stringing along

@DB - I understand why you dont want to post the name - However, this helps no one publicly and requires extra steps to figure out the identity - all in the name of Drama Avoidance? I say screw it - bring it on. If this provider has a problem with it then maybe she can be educated with some good ole responses regarding professionalism (in this hobby is there such a thing? or do we call it GFE?).

I dont care what providers say and I am tired of people posting alerts, warnings, FYI's just to say "oh this is what happened - BUT I am not saying who did it" - the Alfred Hitchcock hour is OVER. I for one do not care about posting a provider's indentity if she screws up without some legitimate excuse. Trust me, do you think these same providers care about not posting your name when a client skips, does not pay, wanted more services, etc. - these same girls would throw any one of us under the bus. I for one have no problem letting others know if a provider I have seen screwed up.

I think in your case you were involved in what is commonly known in the Biz as "Bump and run" - this involves a provider who commonly makes appointments with several men at the same time to "stack the deck" in her favor to make as much $ as possible. When the guys arrive at the same time there is obviously a scheduling conflict so the provider continues to "Bump" the guys in the parking lot while she continues to run an "all you can eat" buffet in the bedroom trying to service guys as quickly as possibly so as to direct the guys in the parking lot to the room (in essence, capitalizing on the quick buck - literally). If there are too many guys in the parking lot waiting for service, the provider might not be the organized scheduling genius and inevitably some guys will be left behind sitting there waiting for a chance to dine at the Y with no luck. Your lack of response when contacting the provider and continued "put offs" was her inability to fit in the masses so she ditched you "the Run" - my friend you just got involved in the "Bump and Run!"

As far as identifying the provider and publicly commenting on the events that happened calling for reform! - Didn't some people recently do the same thing publicly, oh yeah Egypt! And look what happened over there - I am just sayin...


LFG

I have to agree. All of these vague disclaimers are not helpful. If the situation is important enough to post about, then let us know who you're talking about. If I post in Alerts tomorrow that I found out a certain provider is a hermaphrodite and she has a 9 inch wiener that she tucks away until it's time to get naked, I shouldn't follow that up with "I don't want to post her name, but PM me."

P.S. The wiener story was just hypothetical. It was probably only 6 inches at most.

@DB - I understand why you dont want to post the name - However, this helps no one publicly and requires extra steps to figure out the identity - all in the name of Drama Avoidance? I say screw it - bring it on. If this provider has a problem with it then maybe she can be educated with some good ole responses regarding professionalism (in this hobby is there such a thing? or do we call it GFE?).

I dont care what providers say and I am tired of people posting alerts, warnings, FYI's just to say "oh this is what happened - BUT I am not saying who did it" - the Alfred Hitchcock hour is OVER. I for one do not care about posting a provider's indentity if she screws up without some legitimate excuse. Trust me, do you think these same providers care about not posting your name when a client skips, does not pay, wanted more services, etc. - these same girls would throw any one of us under the bus. I for one have no problem letting others know if a provider I have seen screwed up.

I think in your case you were involved in what is commonly known in the Biz as "Bump and run" - this involves a provider who commonly makes appointments with several men at the same time to "stack the deck" in her favor to make as much $ as possible. When the guys arrive at the same time there is obviously a scheduling conflict so the provider continues to "Bump" the guys in the parking lot while she continues to run an "all you can eat" buffet in the bedroom trying to service guys as quickly as possibly so as to direct the guys in the parking lot to the room (in essence, capitalizing on the quick buck - literally). If there are too many guys in the parking lot waiting for service, the provider might not be the organized scheduling genius and inevitably some guys will be left behind sitting there waiting for a chance to dine at the Y with no luck. Your lack of response when contacting the provider and continued "put offs" was her inability to fit in the masses so she ditched you "the Run" - my friend you just got involved in the "Bump and Run!"

As far as identifying the provider and publicly commenting on the events that happened calling for reform! - Didn't some people recently do the same thing publicly, oh yeah Egypt! And look what happened over there - I am just sayin...


