Take the plunge?

See if she'll let you put it in her butt. Originally Posted by Prime Time

Completely agree...a proper ass-reaming can greatly enhance intimacy. Even if it gets messy, shared embarrassment will bring you two closer.

But don't ask. Insist!

The OP needs to post the SO's contact info.

Completely agree...a proper ass-reaming can greatly enhance intimacy. Even if it gets messy, shared embarrassment will bring you two closer.

But don't ask. Insist! Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

Or better yet, skip the formalities and just take it by surprise....that's what they all like anyways.....Like you said Don, nothing brings two people closer together more than an anal grudge fucking.....every wife knows they signed up for that shit from day 1.

^ lol

Lmao Spice.....especially LD taking Arnold's manhole....

You have a very valid problem. I'd suggest that you set some ground rules. For example, since you love your wife, don't do anything to hurt her.

That means no activities that might bring a disease back home. I'd suggest that you limit yourself to Happy endings at places that say massage in the name. That will limit your exposure to LE and lower the cost as well.

You will still have guilt. My forays into the world have coincided with a drop in my testosterone levels as I hit 40. I've lost interest in sex at times, but I can't determine how much to attribute to guilt vs hormones vs overexposure to porn.

I guess one upside for me was a loss of interest in strip clubs. Why spend $100 in 15 minutes when you can have undivided attention and a happy ending over an hour?

But back to the guilt. I had to convince myself that if is just physical, it's not cheating. That only works part of the time...so ask yourself - is some temporary pleasure worth changing how you feel about your role in your marriage?

On the whole I have plenty of regrets, but I have also had experiences I never would have had otherwise. My final advice is to never have a fit of guilt and tell your wife. That never makes things better.

....My final advice is to never have a fit of guilt and tell your wife. That never makes things better. Originally Posted by Jdoe921

Ha, to the Mother Fucking Ha!!!

Or better yet, skip the formalities and just take it by surprise....that's what they all like anyways..... Originally Posted by Russ38

This is what I plan to tell my son when he's old enough for the sex talk.

Trust me, son. Even if they're too shy to say it, all girls like it in the butt. Always the butt. Only the butt.

We will have to remember that when we speak to you.

This is what I plan to tell my son when he's old enough for the sex talk.

Trust me, son. Even if they're too shy to say it, all girls like it in the butt. Always the butt. Only the butt. Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

This is what I plan to tell my son when he's old enough for the sex talk.

Trust me, son. Even if they're too shy to say it, all girls like it in the butt. Always the butt. Only the butt. Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

^^^^ Take note mothers....This is how you bring a kid up right....no need to sugarcoat shit.....

As someone who just started this a couple of months ago, don't start for the reasons you suggest. There is far too much risk in this hobby to do it just for a kick. You should hobby because there is no other option in my book. In my life there is no sex at home and no room for a RWGF. I have met some great ladies here but nothing beats a trusting relationship and the guilt will eat you up. Don't risk that for a kick.

This is what I plan to tell my son when he's old enough for the sex talk.

Trust me, son. Even if they're too shy to say it, all girls like it in the butt. Always the butt. Only the butt. Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

Sounds similar to what you told me earlier this week.

Shagem6967 - your situation sounds like mine. I get no sex at home, wife is not interested in sex at all. Been that way for last three years and she even knows we have a problem but ignores it. I'm too old to start over and have a RWGF and just looking for a little intimacy. She even said not sure if she wants to stay married, but wants to stay together for the kids sake. Talk about two people drifting apart.

If she, or either party, has checked out of the marriage its time to divorce. Staying together for the kids is BULLSHIT. The kids see that the parents are miserable together, yeah that is good parenting.