To all of my fellow black men

Guys, when you see a lady of a different race. please represent us well and properly!! And, NO, I'm not talking about how good you think you are at sex! just had a great (by everything I've been told and her reviews) provider tell me she is no longer seeing black men. I had been screened for over a MONTH! I don't know exactly why she changed her mind but it couldn't have been anything good. We already have to deal with the preconceived notions of others in everyday life without having it spill over into the hobbying lifestyle! Show some class!! Kinda pissed right now!

Good Luck - I'm a white guy but I served with a lot of great and honorable AA men in the military. Guys I would have went to the wall for - and they for me.

I hope most girls can keep this in perspective. Black or White - there are good and bad in all races and the only way you can weed out the bad ones is to do screening. If any woman is hesitant about seeing AA men - then I would recommend she not come out with a "blanket" NBA policy but instead ... choose to see the AA men that are well reviewed and known to be gentlemen.

I love men of ALL colors! I could cool you off, november24! Tonsil tickle!

I feel you November. I'm getting tired of dealing with it myself.

well said!

I hate that this kind of racial predujice happens......I luv all colors in the crayon box!

color DOES NOT make the man...RESPECT does!

well said!

I hate that this kind of racial predujice happens......I luv all colors in the crayon box!

color DOES NOT make the man...RESPECT does! Originally Posted by DallasRain

!!EXACTLY!!

It saddens me that, more often than not, we are judged as a group and not individuals.

Just a thought, maybe a sticky with a list of ladies who ARE friendly to all gentlemen?

Well guys this is kind of stuff I deal with with all the time, I even had one AA provider told me she would not see me because of a remark I made, it's like I am torn between two not black enough for my own and two black for the other !

But everyone that have

seen me know I am and always carry myself as a perfect gentleman !

It is a shame that the hobby has suffered in this manner. Most of the ads now days specify that most providers will not see AA men. I have asked the "WHY" question and have gotten various replys. LIke.......AA men will rob you if they get the chance...AA men abuse women....Young AA men do not have money because most of them do not work and they will try to screw you over.......Most AA men are into drugs and act like thugs. Better to not deal with them as most are dishonest.......They have earned the reputation that they now pack. My goodness...I do not know of which AA men they speak but...the men that I know are not of that ilk.....Perhaps I travel in different circles that providers do but its a shame to call all garbage "trash" for even trash has value. Captain Blade says it.

I have had guys, not from here, ask me if I see black men. When I said yes, these guys went off on me! I will not spend time, for any amount of money, with anyone who is so closed-minded!

Lat, I can most certainly vouche that u are a complete gentleman! I think the issues most of us have is that 40% of the AA population talk insanely ghetto (mumbling incoherently, being tacky about suggestive innuendos and just overall thug) but I have come in contact with this through the younger generation though. I do not discriminate one bit, but I have no patience with an improper introduction such as "what's up or sup". Or damn bitch, I'd tear that ass up! My response back is 500 an hour lmao!

Anyhoo, as much as I hate to hear it for the guys....try asking why a lady is the way she is and would it help if you could provide a chain of references to help persuade her

Nicolet I think you just hit the nail on the head. Sure, some providers are closed minded, but I also feel that the no AA clause is a kind of "memo" to would be clients who will not see a woman who has black clients.

40% of the black population speaks ghetto? I'm sure that is a completely accurate statistic backed by many years of research.

40% of the black population speaks ghetto? I'm sure that is a completely accurate statistic backed by many years of research. Originally Posted by TeddyRuxpin225

I agree. Maybe if you CHOOSE to hang around those who do, but none of the brothers I hang with do.