LFG Originally Posted by Lakefrontguy

interesting you mention that I may have been a victim of bump n' run.

its prolly nothing but I did notice, while I was waiting, a grey suv pulled into a parking lot and parked some what near me and a guy got out and changed from wearing a business suit to T-shirt and went back in suv. Looked like he was waiting for someone. At that point, I left. soo, I don't know if he was still there after I left.

ok, ok.. you guys win.

her name is michelle foxx

The reason i stood u up is because of the other vehicle that pulled into the parking lot with you... It parked right by u and just sat there when i told u to move to the end of the hotel he got out and then got back in his car it freaked me out... I didnt know you were on Eccie or P411 or I wouldnt have thought u were a cop!

thought u were a cop! Originally Posted by michellefoxx

This sounds like a convient answer after the fact he just posted it lol.

But if you say so......he did say you had him waiting thirty minutes after he arrived at the appointed time. Care to divulge upon that......what did his references say........

I dont check references... Thats y i never knew he was on P411 or Eccie... Most guys will message me from eccie or p411 if there a member otherwise i dont know...i dont do alot of screening...
I asked him if he was alone cause that other cAr made me nervous and he said he was so i told him to pull to this side of the hotel and i would let him in so he moved where i told him to and the other car moved too... I was watching from the window and so it scared me and i didnt go let him in...

be careful


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=170958

]I dont check references... Thats y i never knew he was on P411 or Eccie... Most guys will message me from eccie or p411 if there a member otherwise i dont know...i dont do alot of screening...[/SIZE]
I asked him if he was alone cause that other cAr made me nervous and he said he was so i told him to pull to this side of the hotel and i would let him in so he moved where i told him to and the other car moved too... I was watching from the window and so it scared me and i didnt go let him in... Originally Posted by michellefoxx;1047871[SIZE=4

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Well sweety....I cannot fault you for "going with your gut feeling"...BUT your MAIN mistake is NOT SCREENING!
Any provider knows that screening is the ONLY way to stay safe & become reputable in the hobbying world!

Also you should have checked DF's profile out...he is a trusted dawg on here & has been since day one....and before that was a trusted dawg on raps...if you had screened him,you would have known that.
Next time,emil some of us other providers or trusted dawgs who have been around awhile and we can help you out with references and such.

Again,sorry that happened...but hindsight is 20/20

{Michelle,I am like the "momma hen" of the providers here...so feel free to pm me or email me if you need any help}

maybe if she screens in the future she wont be so paranoid

Well after reading the response - I cant fault Michelle for covering her butt. This seems to be simply a misunderstanding - from the client's perspective and the provider all of which could have been avoided if the provider choose to screen as opposed to on the spot assessment of LE Status. But to screen or not to screen is solely her choice. Better communication might have saved this encounter.....

LFG

my 2 cents providers sometime thinks it just there ass on the line! providers can be le just as us! i burn 70 dollars of gas when i go to new orleans and the last 3 time all 3 provider stood me up with some bs reason and 1 ncsn! just coz she throught he was a cop dont make it ok he lost time and money coz she didnt do her homework! to me that aother bs reason!

It is her choice to screen....and if she does screen it is her choice s to how extensive she wants to go

I was just stating that a thourogh screening process ensures safety for both client & provider
and by announcing that she does not screen,is like a red light for the le to take advantage of

{I am willing to help any provider out on here!}

I just want all of us on here to be safe ...and have fun!!!

I am trying to get better at screening... It was an honest mistake! Any ideas on how to screen better would be greatly appericated...

I dont check references... Originally Posted by michellefoxx

There you have it.

You're gonna get slammed for that mistake, and rightfully so. References exist to protect YOU (you got that? YOU!), and to prevent this kind of situation from ever happening in the first place.

You now have two choices...

- Get all defensive and bitchy about it and end up like all of the BP girls who can't keep their business straight (and this IS a business)...

- or learn from you mistake (we ALL make 'em), and go on to become a respected professional who enjoys a good reputation in the hobby.

The choice is yours, young Jedi provider. I hope you choose well.