Should you, or should you not?

I was on ban during that thread. Haven't seen it till now. And I didn't start this to see who I can hit up lol. Thus, the difference between myself and whoever might started a similar thread. This is about providers giving bs stories for $. A sd/sb relationship is completely different. There is an arrangement and agreement and a bit more personal relationship. IMO Originally Posted by bustyamy

I agree that there is a completely different thing there - the SD|SB relationship is strikingly different from the "needs help" situation.

To me, the "needs help" must feel like a genuine request and has to come from an honest place in their heart. You were right - when you are someone who likes to help, it can often be hard to discern who gets help and who does not. The girl I mentioned told one girl what I did for her, and that girl was herself a stripper who saw clients.

She asked me for help, but that girl was someone I could not see really wanting out (and hence my example, which she did right in front of me). You want to help everyone, but you can not. It's tough.

There are to many great guys who get their heart strings pulled all because they have a good heart. Predators take advantage of that. They sense it. I say see who you want, its your time and $. For the good hearted guys it can go against you. Take a page from Treys book, most of it is lies!

"Help" . . .Doesn't this segway into being a SD/SB arrangement?

We have a whole forum on this. Originally Posted by ICU 812

Where? In the ML where you can't get the input of a lady?

Where? In the ML where you can't get the input of a lady? Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Main page....
http://www.eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=1359

There are to many great guys who get their heart strings pulled all because they have a good heart. Predators take advantage of that. They sense it. I say see who you want, its your time and $. For the good hearted guys it can go against you. Take a page from Treys book, most of it is lies! Originally Posted by bustyamy

Amen, girl.

Just don't do loans if you can help it .... you stop being a "friend" and just become a creditor and that can really spoil things.

Busty: Sorry . . .I shot from the hip on that a before thinking all about it. Didn't mean to stir up any $h!t.

We drama-free?

Busty: Sorry . . .I shot from the hip on that a before thinking all about it. Didn't mean to stir up any $h!t.

We drama-free? Originally Posted by ICU 812

We are good sweetheart

What about the reverse argument? -- a guy who is running low on funds but still wants to get laid. Should the lady help him out (read as - give him a discount) because he has seen her before, sees her regularly, always pays full fare, etc? I've never heard of this happening and doubt any provider would help a guy out.
(There were lots of threads here, I didn't read all of them, so sorry if someone already asked this.)

If you want to save something, save a puppy

What about the reverse argument? -- a guy who is running low on funds but still wants to get laid. Should the lady help him out (read as - give him a discount) because he has seen her before, sees her regularly, always pays full fare, etc? I've never heard of this happening and doubt any provider would help a guy out.
(There were lots of threads here, I didn't read all of them, so sorry if someone already asked this.) Originally Posted by joecarioca

No, sex is not a necessity. Food, rent, diaper etc is. For sex just choke the chicken...

No, sex is not a necessity. Food, rent, diaper etc is. For sex just choke the chicken... Originally Posted by bustyamy

Kids are not a necessity either. Close your legs or abort the bastard and you won't go broke. Your kids are not my problem. If you weren't busy shooting out illegitimate kids you could house and feed yourself.

Kids are not a necessity either. Close your legs or abort the bastard and you won't go broke. Your kids are not my problem. If you weren't busy shooting out illegitimate kids you could house and feed yourself. Originally Posted by Trey

TFF

I dont mind if a provider sends a PM to me..If I enjoyed her company and she is working for it, I dont see a problem..

If they have a special I am all for hearing about it. A woman I have been seeing awhile offers 200-100-100 on sessions. In other words first session is at 200 - the next two are at 100 with no time limit as to when to take them. Works for me.

On the other hand, sugar dating is NSA so I will see them when I feel like it and can afford it. I don't owe them anything beyond services rendered in a good session. I do owe myself to stay on budget and not be led into more sessions than I need. I do add extra for photos, bikini modeling, lap dances etc. Because I have several girls on roster x strippers, sugar dating site gals, I don't want a bunch of them calling me at once anymore than I would want Outback, TGI Fridays, Chilis, calling me at once.

I find the smart ones will text me Sunday nite or early Monday "What does your schedule look like this week" and possible make a discounted offer like "we can do Wednesday at $200, dances, modeling, pics and the next two are at $100." I usually like concentrating on one girl who is a good performer or rotating just 2 or 3. I just like a core group of good, reliable performers, who I perceive as safe vs pg and std risk plus aren't fucked out. If a provider is doing a group whom I feel is a risk say for some std like HIV or stretched, loose as goose then I will drop her. The girl who has a high level of interest gets my business vs the girl who hangs back and appears lukewarm.

If you as a hobbyist are bothered by them calling / texting you just say "cant meet lack of funds," "out of town in Pompano Beach" or if you want to get rid of them for good "found non pay relationship me no longer pay." I believe its better to defer however than burn any bridges. Another approach: Tell her "Baby all I have is $100 - can you meet?"