Lesbians as Providers....

There are many a man hating lesbian using guys as ATMs under the guise of a provider or a stripper.

too many guys tend to think they are different and/or special to some ladies and really matter.....

How would you feel to find out your ATF truly had NO desire for you because she's playing for the other team? to discover she was simply great at her "job"?

Do you WANT to lay down with her to TRY to convert her? or do you walk away knowing you truly do repulse her but she sucks it up and earns a living....

Not quite sure how it would make a difference in a p4p situation . We are cash to all of them , and it's all an act either way , so if the lesbian performs to a quality worth her rate , I don't believe it matters . As far as ATF , I believe it to be a limiting concept , way too many out there to try , to see any one more than a few times .

I say beat it up and laugh...... I would actually get off more if i knew she was a lesbien cause i know she wouldnt really be enjoying it, thrust after thrust..Poke after poke, hell if i knew which ones were lesbiens i would go after them.

I'm guessing hetero providers don't enjoy banging aging, balding fat mongers much more than lesbian providers do?

Regardless of what they pitch on the boards I believe they enjoy sex with their S.O for the most part and on rare occasion with a client they might have chemistry with. It's a business.

Who cares who they prefer to fuck on their own time?

It's all a fantasy to us either way.

Gee ... do I know if they are lesbians? No, not if they are good at their job.
Gee ... do I know if I repulse them? No, not if they are good at their job.
So .. do I care? No, not if they are good at their job.

Seems to be a theme here....

As Codybeast said, "It's all a fantasy to us either way."

Makes no fucking difference to me as long as they offer (see signature line).

Been served and milked by both and it was all good so far ...

THX Ladies.

Lesbians or not they are all here for your money and good laughs when you leave. They know that guys think with their little heads and they take advantage of that with their big heads. Also, if any guy thinks that their so called ATF cares for them, they don't it's only your money so who cares what they are?

It wouldn't matter as long as she shows that illusion of passion.

Full on, man hating Lesbian? I'd walk away and find another one. Bisexual? I may stick around depending how good she is at her job.

I know one, a very well known provider. She lives with her lover and has told me it is BS when guys write about her having O's etc. She has a beautiful body and she fucks and sucks like any other good provider. I get relief at a very discounted rate and to me that matters because it is an exchange of services for a price. Nothing more,nothing less.

Lesbians or not they are all here for your money and good laughs when you leave. They know that guys think with their little heads and they take advantage of that with their big heads. Also, if any guy thinks that their so called ATF cares for them, they don't it's only your money so who cares what they are? Originally Posted by Passion2015

I feel for those who believe that sex workers lack authenticity. That's not the case with many of the ladies that I know, me included.

I have a few "ATF's" and although I'm not in their personal lives, I do care what happens to them.

If I, personally, felt the same way as others are writing about (laughing at you when you leave, etc.), I wouldn't be inclined to GIVE my money to someone like that.

If I, personally, felt that this was all a huge joke and that I was taking advantage of my client base while laughing behind their backs, I wouldn't be doing this.

It would go against my nature.

I know that there is some truth to what the OP wrote. But jeesh. Positive thoughts are just always good. Especially when making blanket statements like a few of the above.

Pollyanna kisses,
Elisabeth

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Originally Posted by Passion2015
Lesbians or not they are all here for your money and good laughs when you leave. They know that guys think with their little heads and they take advantage of that with their big heads. Also, if any guy thinks that their so called ATF cares for them, they don't it's only your money so who cares what they are?
I feel for those who believe that sex workers lack authenticity. That's not the case with many of the ladies that I know, me included.

I have a few "ATF's" and although I'm not in their personal lives, I do care what happens to them.

If I, personally, felt the same way as others are writing about (laughing at you when you leave, etc.), I wouldn't be inclined to GIVE my money to someone like that.

If I, personally, felt that this was all a huge joke and that I was taking advantage of my client base while laughing behind their backs, I wouldn't be doing this.

It would go against my nature.

I know that there is some truth to what the OP wrote. But jeesh. Positive thoughts are just always good. Especially when making blanket statements like a few of the above.

Pollyanna kisses,
Elisabeth

Well Elisabeth, if your statement is true your one of the few. Thanks from all of us even though we have never met

I am a firm believer that what you put out, you get back. Like attracts like. I would not want to see a client that thought so little of me. I used to see people like that. It just made me colder. Their have been times when I felt jaded. Those were some dark times when I didn't like myself very much and I attracted much of the same energy. I changed my attitude and my clients changed! I have to say, I truely enjoy most all of my clients and do care for them and respect them. They treat me the same. Putting on a facade is so draining. I couldn't imagine doing it anymore.

Someone once told me, "be anyone in that room with a Guy but yourself." Worst advice ever!! When I ALLOWED myself to be open and real and perhaps a little bit vulnerable even, I thoroughly enjoyed my time with my clients.

Just because it's a business doesn't mean you can't love your job! Of course their are clients
that you don't just connect with on any level. It sucks when that happens, but it doesn't happen often if you just act like yourself. YMMV I guess.

I couldn't imagine being a lesbian provider. I think that would be aweful. I'd die if I had to be with wokmen all the time!

Well it seems that we have atleast 2 ladies here that are genuine and that's nice to see although I haven't either one of them.

Thanks ladies

Full on, man hating Lesbian? I'd walk away and find another one. Bisexual? I may stick around depending how good she is at her job. Originally Posted by illuminati

As if you would be able to figure it out, obviously they are not going to up and tell you that they don't like penis as they are trying to get your $.

When I was in college I bartended up at Joy for about a year. It is a very different atmosphere behind the scenes. I was shocked at the percentage of ladies that were lesbian (the percentage is really, really high) and almost all were at least bi. The way they talked about patrons behind their back and thought of them was eye opening and after I stopped working there it was at least 5 years before I hit a strip club again. They talked about the hustle and used terms like "there's money walking in the door". Most of these girls were very jaded by the patrons as well. The guys are trying to bang them and the ladies are trying to hustle the guys. Now this was back in 1999 before the economy took a serious nose dive and when clubs were a lot busier and ladies made a lot more.

Strippers and Providers may do similar things but the mindsets are not the same. Strippers are like BP providers in that they are trying to do as little as possible to get your money. Strippers don't consider themselves providers and some do not do extra's and others only will if they can't get your $$ any other way while so are just like providers and it's just about figuring out the deal.

With that said it is all about IOP, no guy truly knows what's what but in reading the reviews some ladies do a great job. (of course having said that a huge percentage of guys who write reviews write them for their own ego boost more then to share factual information.) So all those O's could be completely made up by the guy and not pretended by the lady (although I'm sure there is a good mix of both). That doesn't mean that some of the ladies on here don't care about their clients, I'm sure they do but in the end it is a business and great customer service is always appreciated.


As far as the original question about caring about lesbians or not. As stated previously it's all about the IOP so gay or straight doesn't have any baring on the session itself if the guy enjoys it.