Ok I'm not total NON GFE

I just don't do uncovered ! I've kissed I cuddle I shower I just can't do unprotected anything ! Does gfe only consist of the exchange of body fluids ? I need answers people lol

Seems like everybody has their own definition of GFE. For me, I want kissing, DATY, cuddling, good conversation, and BBJ. Basically, what you would be doing as my "girlfriend". Obviously BBFS isn't part of it, but for me at least, BBJ is needed.

But, ask 10 guys and you'll get 10 variations of the meaning of GFE.

Seems like everybody has their own definition of GFE. For me, I want kissing, DATY, cuddling, good conversation, and BBJ. Basically, what you would be doing as my "girlfriend". Obviously BBFS isn't part of it, but for me at least, BBJ is needed.

But, ask 10 guys and you'll get 10 variations of the meaning of GFE. Originally Posted by albundy

+1

I can do that except the bbj ... Even in personal relationships lol I used to just not do it at all ! But as long as it's a piece of plastic over it I can make some toes curl ! I don't know why it's just scary lol

I'm more of a PSE kind of guy. I'm not into kissing much, but I do enjoy the conversation aspects of a session. I've clicked with most of the ladies I've met. I would consider the things that you do to be GFE, but that's just my opinion. Many guys like the illusion of being with a girlfriend...

Do you not like the taste?

Not the taste it's the fear of what dark hole it's been in before my mouth ! Lol

Can't say I blame you. I wouldn't want a stranger's cock in my mouth either. I've tried CBJs with providers who swore they could make me curl my toes, etc. They didn't. I just have a hard time getting into it. The feeling is WAY not as good and the visual is even ruined. I love DATY and can't imagine doing that with saran wrap.

But, there are plenty of guys, I've heard, that like CBJ and even request it. So there's a market for CBJ as well, I'm guessing.

Not the taste it's the fear of what dark hole it's been in before my mouth ! Lol Originally Posted by Angel Fox

I have thought about that from time to time! LoL

I don't consider gfe having anything to do with unprotected sex (intercourse).
The only thing I prefer that one could consider as unprotected would be bbbj.
I wouldn't participate in unprotected sex even in my private life unless I'm in a committed relationship.
To me gfe has to do more with pleasant conversation, kissing, cuddling, a general good attitude providing a relaxed session, being pampered, etc.

I don't consider gfe having anything to do with unprotected sex (intercourse).
The only thing I prefer that one could consider as unprotected would be bbbj.
I wouldn't participate in unprotected sex even in my private life unless I'm in a committed relationship.
To me gfe has to do more with pleasant conversation, kissing, cuddling, a general good attitude providing a relaxed session, being pampered, etc. Originally Posted by breastfan

+1000

GFE

BBBJ, deep french kissing, DATY, MSOG, cuddling, intimate touch (digits), reverse massage, multi positional (on top too) covered full service, uncovered and ungloved hand during a handjob.

Think the thing that really drives me apeshit...is when I see ladies who are light gfe...or missng any of the above.

The worse is the double standard. They don't do BBBJ. But love to have ther pussy licked to perfection during DATY. No way in hell im gonna hook a girl up orally if she about to put tupperware on me to service me.

Or worse...let's say you achieve orgasm quick durng sex.......u wpe off with a towel in anticpation of msog.....and she won't even suck it right after......cause there mght still be cum inside.......chck palease.

GFE

BBBJ, deep french kissing, DATY, MSOG, cuddling, intimate touch (digits), reverse massage, multi positional (on top too) covered full service, uncovered and ungloved hand during a handjob.

Think the thing that really drives me apeshit...is when I see ladies who are light gfe...or missng any of the above.

The worse is the double standard. They don't do BBBJ. But love to have ther pussy licked to perfection during DATY. No way in hell im gonna hook a girl up orally if she about to put tupperware on me to service me.

Or worse...let's say you achieve orgasm quick durng sex.......u wpe off with a towel in anticpation of msog.....and she won't even suck it right after......cause there mght still be cum inside.......chck palease. Originally Posted by gimme_that

A definite +1. One way that I'm the same in the hobby and RL; I don't mind paying a bit more if I can get exactly what I want!

To me the girlfriend experience or GFE as it is usually call, consists of doing things that you would normally do if you had a significant other or life partner or someone you are dating for a nice long time.

To me having someone just come over and do me and I do them is not the girlfriend experience. I'd like to take my time get into some deep conversation about whatever turns you on or whatever is happening in your life that you want to share with me and I can share with you.

I like to cuddle and kiss and I like to show the gentleman that he is not just another number in my book. I like laying in bed and relaxing and I like just doing what comes natural and I don't like feeling like I'm just something that he paid to do because he had a little extra time and money.

Now some of my clients I click really well with and we just match and we just know that the session is going to be all good because we've been together more than once and we know what to expect. Either or whether you cover the b******* or not, does not really determine whether you are GFE or not. Not in my book.

When a lady says she is light GFE I don't understand that either. Either you're going to do it or you're not, but that is a woman's prerogative.

So I guess I like to say that anything that we both like mutually can be considered GFE. The cuddling the kissing the touching the things you can't normally get in your home life really make me happy.

I guess I'm just kind of a lady who has reached her prime at 47 years old and just have hormones out of this world lol I don't be with a lot of people for GFE because when I do it I like to give them the best of myself and I like it supposed to enjoy it, not like it's just a job!

So GFE can mean different things to different people.. that is just my take on it.

GFE to me: DFK, DATY, BBBJ.