Rule #.... Apologize to a "fucker" when you are wrong...fair enough. i can respect that.
JD.... I did confuse you with another hobbyist. You and I have not ever met. You have my most sincere apology.
Slave would of never seen, and much less enjoyed The "fucker" I confused you with. Although, he did live in your neck of the woods and also had a handle almost exactly as yours.
Again, I am Sorry.
Besos, Francisca Originally Posted by Ms Francisca
no, i did. but i know for a fact that many girls forget the thing about getting their handle.Now thats just terrible... I may not remember mid convo lol but I have that handle somewhere... Oh yeah, in my private messages after he sent me a pm to verify his handle
her: "he was an asshole!""
me: "what's his handle?"
her: "um......" Originally Posted by john_deere
For those that do use BP.Regarding your list of rules. I would strongly advise you to alter them STAT!
I try to adhere to these rules.
#1 Expect to be lied to especially about pics. Some BPers will go to the grave swearing the fake pics are hers.
Always get a real pic before making an appointment unless you can verify her pics are real by other means. Preferably this is a regular pic that doesn't look like its from a BP ad. Chances are it's more likely to be a real pic and not just another fake pic.
I always ask her height, weight bra and cup size. The reason being it is hard to judge these things from a picture. Providers tend to take pics from flattering angles. I also say please when I ask for this information and when asking for a pic.
If you are really interested and can't get pic ask for a meet and greet. Some girls will discuss services during a meet and greet when they won't over the phone
#2 Confrim what services are available and at what price. You don't want to get BCD and be told this or that is not available or it cost more than the base rate quoted.
Get specifics, don't settle for the their answer of full service. Full service is vague and doesn't mean shit. Just like GFE its varies from person to person. Also don't believe them when they say everything but kissing and anal.
I just go with the basics and ask if the rate includes giving and receiving oral.
I also started taking some extra $$$ incase there is an upgrade for a BBBJ. Sometimes a BPer will negotiate a BBBJ once you meet her and you meet her standards for unprotected oral. I limit an upgrade to 20$.
#3 Always be willing and prepared to walk away. Even if she is the girl in the pics. There are times I get an uneasy feeling, or just don't like the incall location once I'm inside.
#4 Asked what type of incall location she has. Do this as part of the conversation. Ask whether it is a room or a private location. Try to get a general idea of the type of motel and location or part of town where you will be meeting.
#5 If rule #1 and #2 don't happen don't make an appointment. There are some exceptions to this.
That would be if she has reviews but it's still a good idea to ask for a current pic. Try to verify services also because the activities in a review may not be able to everyone so don't take it for granted they will be able to you just because they are listed in a review. Reviewers don't always tell the truth and providers often change their menu.
Not a rule but don't be afraid to negotiate. Some BPers start high knowing they will get a counter offer.
Remember BP is risky but can be rewarding too. The more information you have about a provider the better and it improves your chances of being successful. Originally Posted by busternutzs
yup. those are very good points. if iit's a girl i have no knowledge of prior, what i do is just ask her if there's any restrictions or things she DOESN'T do. Originally Posted by john_deereAsking a lady what she DOESN't do for a certain fee, is also illegal.
