You scheduled an appointment, have a session and then you find out you were with a man....

Apparently there are some post op TS'S that don't feel they need to disclose they are or were men. They claim they have had "the change" and they are woman and have government documentation that says they are a woman. The question is... should a post OP TS relay they were once a man or should they not since in their minds they now feel they are woman?



http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=914946

Interesting. some of the guys who comment about not crossing swords are going to have to find a new catchphrase dealing with the chromosomal level.

They definitely need to be honest and communicate that regardless of how they feel. Would it be fair to them to get paid with Monopoly money just because in my mind I feel and believe is real money?

They definitely need to be honest and communicate that regardless of how they feel. Would it be fair to them to get paid with Monopoly money just because in my mind I feel and believe is real money? Originally Posted by superunknown

I like that. Can I use that?

The person in your example link does put it up front in her ad...

I don't have an answer to your question, but I have another question.

If you saw a girl that was totally hot, had a session with her that was totally hot, and left feeling totally satisfied....then found out later she was once a 'he'...what is the problem? What is your concern? I must be missing a point somewhere...

If you saw a girl that was totally hot, had a session with her that was totally hot, and left feeling totally satisfied....then found out later she was once a 'he'...what is the problem? What is your concern? I must be missing a point somewhere...

Originally Posted by FootLong

If I agree to see Jerri but Jerri is really Jerry, we have a HUGE problem. I don't give a flying fuck how good of a time I had. Point blank, I ain't no colon cowboy!!

It should be disclosed if a provider is a TS period. People have the right to choose who they are with. There is a very big risk of someone getting hurt or worse by not being up front about something like this.

I ain't no colon cowboy!! Originally Posted by playIVkeeps

Colon cowboy............

Full disclosure should be the rule...........IMO

Joe Buck makes a good point, regarding consequences.

I want to see the SL Tee Photo Bomb series of the one in question

+1 -- I agree, but what do think is that it may depend to some men what the provider looks like. I have nothing against the LGBT community. Some of my friends are of the community. But my friends who are POST OP understand that is not the way I would go.

It should be disclosed if a provider is a TS period. People have the right to choose who they are with. There is a very big risk of someone getting hurt or worse by not being up front about something like this.

http://la.backpage.com/TranssexualEs...word=post%20op

http://www.erostranssexuals.com/files/392931.htm

http://toronto.backpage.com/FemaleEs...nd-24/10261223

A man should know or suspect he is dealing with a ts. They all act and speak a certain way and use key words that I've been able to pick up on to know this dude is a dude lol

And yes they should let the customer know it's the right thing to do.

"Colon cowboy" is not technically accurate - unless you fuck her in the ass. She is post-op, so she has a 'pussy', albeit a manufactured one.

But I get it. Most guys have a mental aversion to being intimate with someone who has male DNA, even if they look and act completely like a female. I envision a future where you perform a quick DNA scan before proceeding with the encounter...

If this were not an SL thread, it could almost get philosophical!

I guess I concur with Joe Buck. Based on the passions expressed, it is best to fully disclose up front to avoid the possibility of someone getting hurt. I believe most TS do in fact disclose this. But I can see how someone who has had the 'change' and always thought of herself as 'female' might lose sight of the reason for disclosure.

The person in your example link does put it up front in her ad...

I don't have an answer to your question, but I have another question.

If you saw a girl that was totally hot, had a session with her that was totally hot, and left feeling totally satisfied....then found out later she was once a 'he'...what is the problem? What is your concern? I must be missing a point somewhere...

Originally Posted by FootLong

Check again FL. She only disclosed after it was brought up by another member. That's when the dynamics of the thread totally changed and even prompted a new thread being started in COED.

So if I blind fold you and your happy with the results it doesn't matter who did the deed? Guy, Girl, Shaved Down Big Foot so long as it feels good?

"Colon cowboy" is not technically accurate - unless you fuck her in the ass. She is post-op, so she has a 'pussy', albeit a manufactured one.

But I get it. Most guys have a mental aversion to being intimate with someone who has male DNA, even if they look and act completely like a female. I envision a future where you perform a quick DNA scan before proceeding with the encounter...

If this were not an SL thread, it could almost get philosophical!

I guess I concur with Joe Buck. Based on the passions expressed, it is best to fully disclose up front to avoid the possibility of someone getting hurt. I believe most TS do in fact disclose this. But I can see how someone who has had the 'change' and always thought of herself as 'female' might lose sight of the reason for disclosure. Originally Posted by FootLong

My how we flip flopped so quickly! I don't judge you FL. You have the right to do your own thing! I respect that!

Hell, SL.
I blindfold you and I don't tell you what for, you'd be satisfied with a hummer from either one. Probably moreso with the same sex since they know the equipment intimately.