This is probably not the most popular opinion amongst other ladies, nor should I maybe be giving one of my secrets away....but texts/emails back and forth, to an extent, to me, are ok.Someone give this woman an award for extracting thoughts from my mind and writing them down. I know most providers don't give a shit, but the things go miles with a person like me. I'm not trying to be your bff but I do want to establish some semblance of rapport prior to seeing you. It's a business but is it asking too much to not make it so obvious?
To me they can serve a few purposes; 1. I get a chance to flirt a little pre-session with my clients. They usually love this and it gets them more excited for the session. 2. It makes you seem more accessible. I think a lot of times guys can be nervous (even the "seasoned" hobbiest) or we (providers) can seem a bit austere or unapproachable. I guess it really is a form of "customer service." I know men are men and will pretty much go for any pussy they want on principle, but friendliness and congeniality do go a long way to make a more lasting impression and might be the deciding factor between whether or not the guy comes to see you only once or returns again and again. 3. I personally like building at least some rapport pre-session. I think it helps to put both parties at ease and also makes me feel like less of a "sex factory" where these random anonymous men just come in, get their jollies, and I roll them back out.
Of course, it all needs to be in balance. Some texting, etc is fine with me. If it starts to become obsessive then yes, I would cut it off.
I just feel like that total "customer service" approach is all part of the gig and what can also set you apart from the dozens of ladies out there who offer the same thing as you. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
It's funny though, because the things spoken in this thread are why I don't even do fs appointments. I find that women who provide body rubs/massages are just nicer in general general. Much less suck and fuck. More, intimate. And the intimacy can be real for the hour. Some ladies genuinely love giving sensual massages and getting the guy off in a passionate type way.
I'm not knocking anyone tho. Just handing out opinions since that's the point. The post Skylar made would cause someone like me to never see her. But it goes both ways because she obviously doesn't need my money. There's a provider out there for me. And a John out there for her.