How do you talk to girls on Sugar dating site?

Should I go straight to the point if the girl wants ppm or allowance? Is it rude? I'm not good at conversation and haven't attempted to pick up any girl before

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Mine didn't work in this fashion, but I believe the generally accepted protocol is to set up a meet-and-greet over coffee or maybe dinner to determine compatibility and negotiate terms, with no expectations of intimacy on this "first date."

I do not think it's rude but I do believe that the approach is very important. Everyone has a different expectation and you do not want to be caught off guard.

Start with respectful conversation. Nobody wants to fuck a jerk. You need to get to the specifics quickly. This saves everyone involved time. It's safest to discuss specific details elsewhere. The site has some specific rules.

I suggest you say something they all love to hear like...

Hey I'm a human wallet and walking ATM machine. When can you come over so you can drain my balls and take all of my money and then ignore me until my next paycheck?

I like to be subtle, discrete and not so outgoing or obvious until she's emptied out my bank account, robbed me or slashed my tires. Good times for sure!

My experience was the women were pretty up front with what they were there for. I'd like a few profiles and get flooded with messages

1. dont discuss ppm, sex acts for money, etc while messaging on any sugar site ... unless you wanna (possibly) get banned from tge site.

2. ask her to go to texts or email or phone calls to discuss amt for your visits.

3. once on the other comm channel, dont discuss sex acts for money ... unless you wanna up the risk of getting busted for solicitation.

Always get their number first then you can discuss off the site. How can you honestly offer a allowance without know anything about them? Start off with a PPM then see how things go. After seeing each other a few times both of you will know if you want to keep this going. At that point that is when i would bring up and potential changes either one of you are needing and come to agreement and change to a allowance. Everyone wants and needs are different but communication is the key.

Start with respectful conversation. Nobody wants to fuck a jerk. Originally Posted by slowmover

I disagree...For example look at the epidemic and dysfunction of all the single moms, hookers and skeezers that have between 2 to 6 baby daddy's. They love losers and jerks and loathe, use and dispise nice guys. But you do you.

I disagree...For example look at the epidemic and dysfunction of all the single moms, hookers and skeezers that have between 2 to 6 baby daddy's. They love losers and jerks and loathe, use and dispise nice guys. But you do you. Originally Posted by Vanilla Gorilla

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