Personal information for screening

I had a provider ask me for personal information for screening. She wanted me to text her a picture or ID claiming that a lot of girls screen using this method. Questions.

1 - do you ladies really ask for pictures or ID as a form of screening? if so how do you ladies know that the pic or ID is of the gent?

2- do you guys really send one if asked?

3- if I choose not to send does it warrant a nasty response from the provider? Because I chose safety over an appointment? Originally Posted by Satoshi

However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from.

She asked him who he was and stated she didn't recognize the number... At that moment he should have told her his old number & that this was his new number..

But he didn't do that because he stated this ...

Instead I give her my name and description.*

So she has every right to accuse him of lying because if you have nothing to hide providing your old number shouldn't be an issue...

So with that being said I still stand by my opinion all of this could have been avoided by giving his old number but no he didn't want to...


You obviously have issues & your not helping your situation & it shows

I contacted Kendal this morning. I let her know that I've seen her before and I'm thinking about seeing her again but I needed to ask her a question. She answered it. Conversation should have been over. Quick and simple. However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from. I don't give her my handle because she didn't screen when I saw her so she wouldn't know it anyways. Instead I give her my name and description. She says that she's seen a few guys with that description and asks me for a picture. I tell her that I'm not going to send a pic from my hobby number. She then calls me an idiot because I wouldn't send her a pic. She even states that sending a pic using a hobby phone is safest. Really? So attaching a pic to a number that's used for an illegal activity is safe? What sort of logic is this? She also claims that guys send pics and IDs for screening. Are some guys really this dumb? Do you ladies really ask for pics and IDs to screen? She then later says that she's only seen one guy with my description and he's a regular and she knows his name. Hmm I'm sure she said at the beginning that she's seen a few guys with my description which is why she doesn't know who I am.*

This is an experiment of what the answers are to the exact same questions when the provider isn't named. Can you please stay on topic. Originally Posted by Satoshi

This isn't an experiment smh you need to find a different hobby

I've notice you've posted this in most of the Texas forums. Is there a need to spam this everywhere? Did we get butthurt? Providers are everywhere. Move on to those who don't ask for ID.

Your questions was answered in Dallas, San Antonio, and Austin. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

Some are just a little slow hopping on the short bus.

Dude there's absolutely no pussy that I'm going to give my personal info for regardless if I've seen her or not. She could be my atf that I see weekly. Even a simple picture can be image searched back to a name. Respect my decision to say no and move on just like I respect a girl's request no matter how ridiculous. Originally Posted by Satoshi

If you know all this information why did you SPAM multiple forums? Telling a modtard to stay on topic after he gave you his .02 is not the way to win favor ...

Tell me what the easy solution is again? Maybe you didn't see these facts.

1- she had just gotten off backpage when I saw her. She didn't screen so she didn't know my handle

2- I gave her my name and a description of myself. This is my normal process to jog a girl's memory. This usually does work but she says she's seen more than 1 person with that description


Normal process um says who do you know how many tards we see that shit doesn't help... Unless you say something specific which I can guarantee you didn't... Especially a bp girl smh she proved my point with her response

3- she then jumps to asking me for a picture

I was following her lead as to what she wanted. How was I in any way being purposely difficult? She didn't give me an opportunity to give her my old number or to further give her details that might have jogged her memory. Originally Posted by Satoshi

However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from.

I don't give her my handle because she didn't screen when I saw her so she wouldn't know it anyways. Instead I give her my name and description.

This was your chance to tell her you had a new number but you decided to give her a name & description instead stop lying to these people smh

I've notice you've posted this in most of the Texas forums. Is there a need to spam this everywhere? Did we get butthurt? Providers are everywhere. Move on to those who don't ask for ID.

Your questions was answered in Dallas, San Antonio, and Austin. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

VS gives great advice. My antenna works like his but I am not politically correct.

My first suspicion is LE.

VS gives great advice. My antenna works like his but I am not politically correct.

My first suspicion is LE. Originally Posted by doug_dfw

Oh I know trust me

However she asked me who I am and stated that because she doesn't recognize my number, she knows that she hasn't seen me before. So calling me a liar because I changed my number. I guess people don't do that where she's from.

She asked him who he was and stated she didn't recognize the number... At that moment he should have told her his old number & that this was his new number..

But he didn't do that because he stated this ...

Instead I give her my name and description.*

So she has every right to accuse him of lying because if you have nothing to hide providing your old number shouldn't be an issue...

So with that being said I still stand by my opinion all of this could have been avoided by giving his old number but no he didn't want to...


You obviously have issues & your not helping your situation & it shows Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

Lol you are so smart aren't you? Hmm it's kinda funny how you've made all these assumptions but have never asked why I changed my number. Ever hear of an app called TextNow? It nags you that it's going to release your number if it's not used for X days. I don't even know how many numbers I've had or what those numbers were. But it's funny how you say that I didn't WANT to give my old number when you weren't even there. And she definitely never asked for it.

Have you thought about P411? That should open enough doors to get you established, and then you shouldn't have to encounter such requests again.

In this day and age, I'd be reluctant to give that info to just anyone. P411 at least has a 10-year track record of discretion. Originally Posted by TinMan

P411 is a great tool for screening, but certainly not the cure all.

There are several ladies who ask for additional information on top of having P411 membership.

If you know all this information why did you SPAM multiple forums? Telling a modtard to stay on topic after he gave you his .02 is not the way to win favor ... Originally Posted by pyramider

Actually I don't know what percentage of providers ask for and what percentage of guys give personal info. Please point me to where my questions were answered in Austin. So when surveys are taken, aren't they taken in several markets? What's wrong with me taking my "survey" in 2 markets?

P411 is a great tool for screening, but certainly not the cure all.

There are several ladies who ask for additional information on top of having P411 membership. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Actually I have thought of p411 but my understanding is that personal information has to be given but they "claim" to not keep the info. Wasn't that the same claim that AshleyMadison made?

Actually I have thought of p411 but my understanding is that personal information has to be given but they "claim" to not keep the info. Wasn't that the same claim that AshleyMadison made? Originally Posted by Satoshi

No site is 100% hack-proof or idiot-proof.

If the site is on a server in the US, then its 110% not subpoena-proof.

Bottom line - If someone wants your personal information then they will find it and get it without even giving you a courtesy call.

Actually I don't know what percentage of providers ask for and what percentage of guys give personal info. Please point me to where my questions were answered in Austin. So when surveys are taken, aren't they taken in several markets? What's wrong with me taking my "survey" in 2 markets? Originally Posted by Satoshi

Why would you need to know that information?

Actually I have thought of p411 but my understanding is that personal information has to be given but they "claim" to not keep the info. Wasn't that the same claim that AshleyMadison made? Originally Posted by Satoshi

Blessed baby tebow, all 8 lbs and 6 ozs of afterbirth encrusted holiness, please give this fucktard a clue ... not a big clue, just a little clue. amen

Why would you need to know that information?



Blessed baby tebow, all 8 lbs and 6 ozs of afterbirth encrusted holiness, please give this fucktard a clue ... not a big clue, just a little clue. amen Originally Posted by pyramider

Who gives a shit? Are you the "why" cop now? Do you ask why to everybody who starts a poll? Fucktard now huh? Lol pretty original idiot. How about staying on topic.

No site is 100% hack-proof or idiot-proof.

If the site is on a server in the US, then its 110% not subpoena-proof.

Bottom line - If someone wants your personal information then they will find it and get it without even giving you a courtesy call. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

True but if you don't give them the info to begin with...