I need help/advice

Torito's Avatar
jesus dude wtf??? talk about being an asshole. I am finding out more and more everyday that alot of the guys here think that they should get everything they want becasue they are paying even if the provider dosent offer certain services. then get all pissy when they dont get what they want knowing full well that she has stated she dont do that. were supposed to be adults but most of us act like a 5 year old flailing on the floor of walmart casue momma and daddy wont buy you the toy you want.

and no im no fuckin WK just a fello hobbiest that is appauled the way a lot of guys here treat women. Originally Posted by Duthgar1976
I think possibly you are giving extra credit with the 5 year old analogy.
The "terrible two's" comes to mind.

T.
FireKitten's Avatar
There is A LOT of unreasonable and bully type behavior when you are new. Do your best, ignore the agendas. And don't schedule with anyone that makes you clearly uncomfortable before you meet, it won't go well.
sexy_entropy's Avatar
You don't worry Tiffany! That was a bullshit review! You are an absolute sweetheart and Dallas would definitely love you!
TinMan's Avatar
So I assume we're talking about some guy with the handle "theG"?

I've never heard of the guy before. I wonder if any other ladies had similar experiences with him.
Tiffany, there are a lot of snakes in the grass when new. Trust me. I would be more than happy to warn you of a few to stay clear of if you want to PM me.
I'm so sorry for your troubles, but why is this in co-ed?
pyramider's Avatar
Because it does not belong in Alerts. Since butthurt is hobby related its in Co-ed.
bojulay's Avatar
Anytime some dude starts getting demanding, pushy, making claims about how he can help you out in some special way, other inappropriate behaviors, just tell him to go dangle, and then block his communication avenues.
FunInDFW's Avatar
I'm so sorry for your troubles, but why is this in co-ed? Originally Posted by tntangie
The amount of feels one has for the plight of the OP is in direct correlation to the chances of OP getting them as a client...

omakase's Avatar
1. Respond Appropriately

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So I responded I was going to contact a MOD (for advice on this ) so he says, " if u do that I'm going to be talking to movieman, lazr, and dozens of others".

.........

May I review the client?

If a mod would assist a new to profession and new to eccie provider by contacting me by phone or even come to where I'm located I would appreciate it. I feel like I'm doing counter terrorism and it's just way too much drama and I don't do drama. Originally Posted by BreakfastAtTiffanys
LOL I'm not sure what this fella thinks I can do. Only thing I MOD is the eccie chatroom.

Don't let people use the mod scare tactics and/or power influence talk against you. Stay safe as a new provider, and most importantly screen the hell out of everyone you see. Also, get some tips from some of the reputable ladies here on how to avoid the people who might take advantage of you as a fresh face to ECCIE. Hope the drama decreases for you as a provider. Cheers!
Jules Jaguar's Avatar
Shes new, im sure she didnt know where else to put it.

Good for her calling him out publicly
What a total douche! His review is clearly out to make look look bad...good lord....he was so late she should've just stayed there at home with the damn cat...
dodger's Avatar
the ladies back you up, indicating you can expect this sort of behavior from some jerks. It's clear to all of us that some guys push the limit with new ladies and inflate their importance. As a rule, no one pays much attention to one review.

Guys look at pics .. you seem pretty. Might look at some other showcases and get ideas for your showcase once you are verified. And we look at reviews. We look for trends or a consensus, an opinion shared and validated by multiple reviewers .. and we look for a reviewer we respect. You have a very nice review from Mr. Rogers (http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1383579) and that means something to me because I like the things he notes in reviews .. he has some creds with me, which may mean little or nothing to others.

So, consider this a data point. Put it behind you and move on. Provide the kind of service and experience you provided with Mr. Rogers and guys will be adding you to their Got To See lists.

We all benefit when good people join our community, men and women. You seem like a lady guys would like to see stick around. So, good luck with this. Enjoy yourself .. make it fun. Be safe.

You can expect stellar experiences, and others which are less than stellar .. but this particular experience doesn't even count ... move it to the end of the curve and put it out of your mind.
Caseykassum's Avatar
Tiffany.. just keep doing what you do and giving your best.
don't let this guy and one experience cloud your views or services.

But do know that if you feel uncomfortable with someone ahead of time.. you will likely be better off just moving on and not risking it. Some guys may not be your type

Finally. As for the guy having great power and influence on eccie... not sure I can say I even noticed him before this whole interchange. And the final I would liken his (or others) claims of power to those Honda commercials with the tiny Skeletor action figure running around the car cursing HeMan. His power is not unlike that displayed of the great Skeletor in this case.

CURS-ED He-Man!