New Review Clarification...

Another example of why the ECCIE review system is broke beyond economical repair.

Maybe Carly did deserve a "no" - who knows (he said / she said)? But she at least deserved to receive it from someone who was ARTICULATE and CREDIBLE. Ash nor Clubbie are either. Clubby joins the board and decides ... "Hey I think I'll "break in" this here review system with a "NO" right off the bat!" His FIRST review was a "NO" review. Not a smart move, playing with the review system is like playing with fire. If you're gonna write a "NO" review - better think five times first and make sure you have your backup.

Or better yet ... why not just TELL the girl that you intend to give her a "NO" recommendation? That's the alpha-male balls thing to do. Ambushing the gal in a review that she's not allowed to read is a fucking pussy move and I don't give a SHIT who pulls it.

This is the girl's livelihood. If you're gonna give her a "NO" at least do the BIG BOY thing and make sure she's the first to know. Tell her "offline" face to face before you write the review. Tell her WHY you're going to give her a "no" (leaving it in RoS that she can't see - WTF purpose does that serve and how can she correct any shortfalls?). How would you like it if YOUR Boss did your yearly evaluation in secret - and you just "found out" when the secretary says ... "Hey you got utterly DICKED on your eval - and no I can't tell you why." ????

How do you make that right as employee? How do you correct your shortfalls? What course of appeal do you have?

If you don't have the balls to tell her she's getting a "no" review and why she's getting it - you shouldn't write the review. I know a lot of chicken-shit guys don't agree with this but ... hey I just call it like I see them.

And saying that "she's a black girl - nothing special" ...

Well the Black girls got offended by that but everyone should be offended because it reveals a "chattel" attitude toward all escorts.

There is a way for her
response to be added to
her review.
You copy this link
thread and add to
review comment.
I don't know why it
hasn't been done.
You seen me taking
portions of the public
review & pasting it here.
It all should be connected.
IJS. Fair Deal.

Verni,
Run with it and we got your
back.

PD already took care of it.

There is a way for her
response to be added to
her review.
You copy this link
thread and add to
review comment.
I don't know why it
hasn't been done.
You seen me taking
portions of the public
review & pasting it here.
It all should be connected.
IJS. Fair Deal.

Verni,
Run with it and we got your
back. Originally Posted by siberia

PornoDave already done it.

Agree with Averni, the passive/aggressive "no" reviewers are almost always the low budget guys who think they "didn't get their money's worth and expected a model for $$.50. but calling attention to a bad review is as bad as the review itself.

This should be a straight up paid subscription board and all links to Backpage should be removed. I don't want to be part of that Backpage stuff its nothing but trouble both ways.

By all and every account the provider side of the hobby is the worst ever, no one is making money and girls are going out and fronting money for hotel rooms for one "sure" thing, in the hopes that they can get then get additional clients, and you every three "interested" lucky if one comes through.

This should be a straight up paid subscription board and all links to Backpage should be removed. I don't want to be part of that Backpage stuff its nothing but trouble both ways. Originally Posted by mojito

I disagree.

My most recent review happened to be a "No". Now I'm not sure why this client decided to give me a no. For one, I went out of my way to see him because I do not go to Lafayette. Secondly, he had another friend of his there to see me, someone who never has contacted me through any of my sites. Before I arrived I let him know what my rate was, well obviously him and his friend thought I would see them both for an hour each for 2 kisses (total). That's absurd! Once in person I explained my rate to him a little better and he understood completely. I even gave him a deal, but could not help his friend. Finally, I ended the session according to the donation I received and continued on to New Orleans. Originally Posted by carlykay

I don't know the specifics about what transpired in this particular situation because I don't know any of the parties involved. However I will say that I've had another provider tell me it's a crew of guys in Laffy that pull this stunt. ONE of the guys makes contact with the provider for an outcall, they agree on a price and when provider gets to the outcall location the "I have a friend or two here in my apt with me, how much to do all of us separately"? They almost have the provider by the nuts because she has driven a ways to get to the appointment thinking she is seeing ONE hobbyist. I believe they are hoping she is desperate enough (after burning time and gas) to agree to a bargain basement deal. If she was charging $250 for the outcall session, they don't want to pay the $750 to cover her rate for 3 sessions. They want to haggle with well... "do all of us individually for $500". That's some fucked up shit right there and you guys need to stop doing that childish bullshit...

Its crap like this and other stunts guys try to pull that I have started requiring a deposit.

Its crap like this and other stunts guys try to pull that I have started requiring a deposit. Originally Posted by Nicolet

"crap like this".....heh....classic.

What's the basis for the deposit?

- by the inch?
- I.Q.?
- by the pound?

When do you refund the deposit? ....upon his arrival?

.....or after the "yes" review?

.....or after you squirt on his leg?....like you did that night with me.

Well what happen was (IMO) .... ash_89 is upset because carlykay stood up and spoke up for herself

Exactly^^

Well what happen was (IMO) .... ash_89 is upset..... Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Yeah....he and clubie cleared out fast.

OT: out of the 5 ladies that have posted on this thread, I know two of them biblically LOL. And one of the other three, is on my TDL.

What are the odds.

I don't know the specifics about what transpired in this particular situation because I don't know any of the parties involved. However I will say that I've had another provider tell me it's a crew of guys in Laffy that pull this stunt. ONE of the guys makes contact with the provider for an outcall, they agree on a price and when provider gets to the outcall location the "I have a friend or two here in my apt with me, how much to do all of us separately"? They almost have the provider by the nuts because she has driven a ways to get to the appointment thinking she is seeing ONE hobbyist. I believe they are hoping she is desperate enough (after burning time and gas) to agree to a bargain basement deal. If she was charging $250 for the outcall session, they don't want to pay the $750 to cover her rate for 3 sessions. They want to haggle with well... "do all of us individually for $500". That's some fucked up shit right there and you guys need to stop doing that childish bullshit... Originally Posted by Bigpapa1

BAMBOOZLED!!! Big pappa, we appreciate that you shared this info. If the gent ash_89 happens to be one of the ones involved in this non-sense it would be great if the ladies had shared that info in an alert with the ladies, it does no one any good to pillow talk that info. The gent in question here has reviewed known, established providers who I am confident would NOT tolerate this foolishness. And yet, no alert, puzzling...

Thanks for the very helpful information BigPapa! He (Ash_89) did state that his friend was a very "well-known" guy on Eccie (which I never heard of), and that he was just "not going to donate that amount" Him and his compadre spoke amongst themselves in their native language and his friend waited outside until our session was over. Now I really do believe there is a group because all of the guys from Laffy that I have seen or encountered have been the same and they all have given me a hard time. They like to make their own prices! Clubie for example wanted to cancel our session because he wanted me to come drive 2 hours out to come see him for a 2 hours session for a rate he offered that was not my rate and once I told him my rate he got upset because he said "I already told you my offer". Now they are all obviously congregating under my review lol. All of the negative comments are from Laffy guys... Figures!