No it isn't timewasting. Many providers just don't have a clue why the gentlemen are there. In fact, they deliver a covered up version of 'you paid! My legs are spread , it is your hour. Enjoy yourself and get out!' There is so much more to a REAL WOMAN than what is between her legs. There is so much more to men then what they can afford. If two people spend time just holding each other and enjoying the fact that they have some peace and pleasure for an hour or more what truly is exchanged is worth more than money or sex. Maybe that is why I haven't retired yet. I have been with some REAL WOMEN and not just a few whores.
Originally Posted by heinz5710
The above quoted excerpt is one of the most accurate statements I have read here.
Most men (hobbyists and civilians) crave attention from women. They want to be appreciated and respected. And they want someone who wants to please them and is eager to accept the pleasure they have to offer. It's a simple concept really.
And in exchange for this, men will HAPPILY shower a woman with cash and gifts (big or small depending on their means). I'm constantly blown away by the men who seek me out because I know how to treat a man (in and out of the bedroom) and I can have an intelligent conversation.
I've been approached about 5 times in the last month by men seeking to "keep" me...I just kind of give off that vibe, I guess. Plus, I'm in Houston where "Keeping" a woman is seen as a status symbol. I'm extremely lucky that I can pick and choose the men with whom I choose to spend time.