Getting out of the car etiquette question

I think what we have here is failure to communicate. She should have given better directions then everyone would have been happy. This horse has been beaten to death. Ladies let us dumb ass guys know what you want and explain why. If your pimp needs time to leave before I get there I will understand. If you want to see my unmarked car let me know. I may give you a ride with sirens and lights if you ask.
All fun aside as long as I don't have to push my way through a bunch of guys with 40OZ bottles of malt liquor I can try to see you.

Yup, years ago I had a similar situation happen with one of the providers here. She freaked out that I didn't park in the exact spot that she told me to. I was already there and was parked, she told me to move my car to the spot she wanted. I figured out that she wanted to record my plate number. I drove off and told her maybe another day. P411 was used for screening. Originally Posted by Jarvis

Parking in a specific spot cant be dangerous thing to expect. It creates a pattern and is dangerous for both individuals. I would have simply left, as an honest provider would not try to force you into a situation such as this. What if you had parked down the street?

Not to be a jerk but I would leave or intentionally park in another spot if such a request was made. Safety first for both.

We think the MOST ... nobody wants your plates hon. I just want to ensure you dont get towed, you're not wandering around aimlessly looking suspicious (apartments have children playing ) , and that you aren't here with other people. When I do Outcalls I call before parking to avoid towing and wandering around somewhere I've never been - just thought that was what most cautious and considerate folks do. Had it been me feeling unsafe , I would have declined as I hope we all do when security is at stake.

Why go and park near building 2 when shes at building 16? You have no idea where she's at , no idea about her neighborhood , or local nuisances - yet you're willing to leave your car to where it may not be easily accessible? Believe it or not , some parts if not all parts of screening is done for BOTH parties...

Not everyone has a pimp/management sitting in a car circling the lot .

Just be safe...

I'm just gonna say it...Sounds racist to me.

I fixed it for you Tiffany ...

I know you don't Tiffany ...
I dont think you would invite me without the proper screening ...

So supposing such lady screened him, she should feel confident to certain point ...
If she wants to ask for that info, she is in her right to decline someone that wouldn't want to give it, but still sounds excessive IMHO
Wouldn't you feel uncomfortable if the guy asks ... where are you parked and whats your car is so I can park by you? ... ps ... "If you show me yours Ill show you mine" ... Pun intended

The same is for us guys ... we have the right to give or not the info ...
Again if it was me, I would never disclose that info ... Running my license plates would be very dangerous ...
I remember a girl that kept on her FB pictures of the license plates of her customers

How could I know if she would have good or bad intentions or it was just a protocol ...

My 2 cents

ps ... If she puts in her Ad a disclaimer saying: "As part of the screening process you have to send me the license plates of the car you will be driving to my incall"... I bet she wouldn't have any call ... Originally Posted by DarthDVader

I usually ask them to text once they're parked but its not to scope them out as they walk out of their car, rather to give specific directions to my apt. Its very frustrating to go up to the third floor only to find out you've gone up the wrong stairway. There is no telling why she was so upset, but I agree with you 100%...she should have delivered that message in a more respectful way. Sorry you had to put up with such hostility. Originally Posted by Bliss of DFW

I thought so too, Jules.

And I don't think this is a matter of license plates. Don't nobody want anything from you, but what you came to give. (Yes, the situation called for a double negative.) Seriously.

You get to my place, you follow my instructions. Where the hell are you going if you don't know where she was? What are you trying to see? Did you not think about who was possibly watching you? Or maybe that you would draw undue attention to yourself or her apartment by walking through the complex?

I can picture it, and it looks weird to me. You walking around lost, looking like you're somewhere you're not supposed to be. Maybe it was harsh that she told you to leave, but that sounds like a woman fed up to me. Depending on her traffic level or her situation with neighbors and management, it is always a must to wait for instructions. And if the cops are harassing you in the parking lot, there's more going on than just you, and she needs a new incall.



So?
Apparently a paycheck was not worth her feeling the loss of security. That's just common sense. No one wants to get evicted or outed, or in trouble if they don't need to be.

Can you imagine letting a lady visit your home? This is not a question of should, or are you that stupid (especially if you're married.) But just if. You wouldn't want her blowing, riding past your house and backing up, parking in the front, or if she has to park in the front, walk to your front door dressed like a trollop. You all have that one (or several) neighbors that's all in your business. But you'd expect a lady that you picked to have some common sense about discretion.

And if it meant compromising your home life because that old lady two doors down is watching a two dollar whore stagger to your front door, you're either not answering or turning that bitch around. And if she got on here bitching about a NCNS, this would be a totally different story.

Same difference. Respect that lady's property.
And please. Get over yourselves. Don't nobody want you.
Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

+1 Ladies...

Too bad we don't know who she is. Unless the OP revealed her name in PMs. This is pretty much a useless thread without knowing her. By naming her, she would be "outed" so to speak and then be able to defend herself.

But as long as it's not out in the open, I don't blame her for remaining silent.

I'm just gonna say it...Sounds racist to me. Originally Posted by str8.2.bbbj

NOW we're getting somewhere! I thought the same thing but seems everyone is afraid to discuss race on these boards. We should start a thread about race, specifically NBA policies.

NOW we're getting somewhere! I thought the same thing but seems everyone is afraid to discuss race on these boards. We should start a thread about race, specifically NBA policies. Originally Posted by EasyLover214

I'll bet he's got a black car. I just know it. If you're taking a man's money, it shouldn't matter what color his car is.

Can't we all just get along?

She needs her meds

If you know how to secure some ones name using their license plate numbers tell the rest of us. I have several LE friends and they wouldn't do it. If they query a plate and it happens to be on a wanted or watch list they would be hard put to explain it. Oh in case you wonder they know what I am doing and don't give a damn. I wanted to run the serial number on several guns I purchased and it was a "no can do".
Now I know why that one gal refused to see me she was racist because of the black vehicle I was in. If I purchase a white one will that make me prejudiced?

This thread is far from useless for the girls and boys. The worst thing a boy can do is hang out at a private Incall. The worst things a girl can do is leaving a boy hanging outside a gate or say just follow someone in (wtf). The best girl I've seen gave me the # and said please don't knock (noisy neighbors) the doors unlocked just walk on in. Thank you miss Knoxx

False, read quoted text ... anyone can get it, you just have to sign up ...

Yes. Give me a tag number and I could run it through www.PublicData.com and get the vehicle owner's name, address, vehicle type, lienholder, etc. With that information, I could find out the name of the vehicle owner's spouse, place of employment, etc. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

The means the blackmailer probably used was to note the OP's license plate number. That number opens the door to all kinds of information about a person. I don't go to AMPs, but if I did, I'd park far away from the front door. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

If you know how to secure some ones name using their license plate numbers tell the rest of us. I have several LE friends and they wouldn't do it. If they query a plate and it happens to be on a wanted or watch list they would be hard put to explain it. Oh in case you wonder they know what I am doing and don't give a damn. I wanted to run the serial number on several guns I purchased and it was a "no can do".
Now I know why that one gal refused to see me she was racist because of the black vehicle I was in. If I purchase a white one will that make me prejudiced? Originally Posted by tucson

I like to get to the incall and call in and honk my horn while driving around the parking lot to announce by presence. Then i would ask if my horn was getting louder or quieter.

What is the protocol if you get to the incall at the correct time but the provider tells you that you need to wait 5 to 10 minutes before you can come up? Leave and circle for a little while, sit in the car with the engine running . . .