This might be an answer for some as to why yall get ghosted or turned down

TexasAustin's Avatar
Yall,
When yall decide to use a fake number whether it be a GV one or a burner app one like Text Now etc etc

Using more than one reverse phone search app search on the number you are about to use to text us with.

Because
We also research cell numbers yall use before we agree to a session with any of you and we also use one or more number search app to do so with.

Cuz Im gettin real tired of having to turn session appts down cuz yall don’t research each burner number yall are about to use before you use it.

And Im sure some or lots of yall are complaining here and on other sites about us ghosting you after initial text contact or just not replying at all to your first text and wondering why that is happening at such a frequent rate.

That part using more than one to search a number is called cross referencing.

It might come back to a females name or to a married couple or to any number of others that the number belonged to before you chose it.
I can definitely see that happening. I take that into account when I research a possible provider as well, but I know to take it with a grain of salt.

I tend to think I get ghosted sometimes because I'm upfront that I'm really a GFE guy, and those providers not into GFE just delete my message instead of replying and turning me down.

Of course, I believe most of the non-responses I don't get are because of terrible TCB. A little organization & effort would lead to much higher incomes for many providers!
mrsack's Avatar
My cousin said the same thing. Thanks.
TinMan's Avatar
Sounds like another reason for guys not to make our first contact a text. PM first from an established account and following up with a text makes sense for so many reasons.
Ultimate Jessica's Avatar
Sounds like another reason for guys not to make our first contact a text. PM first from an established account and following up with a text makes sense for so many reasons. Originally Posted by TinMan
Agreed 100%
I appreciate if anyone who contacts me for the first time that this is the information you could so kindly provide me. If it is TOO much to ask please don’t waste either of ours time. I am definitely NOT here to waste yours!!

***IF I CAN’T TRUST YOU I DON’T WANT TO FUCK YOU!!!
LOL!!

Can you tell me a little about yourself?
Username and what site:
Name:
Hobby Contact #
Age:
Height:
Nationality/Race:
Hobbies/Interests:
**Name and contact information of your current reputable provider references for screening for I am NOT NEWBIE FRIENDLY:

Reason you are searching for a companion:
**Can you please also send me a pm to verify your account is valid so that I can put the 2 together.
Xoxo.
Jessica utr
DeamonDragonLady's Avatar
Agreed 100%
I appreciate if anyone who contacts me for the first time that this is the information you could so kindly provide me. If it is TOO much to ask please don’t waste either of ours time. I am definitely NOT here to waste yours!!

***IF I CAN’T TRUST YOU I DON’T WANT TO FUCK YOU!!!
LOL!!

Can you tell me a little about yourself?
Username and what site:
Name:
Hobby Contact #
Age:
Height:
Nationality/Race:
Hobbies/Interests:
**Name and contact information of your current reputable provider references for screening for I am NOT NEWBIE FRIENDLY:

Reason you are searching for a companion:
**Can you please also send me a pm to verify your account is valid so that I can put the 2 together.
Xoxo.
Jessica utr Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica
I do like some of the questions you use to screen clients with. A lot of ones i screen try to give a lot of pushback when it comes to screening. Thier reasons for hiring a provider are pretty much moot to me. occupation is irrelevant other than pillow talk, but a good companion will know how to make a client comfortable. I ask for a selfie with their addresses covered.
Sherry of DFW's Avatar
from my point of view--texting a girl is best way to contact her---texts show up immediately on her phone----private messages on eccie take much longer--(she has to sign on to eccie to see a private message) TEXTS are IMMMEDIATELY received by the girl
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
Texts are good ,BUTTTTTT if the gent can't send a real text like his handle name time of day he like to meet , refes and so on it just slows things down for screening and Most Don't or give a name or any info at all ,( just Hi) not going to get me to run and send a text back.