ya'll must be..

I doubt anyone that asks for photo id is the damn rain man and can remember your id. If someone is seeing 2-5 ids a day how in the hell are they going to remember you?
"Wapner!"

How_many_toothpicks?

my advice to some of u...
take the road less traveled and see a provider that cares about safety, that screens the gents..you may have less problems with these situations.. like..ladies that will rip you ass off..pass out on you during a meet cuz she was buzzed outa her mind from being all jacked up on the wack or the liquor....or have a man jump outa the closet ready to strong arm you outa your money or has ya standing on a step for 20 min cuz she cant find the door to let you in..or you deal with someone banging on the door while your in the middle of the meet... Originally Posted by anita germane

You're absolutely right Anita. There's plenty of horror stories out there. It's not difficult avoiding a bad time with a provider if you use some sense. I didn't have a problem being screened by you since you come across as trustworthy. You're an awesome lady so it was well worth it.

Celso....nice to see there are those that understand ..way cool..

the zumba instructor..kinda a really crazy situation.....

cowboy8055....you were a true gentleman..thank you for making me feel at ease with you..
and by doing that.. i was able to connect with you the way you had in visioned...

Can't even remember Anita's screening being anything painful as it happened soo long ago.
I don't even remember how old she was back then since she's a good lookin' 476 yo now.

Safety warning: Just don't wear any bacon cologne around her!

"There is an imlied mutual discretion agreement that two people enter into. You should see people that you like. Don't betray people you like. They are human beings-like you. Respect their private lives and then you can expect the same reciprocity . If that trust is betrayed , you should expect a shit storm of problems-absolutely." Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

I like that quote.

I am having trouble with my taint withdrawals. I need some taint.

Anita, just the fucktards "Happy Hunting," and hang up. If they do not understand why you screen they are too stupid to bother with.

If a guy doesn't want to give me his personal information, I ALWAYS suggest joining P411.

Women need to be careful.

Guys have to be careful.

Providing references is fine.

Men take their professional and family lives at risk providing real-life info though.

It is a double-edge problem of getting references without giving up your real-life info.

Anita started the thread and I don't mean this against her. She's almost certainly fine to deal with.

Choose wisely. There can be some seriously dangerous women who present a good persona.

Look before you leap.

Occasionalstray..very very well said...

Indeed...

Occasionalstray..very very well said... Originally Posted by anita germane

Thank you. There was a risk that you would think I meant to attack you so I'm glad you took it in the spirit I intended.

Women need to be careful.

Guys have to be careful.

Providing references is fine.

Men take their professional and family lives at risk providing real-life info though.

It is a double-edge problem of getting references without giving up your real-life info.

Choose wisely. There can be some seriously dangerous women who present a good persona.

Look before you leap. Originally Posted by OccasionalStray

I could not have said it better, well done!

Thank you. There was a risk that you would think I meant to attack you so I'm glad you took it in the spirit I intended. Originally Posted by OccasionalStray

not at all... i and a good few other's here know exactly who..errrrrrrwhat you mean...

not at all... i and a good few other's here know what you mean... Originally Posted by anita germane

I think it is a truth since the advent of pay for play. There's probably a biblical warning about it, it's such an old truth. It will be true when my grrandson is tripping through the wild woods.

It is an incredibly expensive lesson to learn on your own unfortunately so it pays to heed the warning.