Common Courtesy

Ok I know this has been discussed. So all you trollers who like to reiterate this please don't do it here. I get it. Now that's out the way. I need to speak on this because I have NEVER nc/ns on anyone. I always show up to appts on time, and I stay professional. Well this has happened to me before and I really was bothered by it. Clients (some not all) don't understand the time that is put into an appt.

Some providers me as well have lives and children outside of this hobby. So I plan my whole day of appts around that. The money also for purchasing rooms, lingerie, toys, water (drinks) etc also come into play and gas.

When you nc/ns, and/or don't pay, or anything having to do with that WITHOUT an explanation is like a big ass slap in the face. THIS GOES FOR PROVIDERS ALSO. Ladies when you do that it makes you look bad, and us girls who are busting our asses to make sure are reputations stay up to par. Its uncouth and unprofessional on both parts.

So just a reminder clients please as soon as possible let the provider know if you can't make it. Same with providers. And too the ones making providers drive to the middle of nowhere and not showing up is really bad.


Common courtesy goes along way with me. It makes me the suckin and fuckin I provide well worth it. Thanks for reading. ♥ Originally Posted by Kammye
I do share your sentiment, but the fact is that 99.9% of these wankers couldn't give two fucks if they NCNS you. They care about getting their rocks off, not much more...
Your choice of wording Is uncooth but I love it!!! ♡ Originally Posted by Kammye
HaHa! Yeah Baby! Listen up girl ... With that government shutdown and all Humpty's social security check running a little late this month. So till my check come in let Humpty take a little peek at ya snatch. Just a little peek Baby till my check come in ... Send me a PM baby (for Humpty that mean Pretty Man). HaHa! Yeah Baby!
Agreed Val....



I do share your sentiment, but the fact is that 99.9% of these wankers couldn't give two fucks if they NCNS you. They care about getting their rocks off, not much more... Originally Posted by Valerie
I NCNS one time. I was 4 hours late it getting back to her. I apologized and she was nice enough to let me reschedule. I paid her double for doing that. It wasn't her fault.
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I NCNS one time. I was 4 hours late it getting back to her. I apologized and she was nice enough to let me reschedule. I paid her double for doing that. It wasn't her fault. Originally Posted by tbone2u
Of course you did - you are one of the nice guys.
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I do share your sentiment, but the fact is that 99.9% of these wankers couldn't give two fucks if they NCNS you. They care about getting their rocks off, not much more... Originally Posted by Valerie
Clearly some guys feel this way but I hope the percentage is closer to 5-10 percent. I do care greatly about getting my rocks off, but doing a NCNS would be unthinkable unless I was incapacitated in some way. While I have no way of knowing this for sure, I have to think that the vast majority of guys feel the same way.

I'll also say that in my experience the opposite is also true. Over the years I've had more sessions than I can count and I have only experienced a NCNS a few times, and the last one was years ago. I've had providers cancel or postpone for various reasons, but a NCNS has been extremely rare. Of course, now I have probably jinxed myself and I'll get NCNS'd on my next appointment.
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I've had it happen to me a couple of times.....a quick text or phone call does not take that much effort on either part.....I have had to cancel a couple of times due to work but have always made an effort to contact the provider well ahead of time.....as a matter of fact, one of the few appts I have ever cancelled on was the first time visit with Kammye....I sent her a message early that morning....she replied back shortly after and said no prob.....ended up re-scheduling a different day, and very glad I did....need to do it again.
THIS NCNS SHIT!!! JUST HAPPENED TO ME TODAY. And from someone who i've known for almost 3 years....its sad. I have realized in this business it mostly happens WITH the ones who are comfortable with you, and think it's the same the other way around. "And they think they can get away with it" - JUST A CALL TO SAY you can't make it would be nice. I swear some days i just want to stick to my normal 2pm-10pm job and call it a fucking day.

BUT I LIKE this BUSINESS too much to call it quits. It's too much FUN

AND yes everyone's opinion of what common courtesy is, CAN BE DIFFERENT. But there are basic obvious rules that we should all follow. Being 10 min away from a providers incall and saying you'll be right there and THENNNN NCNS'ing is a bunch of bull. That is just messed up.

I swear in the 3 years i've been in this business i've only been NCNS'd by someone i have met with multiple times in the past. Except one other time by a newbie. LOL my own fault with that one.
It's such a simple courtesy to make the call and prevent a NCNS. It's only a 10 digit number
Excatly.



It's such a simple courtesy to make the call and prevent a NCNS. It's only a 10 digit number Originally Posted by Seeking ~P




I've had it happen to me a couple of times.....a quick text or phone call does not take that much effort on either part.....I have had to cancel a couple of times due to work but have always made an effort to contact the provider well ahead of time.....as a matter of fact, one of the few appts I have ever cancelled on was the first time visit with Kammye....I sent her a message early that morning....she replied back shortly after and said no prob.....ended up re-scheduling a different day, and very glad I did....need to do it again. Originally Posted by Russ38




I've had it happen to me a couple of times.....a quick text or phone call does not take that much effort on either part.....I have had to cancel a couple of times due to work but have always made an effort to contact the provider well ahead of time.....as a matter of fact, one of the few appts I have ever cancelled on was the first time visit with Kammye....I sent her a message early that morning....she replied back shortly after and said no prob.....ended up re-scheduling a different day, and very glad I did....need to do it again. Originally Posted by Russ38
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If I come back to this threAD in another 1hr 45mins will Russ38 get another heart, Kammye???
If I come back to this threAD in another 1hr 45mins will Russ38 get another heart, Kammye??? Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
I hope so. He needs one after the anal pounding KatieKatie is giving him on another thread.
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I hope so. He needs one after the anal pounding KatieKatie is giving him on another thread. Originally Posted by BFCjosh
Really...BFC....Lol...maybe you should re-read