I was stood up.....

Well, I called at 12:45 once I entered the community, no answer, left VM which said I'm early, call with unit number when ready. 1 pm rolls around, 1:15, still nothing, in between the VM and 115 I sent her a text, no reply. About 1:20 /1:25 I called again, no answer so I left another message saying I could not wait any longer but for her to let me know if I did something wrong that made her NCNS me. About 3 he's later she sent me a text saying she was very very sorry and that she didn't look at her phone till 130 and she wasn't sure if it was ok to reach out to me at that time. I said no big deal, we'll reschedule.
She did not look at her phone until 1:30, when you obviously had a 1pm appointment?

She got a better offer, IMHO; She did the same thing to me, and I confronted her about it, and she stated that our appointment was not firm, and she got a better offer. I do not know how much firmer one can make for an appointment, than state they are going to be there



Well, I called at 12:45 once I entered the community, no answer, left VM which said I'm early, call with unit number when ready. 1 pm rolls around, 1:15, still nothing, in between the VM and 115 I sent her a text, no reply. About 1:20 /1:25 I called again, no answer so I left another message saying I could not wait any longer but for her to let me know if I did something wrong that made her NCNS me. About 3 he's later she sent me a text saying she was very very sorry and that she didn't look at her phone till 130 and she wasn't sure if it was ok to reach out to me at that time. I said no big deal, we'll reschedule. Originally Posted by Just_intime
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She did not look at her phone until 1:30, when you obviously had a 1pm appointment?

She got a better offer, IMHO; She did the same thing to me, and I confronted her about it, and she stated that our appointment was not firm, and she got a better offer. I do not know how much firmer one can make for an appointment, than state they are going to be there Originally Posted by rebusknebus
Yes a better offer or the one she was with was doing her right it happens its called YMMV. She has a hot one in my bed and a lot of cash in her hand so see you later. It happens plus a lot of times they double book or someone calls she knows and its a sure thing so you get stiffed it happens.
Move on or make an appointment and get all the info up front and just show up at the door on time tell her you are not going to call.
Yea I figured her excuse was bull shit...
Thanks for the help gents, much appreciated.
Just intime happened to me yesterday with a different provider, Backpage Anne Southside http://pittsburgh.backpage.com/Femal...de-45/13805738 told me to come to the location area and call. I called no answer tried for an hour no answer no returned call. I have seen her before so I don't know what happened, it is frustrating though.
Pria did the same to me about a month ago...set up a 1:00 pm appt. phone call confirmed, then around 12:45 she said to call then nothing for an hour...never did hear from her..
1pm must be a bad time... Was that your first time trying to see her, boburgh? If so I wonder if its a test of sorts, I'm sure others on here can confirm that they've never had this issue with her at their first appt.
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If that was a test of sorts, then I would have passed. As in I would have passed on anyone wasting my time.
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I always have the guy CALL me and confirm whenever he is leaving his location just to ensure that nothing came up.
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I always have the guy CALL me and confirm whenever he is leaving his location just to ensure that nothing came up. Originally Posted by Goddess Athena
That's a good SOP Athena. I think the problem might be that, unlike you, some of these less professional gals tend to double book. Just saying.