OK. Assuming legit OP.Thanks, that is a great way of putting it. Looking back, I can see where that has occurred from time to time, albeit somewhat rarely.
Success rate with civvies goes way, way up if the girl gives some sort of "buy" or "talk to me" signal.
Eye contact at bar.
Change from work conversation at retail to personal conversation to flirt.
Look for the buy signals.
Everything else is just polite chit chat in public. Originally Posted by aaronatx