2 NCNS in 2 days...WTH

Well, I had an appointment yesterday in Biloxi with an established provider for 3:00pm (over 60 miles from where I live). I didn't hear from her until around 7m or so and she said she had a family emergency and had to leave. That I understand. I just wish she had let me know before I drove for an hour and waited for an hour past my appointment time since she had my cell # and I pm'd her several times.

Today, I had an appointment at 2:30 with another established provider closer to home. Even had PMs as of 11:30ish this morning talking about it. It is now 3:45 and she hasn't responded to my PMs or text/called me and she had my cell # as well.

WTH?? Am I on a blacklist or something???
mzluvly's Avatar
so sorry to hear that.....
DallasRain's Avatar
sorry that happened....dont give up as there are alot of sexy women here that will show up & rock your world!
Trust me, they would let us all know out here in the open, why not tell us all who they are?
Chella: Because even though I was stood up, and my balls hurt from being blue, I don't always know what happened to cause it. Life happens, I get that. You never know, bridges left unburned may be crossed again in the future.
I don't know bro. I may have to agree with chela on this one. I just found out not 10 minutes ago that I have a "no show" on date check from a visiting provider when in reality I was 5-10 minutes late because I was trying to get her money. I've been wondering why certain providers I've seen didn't give me an okay on p411 when I asked so that may be it. This was two months ago and she must have just done this
Fuck me once, its on me, fuck me twice, well in chellas world there is no twice when it came to a ncns, what if you waste your time again, then what? Even if they had emergencies, in a real world job they have to call in, it only would have taken less than a minute to let you know.

Just not cool

Chella: Because even though I was stood up, and my balls hurt from being blue, I don't always know what happened to cause it. Life happens, I get that. You never know, bridges left unburned may be crossed again in the future. Originally Posted by voidspawn2000
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Fuck me once, its on me, fuck me twice, well in chellas world there is no twice when it came to a ncns, what if you waste your time again, then what? Even if they had emergencies, in a real world job they have to call in, it only would have taken less than a minute to let you know.

Just not cool Originally Posted by chellachella
I got lucky once on a 2nd chance w/a NCNS; OTOH, I did let the same girl NCNS me twice on consecutive weekends. But then we all know I'm just not all that bright, am I? If they sounded nice when I talked to them the first time, I'll probably give them the benefit of the doubt on a NCNS. If they sounded like hood rats anyway, probably not--and that goes double if she NCNS'd me in BR, when I drove 90 mins. to see her.
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Just seen this and have to say. I had 3 VP from here NCNS in a week to me. All had understandable reasons and I have no reason not to believe them. Hell the 3rd time it happened I was able to get with number 2 and we went way over our time making it up to me. But when I was with an ATF the night I was heading to work she said I should not complain I asked why. She told me because I had more sex than she did in the past month lol. But hey not my fault she took time off for the holidays