My Response to My First Bad Review

Sigh. I've always done what I can to ensure clients are pleased. As I do not know what was in the review I will explain what happened from my point of view. I got there and we decided to drink and relax. So we played some video games (which I sucked at). I wasn't really watching the clock. I realized we had been doing so for an hour so I was teasing him about sitting far away from me and for him to join me on the bed. It was like dragging a turtle out of it's shell. It was like he was shy. We had hung out before and I thought of him as a friend. So I finally managed to get him in the bed (after he was walking around his apartment for a little bit doing I don't know what). I start to cuddle with him to get him started. He's specifically was looking for someone to be rough with. So I encouraged that. We switched a couple of positions and he would yell out that he was enjoying it while I took the pain. I was way in over my head. In the beginning it was great. But half way through when the alcohol was wearing off and it become super painful for me because of his size. And I couldn't provide the way I normally do. And I failed him.

Like I told him..I wish he had told me he was unhappy. I would've happily made up for it. I take the man's lead most of the time. Especially then and I admit. That shit hurt but I took it because I wanted to please him. But I wasn't encouraging him on either. I was too busy trying to take the pain. So again. My apologies. I now know that I am not compatible with BIG sizes because it interferes with my ability to perform. I'd rather not be fighting pain. I'd rather be enjoying my time.

Well that's my side of it. I have no ill feelings towards him. I am sorry I couldn't please you and I did try. I would've tried to make up for it with a BNG or something but I don't think that matters anymore. The damage has been done. I was in the wrong and I admit that. I thought I could handle the pain but I couldn't. It was out of my area of expertise. I was concentrating on tolerating the pain so much that I couldn't really get into it. So I know he has reason to be upset. I left so quickly because I was near tears at the end from the pain. I'm sorry, PlayIVKeeps. I really did try to make you happy. I am deeply saddened that I failed.

Malaya

Malaya, Thanks for your POV! First off it's your body. No one should ever have to be in a painful meeting. I would stood up and told him to leave right away. Never does anyone have to be put in that situation. Also don't let one single review bring you down. You didn't fail you did best to please him the way he wanted. You keep being happy Malya! <3

It's my fault because I thought I could take the pain. He asked me beforehand and gave me fair amount of warning. I thought it would be no big deal since I like rough sex anyways. I screwed up and was in WAY over my head.

It makes me sad to think about what you have just stated. I can't imagine feeling that uncomfortable during a session. Sex should always be enjoyable......I would have told him how I felt if I wasn't enjoying it-even if it meant giving up 50% of the donation. I have only had to stop a guy that I felt was disrespecting me and my time once since joining eccie and he didnt say shit about it because he knew what he tried to do was wrong. This is why I hardly ever try to meet anyone new-so thankful for my regulars. I get so nervous meeting new guys anyways. Malaya......I'm sorry you had to go through that:'(

Aw sweetie. I'm sorry that you both had an unpleasant time. It happens. You cannot expect to please everyone, all of the time. All you can say is at least you tried.

Darlin,

All of us here at the ECCIE community know you and respect you. We have read your silly posts and laughed with you, we have read your serious post and pondered your pov, and we are still going to love you through and through. Stay strong sweets.

Dang, I that's terrible you felt pain during a session. You are in control, ALWAYS. Never forget that.

I will say I've met him a few go arounds, he is like you say a cool guy. I wouldn't say he was biggest ive seen here. I'm not you though. I was unsure of him the first time I met with him but we Found a position that works for both us. ND like you say he wanted "Rough" I didn't get that. Every time he was gentle and it was great.
I hope you're okay Malaya
Don't let it get you down. You did your best. Plus...We don't know what made him write the No.

Question: It was days ago y now are you telling your side. If you we're having one of your "tear drop" moment why didn't you tell us then??


**please know I do understand your pain. i had to come back to edit because I don't want you think I'm being mean..I've felt the need to quit a session due to pain, like a guy with a shaven beard with rough subs giving me pleasure. ITS NOT PLEASURABLE i have to stop them

Dang, I that's terrible you felt pain during a session. You are in control, ALWAYS. Never forget that.

I will say I've met him a few go arounds, he is like you say a cool guy. I wouldn't say he was biggest ive seen here. I'm not you though. I was unsure of him the first time I met with him but we Found a position that works for both us. ND like you say he wanted "Rough" I didn't get that. Every time he was gentle and it was great.
I hope you're okay Malaya
Don't let it get you down. You did your best. Plus...We don't know what made him write the No.

Question: It was days ago y now are you telling your side. If you we're having one of your "tear drop" moment why didn't you tell us then??


**please know I do understand your pain. i had to come back to edit because I don't want you think I'm being mean..I've felt the need to quit a session due to pain, like a guy with a shaven beard with rough subs giving me pleasure. ITS NOT PLEASURABLE i have to stop them Originally Posted by me_jucci

I only saw the review today. I didn't see the post date. I've been working so much with my new job that I haven't much of a chance to get on.

nvm

First off it's your body. No one should ever have to be in a painful meeting. I would stood up and told him to leave right away. Never does anyone have to be put in that situation. Originally Posted by Sonya Playmate

This misunderstands the situation. I agree with you on this point if he had started to get rough with her without talking about it. From her post it seems they talked about it before hand and it was agreed to. Unless i'm misunderstanding something she did not tell him that she was no longer enjoying it, so why should he be told to leave right away if it was something he thought she was ok with.

He asked me beforehand and gave me fair amount of warning. I thought it would be no big deal since I like rough sex anyways. I screwed up and was in WAY over my head. Originally Posted by Malaya

Given your reputation and what has been reviewed of you in the past, this will have very little effect on you. Sometime things can be off for whatever reason and two people will not mesh for whatever reason. I know your on my list.

My response is coming

This misunderstands the situation. I agree with you on this point if he had started to get rough with her without talking about it. From her post it seems they talked about it before hand and it was agreed to. Unless i'm misunderstanding something she did not tell him that she was no longer enjoying it, so why should he be told to leave right away if it was something he thought she was ok with. Originally Posted by Chuck12

Chuck12, If you notice I backed out of this thread. I think it's best between them two now.

Malaya, you are a sweetheart and this post of yours is extremely classy. You have such a huge fan base with so many GLOWING reviews, so I doubt this will affect you. It is YOUR body and you have every right to stop if you are in pain. If a client does not understand that, then he is not a gentleman.

Next time do the math. Huge cock + rough = redsnapper.

Change ur tag line. Like an animal, small cocks only.

This is purely humor. I have no idea, but one won't do too much damage, how could u know he wasn't exagarating with that 12 in the handle.

Let it go move on.