mmmm I think the phrase is "It ain't trickin' if you got it".
Cheating is cheating regardless of the $ factor. But you handing over some bills means (I'm assuming) that you are less emotionally cheating and just physically cheating. There is a slight difference there.
Therapeutic release after vagino-penile massage. Simply a medical masotherapy technique meant to keep the prostate clear. After all, do guys complain that there woman is getting fingered everytime she goes to the gynecologist?? Hell no!! It's all about health!!
Yeah I have heard this line of crap before.. Yes, its still cheating. If she doesn't know and you don't have her full blessing and permission ..then it's cheating.