Rix I had an appointment with her this evening, she called to tell me her truck was broke down, and that she was using some older car, and was having trouble with it. So was canceling due to lack of reliable transportation. It is unlike Anna to stand someone up, she is usually good with TCB. Not trying to sound like a white knight but that is not like her.
Originally Posted by SaltyDog71
Let me tell you what happened. Since you seem to know one side of the story. Without revealing the contents of her PM's to me this morning. I can tell you whatever she told you,
is a bold-faced lie.
I arrived on time at the hotel she told me to meet her at, got to the room just in the nick of time because of traffic delays due to an accident. Unbeknownst to her I was in communication with another member of ECCIE along the way while I was in traffic. This gentleman was kind enough to assist me in communicating with Anna the morning we set an appointment. Anna had trouble getting me unblocked from her phone. For some reason, something about what I said on a review of her regarding my seeing her pending the next day rubbed her the wrong way.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1819192 This member also is a regular of hers and was instrumental in facilitating an apology on my part to be forwarded to her. To which she agreed to see me after my apology to her was accepted. An apology that wasn't even warranted.
I got to her door and knocked several times over the span of a couple of minutes. When she didn't answer, I contacted our mutual acquaintance for some help in contacting her by text since she still could get my number unblocked. I proceed to knock on her door a few more times while I had him on the phone. At no point did anyone come to the door. After another minute, I gave up and went to my vehicle which was parked below the walkway fronting the door. Thinking I'll wait just in case she just stepped out for a quick errand. While in contact with this gentleman, who was texting Anna and also waiting for a response, I saw a young couple emerge out of the room. The female fits the description of Anna's profile age, height, and weight-wise. Saw them get in a bright green 4x4. She drives off without making eye contact while I stared at her.
Then this morning she PM's me accusing me of standing her up. Excuse me? If I had stood her up, where was the phone calls I would have gotten for doing so? And then she makes another self-righteous PM to me? Come on, are you kidding me? Girl has some nerve. I would have chalked this up to a
"shit happens" incident but after the 2nd PM from her I know it had to be a deliberate act.
So Salty, unless you have any supporting evidence to prove otherwise. I'd say that this was very likely a
denial of service flakeout for spite. Not a broken down vehicle
because the couple that came out of the room with the number she gave me drove off laughing, in a working and driving vehicle, 5-10 minutes after I stopped knocking on the door.
So if you buy her story, good for you. At least she had the decency to cancel on you. She fucking blew me off without so much as a phone call or text. Because even though I couldn't get a hold of her, she sure as hell could get a hold of me.
Her phone call to me in the morning was how we set up for the afternoon's appointment. You can believe her load of crap if you like. But there been prior incidents similar to this from what I've read after my incident. Her TCB skills are about equal
to SexyChloe in terms of being unreliable but when she outright blows me off the way she does and then accuses me privately of standing her up? Now that is just
MAXIMUM BULLSHIT.
The fucking nerve. I even gave her all day today to make it right, but NOOOOO!!! Didn't even have the decency to apologize, no matter what the hell excuse she could have come up with for her actions.
I will leave it up to the gentleman mentioned to express his thoughts on this whenever he feels it's appropriate. Exposing his identity would be unconscionable.
This whole ill-fated fiasco even set me up for a worse appointment(business, non-hobby related)later, because of the mood it set me in. Fucking Hell.
So Anna, what do you say to that? Care to explain this to the members here? Because I still have all the pm's you sent, And our friend's texts between him and I when I couldn't get you to come to the door. No excuses for this kind of behavior, and it will not be tolerated around here.
Who the hell do you think you are anyway, to treat a prospective paying client in such a rude and inconsiderate way? Who taught you to put people in such a situation,
just so you can get your kicks?
Cpalmson helped you get in the business,
but he sure as fuck didn't teach you how to handle yourself as a business person did he? At least that I can't blame that on him,
Anna, That's on you.
You want to make it right? You know how to get a hold of me. And I will review you with the same unbiased standards I do everyone else. I will not retract any of the above statements but I will tell the truth if you so decide to make it right.
You want to fuck with me? Let's go to war.