Who's doing this???

Looking For Opinions So I was told today that basically any provider who offers over nights and does not come in the room rip off her clothes jump on the dick and stay there for twelve hours is a shitty provider... I was like wow who's doing that is she on sexual enhancers lol... What happened to foreplay passion mutual desire... I was told if they wanted passion they would date lol..WTF... Guess I am a shitty provider then because I feel there should be more... I could be wrong it'd just my personal opinion but sex with no passion really Is not worth my time..if it's not mutual pleasure what is there left.������Sex should be mutually satisfying in my personal opinion ....I was also told that if a board member doesn't post a review it's because they don't want to say anything bad...lol I know plenty of clients who just don't do reviews I see nothing wrong with that... But this person says any lady not in the spotlight on all the boards must just be shitty... Wow to me that's immaturity.... ������

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UMMMMMM forbidden subject mentioned here, MODS where are you

UMMMMMM forbidden subject mentioned here, MODS where are you Originally Posted by Lovestolick66

Whats forbidden? Clearly I didn't know so I can't fix what I don't know this is all I could find coed discussions about the hobby...

Look at the top left of the page, there is a link marked Forum Guidelines, click that and scroll down to #15. Hope this helps. dj8

Look at the top left of the page, there is a link marked Forum Guidelines, click that and scroll down to #15. Hope this helps. dj8 Originally Posted by dj8rocks

Yes it says illegal drugs I'm talking about sexual enhancers... not illegal drugs though...I'm saying to go twelve hours straight you would need something to help no breaks nothing....Guess I should have worded it different but it won't let me edit so to late now....my apologies...

Kissme,
I'm sure the client wasn't speaking of 12 hours straight lol. I honestly don't know of anyone that could go for 12 hours straight. My goodness. But if I were a dude paying for an overnight, I would want attention for the full amount of time.
I don't do the overnight services because I offer massage and am married and have a child and im like tired by 8 pm at night lol but I do see a lot of clients that sees other providers. I have literally had a client tell me that he paid like 1200 for a provider overnight and he may have only got attention for about 3 to 4 hours and then she went to sleep. Like I said I don't know how it works but I'm sure he was talking about have the attention on him the entire time. And in knowing guys like I do, most guys are missing something in their lives or just put to seek adventure. Most are willing to please. I don't know who the client was you saw but sounds like it may not have been pleasurable for you, which sucks, but some guys look at the fact when they see a provider, they are wanting to be pampered without drama.

As for the spotlight of being on the board, I don't feel that is true. I prefer not to have a lot of reviews. As long as I get my clients to return, I must be doing something right. And what matters is client satisfaction.

A couple of points here... I think when KISSME wrote "I was like wow who's doing that is she on drugs lol", it is more of a hypothetical question/statement. It's not like KISSME is saying "so and so is on drugs".

Secondly, I've been with some women (not an overnight) who basically do walk, in see a hard dick, and throw themselves on it like it was a grenade. Then after it has gone off, they're up, putting their clothes on, and walking out the door. Their attitude is "well you got off, my job is done, I'm gone" and it doesn't matter how long is left in our scheduled time. Not my idea of fun.

I know with a one hour appointment there has to be a certain amount of getting down to business (which is why I usually only schedule 2 hour visits), but even then I like to take my time and spend some time chit-chatting before hand, kissing, caressing, pillow talk afterwards, and making sure the lady I'm visiting with is enjoying her time as well.

It doesn't matter whether the scheduled visit is 1 hour or 1 day, there's more to visiting with a lady than trying to grind each other into the mattress non-stop.

As far as reviews go, I feel uncomfortable writing reviews. I have sort of a "Vegas" attitude... what happens there stays there, or maybe I don't believe in "kiss and tell". The only time I've wrote a review is when I was specifically asked to write one by the ladies I was visiting with.

I agree with you big on all points. I don't think she meant that in any bad way either.
Kissme, sweetheart don't ever say you must be a shitty provider either, if you have a strong clientele must be doing something right. You can't please everyone.

I totally agree when doing a overnight your attention should go to your client even with smaller appointments. I did not see this particular person because he kept stating to Me that any lady who sees him should expect to perform at a constant rate and for me that's just lacking in passion I enjoy the foreplay the buildup and I stated this to him several times to which he replied I must be a shitty provider or old or have a lack of stamina lol...I think it just boils down to not being able to please everyone.But it has been along time since I have dealt with someone who seemed to be so arragont and Have such bad things to say about woman in the industry kinda made me feel like if you have such a problem with ladies who like to take there time then why be in the hobby at all.ONE of the strangest conversation I have had in a long time..There are ladies who offer quickies I just prefer not to because I like to make long lasting mutual friendships....But to clarify I debated with this person thru texts on the 12 hour straight thing like no bathroom break a girl can't get a drink of water nothing lol I tried to make it funny and it seemed to anger him and that's when the I must be old and shitty and have no stamina lol...

Kissme,
I'm sure the client wasn't speaking of 12 hours straight lol. I honestly don't know of anyone that could go for 12 hours straight. My goodness. But if I were a dude paying for an overnight, I would want attention for the full amount of time.
I don't do the overnight services because I offer massage and am married and have a child and im like tired by 8 pm at night lol but I do see a lot of clients that sees other providers. I have literally had a client tell me that he paid like 1200 for a provider overnight and he may have only got attention for about 3 to 4 hours and then she went to sleep. Like I said I don't know how it works but I'm sure he was talking about have the attention on him the entire time. And in knowing guys like I do, most guys are missing something in their lives or just put to seek adventure. Most are willing to please. I don't know who the client was you saw but sounds like it may not have been pleasurable for you, which sucks, but some guys look at the fact when they see a provider, they are wanting to be pampered without drama.

As for the spotlight of being on the board, I don't feel that is true. I prefer not to have a lot of reviews. As long as I get my clients to return, I must be doing something right. And what matters is client satisfaction. Originally Posted by katek

I'm sure you are not old or shitty being read some of your reviews. Some people are just mean. I had one write me yesterday that made me uncomfortable by the way he spoke to me and what he said and I canceled the appointment. Just remember it's water off a ducks back.

Kate, as always, you're a breath of fresh air and common sense. This is a service industry and different folks want different things from their therapists or providers. If you're not someone's cup of tea, don't dwell on it. Just move along and know that you're someone else's dream girl.

Thanks stanky. That was well said.

Just my two cents. I personally like the chit chat as much as everything else. I just can't see doing the cold quick visit type thing.