Pm/email/text

  • Sonya
  • 09-24-2014, 08:59 AM
I had a man contact me via pm for a Monday appointment. I clearly state my Monday-friday hours. Because I hadn't responded to his weekend pm he stated Monday morning he would be taking back his request because I hadn't responded in 2 days. Funny thing is I had time to see him on that Monday. Responded to him at 7:30am. But when men don't understand I have a life outside the hobby and then give me attitude...lol then kick rocks. Some of you have such fragile egos. It's not a personal slight not to respond to pm's when we are OFF WORK. But on the flip side, if you book a plan b then that's cool too. There will be another time for us. As my heroine Scarlett says...Tomorrow is another day.
Have a plan B & C... Every provider double books.. So you should as well until you get a steady list of providers. I have girls that I see fairly regularly that I still don't trust to answer promptly.
I would just tell you to build a team the size of NBA roster and still keep girls on the bench. And just know that your starting line up/ leading scorers can change often.
  • Sonya
  • 09-24-2014, 10:14 AM
Um not true. Being doing this a year. I keep a good schedule. I've never double booked or ncns. It's why I can price myself higher than 150/180 an hour.
  • Sonya
  • 09-24-2014, 11:01 AM
Been* crappy autocorrect
I had a man contact me via pm for a Monday appointment. I clearly state my Monday-friday hours. Because I hadn't responded to his weekend pm he stated Monday morning he would be taking back his request because I hadn't responded in 2 days. Funny thing is I had time to see him on that Monday. Responded to him at 7:30am. But when men don't understand I have a life outside the hobby and then give me attitude...lol then kick rocks. Some of you have such fragile egos. It's not a personal slight not to respond to pm's when we are OFF WORK. But on the flip side, if you book a plan b then that's cool too. There will be another time for us. As my heroine Scarlett says...Tomorrow is another day. Originally Posted by Sonya

AGREED.
Like Sonya, I have NEVER double booked, and I've been doing this for well over 7 years. Quite frankly, I've yet to hear of such a practice by other providers. Where on Earth did you get THAT idea from, Headman? Not from any lady who gave a damn about her gentlemen friends or her reputation, obviously.
Quit whining ........... Originally Posted by MOTOXMAN

Exactly
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I had a man contact me via pm for a Monday appointment. I clearly state my Monday-friday hours. Because I hadn't responded to his weekend pm he stated Monday morning he would be taking back his request because I hadn't responded in 2 days. Funny thing is I had time to see him on that Monday. Responded to him at 7:30am. But when men don't understand I have a life outside the hobby and then give me attitude...lol then kick rocks. Some of you have such fragile egos. It's not a personal slight not to respond to pm's when we are OFF WORK. But on the flip side, if you book a plan b then that's cool too. There will be another time for us. As my heroine Scarlett says...Tomorrow is another day. Originally Posted by Sonya

Look Sonya, that is wrong attitude entirely. Did you not read Hooking For Dummies? It is not a book on bass fishing. You ladies are supposed to be sitting by your computers, phone in hand, all purdied up and ready to go on a moment's notice.

...You ladies are supposed to be sitting by your computers, phone in hand, all purdied up and ready to go on a moment's notice.

Originally Posted by pyramider

Nice that somebody still believes in fairy tales.
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Fairy tales while eating Chihuahua burritos ... good times. You gonna post some taint?
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In the scenario you're describing here, there's nothing for you to consider null and void. You don't actually have an appointment.

There's also nothing for her to be pissed about. Don't sweat it. Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair
Lauren's right, but I think this goes a little deeper with the poster. I don't know the OP but it seems his issue is the lack of compliance in response - or at least a "timely" response.

I mean, seriously, who doesn't look at their phone at least once an hour? And if you are "off on the weekends," then deactivate your showcase ad for the time period. Just because you have a yard sale once a month at your house doesn't mean you should leave the yard sign out 365 days a year.

Bottom line is that it shouldn't matter at all who you are or not...if somebody contacts a provider requesting an appointment, the provider should respond in some manner. I mean even a "fuckoff fucktard" is better than no response at all. It's professional courtesy. And with those new damn apps on the iphone that actual tell you when somebody reads your text - or reads the texts above and below yours - or says yours was read but deleted...and no response... One of these days that kind of shit is gonna set one of the John Hinkley's off and the results will be splashed all over the damn news.

Just be professional and respond. Why is that too hard to ask and or expect?
Am I missing something? Where is the discussion of contract law? After all a hobby encounter is a contract. It takes an offer and an acceptance to make a contract. Offers are open for for the time stated and if no time stated then a reasonable time. The easy way to avoid hurt feelings is to cancel the offer before acceptance which means communicating with the first provider that you are canceling your request before setting up plan b. Setting up a plan b without telling the plan b provider your offer to see her is subject to the first provider canceling is just plain wrong and possibly fraud in the inducement. What am I missing? Isn't this just common sense and common courtesy? The ladies have no obligation to respond at all let alone respond timely. Timely can be a relative term depending on a person's facts and circumstances. If the response is not timely for you, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. But do the polite thing and cancel the request before the acceptance before moving on. That is my take on it.