, in my opinion.






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kenwalt

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Review: candysmiles4u

Date: october 09
Provider: candy
Phone or Pager: 281 433 9000
Email Address:candysmiles4u@livemail.com
URL / Website:http://
City: houston
State: Texas
Area / Address: midtown
Appointment Type: Outcall
Provider Category: Independent
Activities: bbbjwf / russian
Session Length Scheduled: HH
Fee: $.75
Total Paid: $
Was Tipping or Upselling an issue?
Was the Description you were given accurate? yes
Hair Color and Length: blond mid back
Age: 2?
Race: w
Perfume/Fragrance: Fresh and all Natural
Smoking Status: Could Not Tell Either Way
Where did you hear about this provider? aspd
Provider`s Body: face - 6 / body - 10. nice big natural tits.
What was the Provider's Attitude like? ready to play
Comments: Not surprising I had to play phone/text tag for a day, almost to the point where I said f**k it! When we finally got on the same page she seemed ready to go. She told me to get a room and give her an hour to get there. She was pretty cool with any part of the city. She only said, "try to keep it within the loop or very close." Not sure why.











After I called her, from a hotel in midtown area, she arrived within twenty minutes. She was very receptive and warm. She gave me a big hug and grabbed my meat with a big smile. We chatted for a few minutes. This may sound stupid, but she seemed like the type I would just go and have a beer with. Not for $ tho'



I told her I only wanted HH and she said $.75. She stripped and revealed two sweet all natural fun bags which only grew in size as I looked over her petite body. She pushed me onto the bed and started to worship my shaft and nuts. No condom! She didnt even mention having or needing one and I just went with the flow. I was really just wanting a BJ and told her so. She said, if you dont want to fuck, it'll only be $. She then continued to suck with the pure intensity of hoover plugged into a 220 outlet. She wrapped her breast around my cock and went to town. She did mention at one point, "not in my mouth." And with the respect i could only give her, I comensed to spray my man lava all over her ample tits and face.....I did pay her $.5

Would you recommend this Provider to others? yes




















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ibechill2

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She ever get any other pics? A 6 for the face makes me wonder. A 10 for the body. Her one ass picture looked nice.
























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kenwalt

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well, a 6 is being pretty harsh. If i saw here at a bar i'd still be into her. Im picky in the face department.
























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ibechill2

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she ever get any other pics?
























11-04-2009 09:27 PM






















BDSaint

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6 in the face and 10 in the body?









talk about a butter face...



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Review: samantha the librarian

Date: 10/30/09
Provider: samantha kiss
Phone or Pager: 281-686-0651
Email Address:samanthakiss1@hotmail.com
URL / Website:http://
City: Houston
State: Texas
Area / Address: 59/ hillcroft
Appointment Type: Outcall
Provider Category: Independent
Activities: bbbj,dt,fs,daty, greek
Session Length Scheduled: 30 min
Fee: 200.00
Total Paid: 200.00
Was Tipping or Upselling an issue?
Was the Description you were given accurate? yes
Hair Color and Length: blonde, medium length
Age: 30
Race: white girl
Perfume/Fragrance: Fresh and all Natural
Smoking Status: Could Not Tell Either Way
Where did you hear about this provider? aspd
Provider`s Body: samantha looks like your dream of a librarian, reserved but you know she will be a tiger in bed. she is pretty tall, 5'8 ish, and not fat, but not skinny either. I am guessing around 145-150 pounds. she had nice breasts, b cups with suckable and responsive nips. she had a flat stomache, ok ass. shaved clean and pretty pink, fresh and clean. no ink that I can remember
What was the Provider's Attitude like? You wanna play fuck the teacher
Comments: I found her on here, I have had a fantasy about a school teacher/librarian, and she fit the bill perfect. I had to call her a couple of times before she answered. screening was pretty basic, I only have a couple of reviews, so I agreed to show her my id and a business card. I am not married so this is not a problem for me. I covered my address with my finger and told her that I didnt think she needed it. she was ok with that.











We agreed to meet at a notel off of 59, she got the room and gave me the room number when I called. When she opened the door, she was wearing dark slacks, a white dress shirt and glasses. I had asked her to dress like a librarian, and she did. I noticed a nice black lace bra under her shirt and she was wearing matching panties.

