I have a distinct AVERSION to marriage....but I would have no problems having a romantic relationship / live in relationship with a provider outside of the hobby. Providers are people too! They have the same human wants and needs that go beyond the sex part.
I'm at an age where I prefer the company of a great woman more than I crave her sex. Life is more than just sex..and a great connection between the ears is just as important, if not more important, than a connection between the legs!