Important information for the Gentlemen...

The LADIES on this board should be treated like LADIES.
If you want the consequences of BB go to MOCO or Craigslist. The chics over there obviously don't care.
Leave our LADIES alone.

The LADIES on this board should be treated like LADIES.
If you want the consequences of BB go to MOCO or Craigslist. The chics over there obviously don't care.
Leave our LADIES alone. Originally Posted by golfnwine

+1000

I understand what you saying ....I sorry

I am sad and angry to hear some of our wonderful and absolutely gorgeous ladies of this community have had to go through this it is absolutely ridiculous that there are some guys out there that try and ruin it for the rest of us. While I have only been hobbying since April I would never ask a lady for bbfs that's just not right.

Stay safe ladies!

and to those idiots out there I have only one thing to say to you:

AMAZING YOU TRULY ARE MISS AMBER!! ! And your even more stunning when you are angry my dear. I am officially turned on. Send me your new number lady. Love, Ginger

I don't understand why a guy would want BB, well they say it feels better but still not safe. Do they not understand how they can affect the life of the girl as well as themselves. Maybe you girls need to compile a list of these guys. Don't you have a girls lounge like the guys have a mens lounge for that kind of info?

There is no slip, girls don't fall for that. I have had a girl suggest that it could happen for more $$ during our early conversations. So I decided not to see her.

So thanks girls for standing your ground.

Travlerman... if the OLD Ginger were here with us she would say some sarcastic shit such as, " We arent allowed to discuss details like that without getting pointed or warned." Then she would no doubt drop off an F bomb or 2. But that was the OLD Ginger... lol.

Complain all you want about guys "ASKING" to bare back in the hobby, but probably the reason the guys "ASK"...is because there are plenty of providers (I'm referring to the eccie providers..not just craigslist etc) that do it. Better that the guys ask...before forcing themselves on you IMO.

Complain all you want about guys "ASKING" to bare back in the hobby, but probably the reason the guys "ASK"...is because there are plenty of providers (I'm referring to the eccie providers..not just craigslist etc) that do it. Better that the guys ask...before forcing themselves on you IMO. Originally Posted by txrancher1

I agree. I have heard of more than a dozen ladies that provide it but, that makes it hard for those of us who do not.

I am not a hard ass by any means but, when I do finally get pushed to my limit....well lets just say this little texas girl will go banana sandwich on someone real quick. My experience though with the bb request in person was a fragile situation.

There is a BIG difference between asking and trying to force it. We all know it happens so a polite request is not something to get excited about. However, an attempt to force the issue or do it regardless of a no response deserves a knee to the nuts.

There is a BIG difference between asking and trying to force it. We all know it happens so a polite request is not something to get excited about. However, an attempt to force the issue or do it regardless of a no response deserves a knee to the nuts.

When I referred to "force" bareback I used a poor choice of words. Hopefully we don't have guys that force bareback (rape). I was referring to the guys that instead of "asking" they do the "accidental" insertion and attempt to claim it was unintentional. If you want to bareback....just ask her first. ALWAYS!

Hey, I feel if a guy wants to bareback with a provider he should ask straight up. She SHOULDN'T get offended if the question comes up. She should stick to what she wants to do and he shouldn't get upset if she refuses. That's not saying I believe that's the safest thing to do, but to think it doesn't happen with frequency with eccie providers and hobbiest isn't being realistic.

I've been in the hobby for many years dating back to aspd....the stuff happens and we all know it.

While it might be better (in your eyes) to ask for bareback service rather than "accidentally" initiate it, clearly the OP and a fair number of the ladies are not in agreement. I would not risk getting on Amber's DNS list when she has been very clear about this. Or any of the other fine ladies, for that matter. We are entering their business space. We don't get to dictate the policies, they do. We get to choose if we are cool with their policies. If not, choose again. Arguing or trying to justify deviations from their policies is pointless.

I would think that there would be ... or maybe there should be ... a thread in the lady only section that would contain a list of hobbyists who did the 'ooops' thing and those who have asked for it. But then again that could be abused by a vindictive lady. Dunno the answer, I just feel badly for ladies like Bailey and Amber who have had to endure this type of thing here.