She was very inviting and made me feel at ease. She gave me a hug and a nice soft lfk. We sat on the bed and talked for a few minutes. Her blouse was unbuttoned enough to see that sexy bra and lilly white breasts.she leaned over and started to kiss me, I think she really likes this we would start out lfk and then it went to dfk. I started to unbutton her shirt and she was pulling my shirt and pants off.

As soon as we were both undressed she engulfed my rod, DT straight to the ball sack. I was pleasantly surprised as most girls cant do that. good eye contact and she had great suction. I am a multi pop guy and we had already discussed that this was ok. so it wasnt long and i blew the load. she took it in her mouth but did not swallow.







I asked her if I could return the favor. she layed down on the bed and spread those long legs, she was shaved clean and had a very pretty pink pussy, a nice size clit. I lapped it up and she was reactive. I dont know for sure if she came, but I was ready to go again.

she started with another great bbbj and then put on a cover. I started in missionary, she was wet and very tight. she is vocal and I asked her for dirty talk, she was into it and it didnt sound fake.

I turned her over and hit it doggie, slow at first and then harder, she likes it pounded in hard. while i was doing doggie I slipped in a finger in the starfish, she was talking dirty and told me to fuck that ass!

I am a straight "A" student, and I do as I am told. I grab some lube and slide it in. I am going slow, but she tells me to fuck it hard. it didnt take long and I blew the load.

when I walked out of the room, I was a bit noodle legged, I dont know that I could survive an hour with this girl. I will see her again. I have paid this much for an hour with other girls, but I did not have as much fun.
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ibechill2

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pics anywhere?
























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atcav8or

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A few things here...

1. 200 bones for 30 mins WTF? What is her hourly rate?
2. You said you found her hear well when I searched the phone number it brought up another review saying the same thing. So what's the story?
3. You said she fit the ''build'' of what you were looking for. Well how did you know without seeing pictures? If you have some well share them.











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I dunno about this one...

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atcav8or

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A few things

1. 200 bones for 30 minutes, dude what's up with that? What's her hourly rate?
2. You said you heard about here from here. Well there is one other review on her and it says the same thing, so what's the deal?
3. You said she fit your ''build'' well how did you know? Did she send you pic's? If so share them.











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I think there are a few more questions to be asked and answered here. I know I am still a relative newbie compared to some of the old vets around, but both reviews were written by people with less than 10 post. Something smells a bit fishy when they said they heard about her here and nothing can be found. Just my thoughts.

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That is peculiar and interesting. It doesn't seem to pass the smell test, does it?

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kumasutra

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she is under samanthakiss in the wagon, she will e-mail pics upon request, that is how i found her the first time, i like to check for new talent from time to time and not go after the same ol same ol
























11-07-2009 09:21 PM





















ronny69

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She can be found at the welcome wagon. she e-mailed me the pictures. I dont know how to post them.
























11-09-2009 12:28 AM





















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she e-mailed me the pictures. I dont know how to post them.







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There is a small buttom named 'IMG' in the controls. Click the button and insert your photos.

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Try to remember that I was trying to follow orders that I agreed with at the time. Also, aspd went down for the count as I was still trying to figure out what was really going on.

My big conclusion/advice is that other than the Hobbyists who enjoy the thrill of being first to find new talent, the safe course is to wait until a Provider is reviewed by someone you know! The attachments show reviews by unknown, brand new members. Likewise, Providers should recognize the situation when the requesting hobbyist only has a review of a Provider nobody knows.

I hope this is of value.

THE Hambone
Originally Posted by THE Hambone
Glad to see you back,, all I got to say is "Priceless" thanks Hambone..... One question though; why was your's, Civil Barrister and CK1942's comments deleted from your post?
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Sorry Dear John the spoiling for a fight was meant as irony, it seemed funny to me so I wrote it. It was not the main focus nor was it to attack you on a personal level, just to take issue with your thoughts. In what I had incorrectly hoped was a moment of levity at the beginning.

No one will ever know the complete total truth, you are correct. But I would like to get a lot closer than where we are now. That seems to be happening week by week, if not day by day and that was the main focus. I do not think there is anything wrong for wanting to show compassion, that time will come again and again. But for now it might be really good for the community to put aside some squabbles and really try to figure this out to the extent that we can.

I believe that we have the information and are not or will not put it together properly. Will not is leading, meaning that some folks are doing more covering of ass than acting as the good shepherds they claim to be.

