Ladies, how many of you have developed feelings for a client???

When I am passionately kissing a guy as he is fucking me hard and hitting my clit perfectly causing a waive of intense orgasms, it is hard not developing a crush on him!! If I see him as a regular I get so addicted to what he does to me and he gets so addicted to what I do to him that I guess we do get infatuated but it is purely sexual and stays that way even though I crave his body and cock and can't wait for him to fuck me over and over!! What do you call that?? Raw sexual passion!! So many men seem to do that to me!!!! Nymphomaniacs are know to develope crushes too easily!!! I can't have them all!!!!

I think it happens a lot more than folks fess up to. I've crossed my own boundaries and gotten emotionally involved with ONE client. Sometimes I wish I hadn't, other times I'm glad that I did. It's definitely a slippery slope. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

*raises hand*

I am guilty...times 2x!
It happens
Originally Posted by berkleigh

I think ladies who see a gentlemen many times over the course of her career, can tend to become close friends, and therefore have more feelings for said gen't. then the guy who books 1 time per year.

Some guys are just naturally friendly and over time we begin to share some of our life's history.
Some guys make us feel like we are not paid courtesans... Those are the special ones to remember.

With that being said. Yes I have had 1 or 2 guys who were just so awesome, that I felt a little something extra for them...

M.M. Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

Sex workers are actually humans and not inanimate sex bots. For me, I believe there is a spectrum of intensity regarding attraction and desire. Every once in a while, I do experience low-key feels, which have nothing to do with love, or even a full-on crush. When it is the case that I've met with someone and our connection was exceptional and left a lasting impression on me, I sort through those feelings in a professional manner. This might manifest as memories of my favorite moments serving as masturbation fodder.

Either way, it's always so fascinating reading what those here in hobbyland (who would be classified as cheating heathens by normative standards) think about relationships. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

thanks to you ladies who kept it honest! Don't see why that's so hard for so many on this site, male or female.

I'm actually more inclined to see a provider who can admit such b/c it makes me think a session will be more personable.

And I do agree it's generally never for the best to feel anything, but it definitely happens sometimes. lol

It was the single worst thing that ever happened to me and those around me. Seriously steer completely clear of emotion in the hobby. Completely.

I have 3 providers around the country that I am very good friends with, beyond the sex play. It would be really easy to fall for any of them. They are pretty special women and have very full other world work and family lives.
I'm really thankful for their friendship and I think we try really hard to keep the play time separate from the friendship time.
We'll see how it works. It takes a certain amount of pragmatic maturity on both sides.
Humans are humans.
Isn't this a great way of life!

I have a few times. Dated and broke up with them. I can't say how deep the feelings were because the relationships were based on either money or sex, but they were definitely feelings. If you are hot and cool, its only natural that some clients will become infatuated with you. Some of them might be pretty hot and cool themselves and you guys might click. It seems like something that would happen to every provider once in a while.
Go with it and see where it takes you.

I can see it happening on bith sides. The hobby can be for some a lonely place or a way to get that intimacy that us humans crave.

We all want to feel wanted and what not, and to throw sex into it is just a recipe for thise feelings. Especially if you are seeing any particular provider regularly.

I havent seen any provider regularly to have it happen to me , but I do get that it happens.

It is a normal human reaction. Just keep in mind why you are doing this.

I have had a few encounters where I let things get out of perspective. None of them ended well or the way I would like them to have ended. But I don't regret them.

I would rather have something to forget than nothing to remember.

When I am passionately kissing a guy as he is fucking me hard and hitting my clit perfectly causing a waive of intense orgasms, it is hard not developing a crush on him!! If I see him as a regular I get so addicted to what he does to me and he gets so addicted to what I do to him that I guess we do get infatuated but it is purely sexual and stays that way even though I crave his body and cock and can't wait for him to fuck me over and over!! What do you call that?? Raw sexual passion!! So many men seem to do that to me!!!! Nymphomaniacs are know to develope crushes too easily!!! I can't have them all!!!! Originally Posted by FemiLove

Writing like this makes my dick rock hard. I wanna engage in a dfk while simultaneously cumming. Who wants in?

Ladies PM me!

It was the single worst thing that ever happened to me and those around me. Seriously steer completely clear of emotion in the hobby. Completely. Originally Posted by LovingKayla

I have to be honest. Every time I see Kayla, I completely see myself actually falling for her in real life. Kinda scary, but a testimony to the amazing girl she is! There is just something about when I see her...... :-)

Id totally be in trouble if I met her in the real world... #smitten

You'd have to ask my ATF but we do have a friendship outside of hobby. Obviously I know what she does and can't be jealous nor she of me. In fact what she does, just thinking about it turns me on. We have shared about various conquests between our special visits with each other.

i'm sure we all been there male and females
I have a few guy's i like a lot but i'm only looking for LOVE one hr at a time
I like the married ones better no need to fall for them .. !!!

I hear the feelings go away once the cash flow stops?

I hear the feelings go away once the cash flow stops? Originally Posted by BLM69

You are a very bitter boy!

You are a very bitter boy! Originally Posted by Kendall4U

If I'm wrong, say so......