NEVER, EVER provide any real life information to an SP, she can tell you how much you can trust her as she wants, DO NOT.
No real name, no address, no employer, no NOTHING. If She insists, Just move on.
There are other SP's that are newbie friendly and do not need your real life information. Once you get established with them, then they can help you with vouches and references.
This information can be used against you at any time.
Also, make sure that you use a Hobby phone and not a real life personal phone.
As the old saying goes;
To your Friend no secret tell
When your Friend becomes your Foe
Your secret everyone will know Originally Posted by cnym
So, you want to book an appointment, usually with a gal who works out of her home/apartment/whatever, go over, fuck her, and bail, all without providing a shred of proof that you are safe, and if she asks for it, to shove off??? Seriously.........now you see her home, have her address, likely will glance and see a piece of mail in her kitchen, and god forbid, she knows your real name. Given this is only really an issue for newbies, references alone are enough for most providers, so long as you have them. Without them, you are going to need to prove you are safe one way or another, or it's your loss, certainly not hers.......we are a dime a dozen.