Again this was not a personal attack only an exploration of issues and unlike W******* I really mean that.
Time to take a sleeping pill. The very idea that merlin could have a bad picture of me could cause me to care and lose sleep. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN
I felt the same way about your picture.

Again 20/60 hindsight but germane to this story. Originally Posted by Wayward

Sheriff Justice: The god damn Germans got nothin' to do with it
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Bottom line: There's no sense in being pessimistic. It wouldn't work anyway.







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Glad to see you back,, all I got to say is "Priceless" thanks Hambone..... One question though; why was your's, Civil Barrister and CK1942's comments deleted from your post? Originally Posted by AlexisSoftTouch
Did you really have to quote the whole 3000 line post?
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Enough already
Turns out someone did try and use an old P handle here, but only once? We have had more issues than that over on the Y side in the last quarter and we have no open public registration and 5% of the membership here in the most wildly optimistic tally. It’s certainly possible but given the number of multi-handles it seems inaccurate in spirit if not in fact. But it is very nice to know you are aware of the possibility and have the tools to address it. Another really good thing to come out of this thread, props to St. Chris. Originally Posted by Wayward
No doubt. Even with an excellent cross-reference tool such as the P member list, someone could sneak through the cracks. We can scour the daily registrations for recognizable names to confirm, but like many things discussed here, it's not an infallible process.

In everything we do, we must always have a heightened awareness and be conscious of the possible security risks and loopholes which exist to be exploited as soon as the right (or wrong) person comes along....and regarding the socials, there are two sides to the coin. We are all responsible for our own actions, safety and choices. It's our own choice when we decide to trust another party (social host, screener, etc.) to protect us from the apparent dangers, so yes, it's on us to an extent. HOWEVER that does not let the "another party" person(s), whoever they may be, off the hook for becoming lax with the safety of others and failing to live up to their end of the bargain..for which they were trusted...if certain things could have been avoided with greater attention to the details. Those who hold them accountable, even in theory, have every right to do so IMO. So, what's the answer? We live and learn from past mistakes, and adjust our routines accordingly based on knowledge we've gained as a result of this unfortunate incident. Some may never attend another social, and some may continue. We ALL should have a pretty good idea what should and should not be taking place at the meet n greets.

St. C
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If it wasn't for socials, I would never have met many wonderful Houston women, including Taylorofhouston, Lilith, Amber, Candace, Katherine Butler, Ryan TCL, Holly, MLisa, Aidan, Fancy, KC and so many more over many years I can't remember them all. Montanna Gunn and her porn partner showed up at one and that was a fun experience (clothed, imitated 69 right there in my chair, although I'll never tell if she wore panties under that dress!). I wouldn't have had this experience either, lol. Since my wheels, and no doubt more, have been on 11 news, showing them here can't hurt.



Socials can be a great way of networking and having fun when the rules are followed. If you think they're stupid and dangerous, you're in the wrong hobby.
my safety and/or the fact I might go to jail because someone "fucked" up is one of those topics that should never become "old" cause if it is, boy and girls we open ourselves up to going to jail again. Except next time they will remember us.
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Holy crap surcher I think I need to get me some wheels. I have never had that many women all over me at one time ...lol
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I have to say that I look at the whole issue a little selfishly.......this thread has exposed some of the methods used to highlight supicous behaviour, and will only serve to cause LE to be aware of the error......making them more difficult to detect.

The handles mentioned were all on my (watch what they are doing) list.

Of course, half of you are on it as well...........I'm just saying.
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That picture brings back some memories (and mammories). I think I still have the pics of the "surcher train" and the "Can you ID the ass" lineup pics (clothed guys - don't get too excited) somewhere. What's interesting, though, is that "gathering" was in a public place, and the activity raised some eyebrows - or caused everyone else to leave, rendering us the only inhabitants by night's end. But there was nothing illegal at all.

Most there already knew one another, and if you didn't, you were only there because you were vouched for, knew the password, passed the handshake test, AND displayed the secret decoder ring at the door.

Actually, the screening requirements were a little looser than those employed by ck and CB, but someone we trusted had to know you PERSONALLY, not just as a board persona behind a keyboard. That worked with the smaller gatherings like the one pictured. It's more difficult as size increases.

And despite all the semi-risque events of that night (well for you anyway - LOL), nobody felt any risk of a visit to the Reisner Hilton. As you will recall, surcher, you and I had more fear of a ride downtown while at the IHOP afterward than we did at the party.