WU said once that we are in control of how we react to what he says. I agree with that 100%. He can't affect anyone unless they let him. If they let him then that's on them. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
The best way to make WU insignificant would be not to pay him any attention.....Would you please save the psychology 101 sessions for others. Personally I read right through it.
Apparently he is significant to you? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
Before I move on, please let me do some enlightenment. On the last two socials I've been to, I've talked and hung out with wakeup. I find the man I talked to, to be highly intelligent, and in real life to be a very significant person. He's wanted and needed on the wall, and has seen and lived through terrors most of us will never know. In real life I like and admire this man, and I'm glad he's been armed and fighting for all of our rites. The real wakeup I know is a man I highly admire and respect, and one I would gladly call a friend.
But, that's the flesh and blood man.
Unfortunately we're living with another totally different person on this site. One who puts down people, uses the term 'whore' like it's nothing. One who is a very miserable person. One the real wakeup probably wouldn't care for.
I guess since most of us are guys, they don't think of the term 'whore' being inflammatory, but to the ladies on this board I would imagine it is. I know I think it's inflammatory, but then again, even when I was with providers, I called them ma'am, opened the door for them, etc. What am I supposed to do, say "open your own door whore?'' I don't think so. Then again, I'm at an age where some of this may be considered old school. Imagine manners and being polite to be old school, what a terrible thought.
I find the term whore and fatty such terms that others may find inflammatory, whether to a certain race, religion, job name, or whatever.
I have no doubt that if a person drops a derogatory term against a certain race of people (of the several races we encounter on this board) there would at least be points handed out and maybe a ban, so why can we use a derogatory term for providers on many occasions and freely get by with it? Is it because some guys on this board don't like providers to begin with, so they can use that term and nobody cares?
It bothers me that nobody seems to care, or those that do just don't feel like getting involved. We don't need to go there with those terms.
But why do we go there and nothing happens?
Is it because we're 'johns' posting on a 'whore' board, and since most of us are actually breaking the law, whether it's a ridiculous law or not, that we can out and out disregard being decent to others?
Maybe my feelings are wrong, or maybe their spot on. I don't really know, but it's something I feel strongly about.