Some Actual Food for Thought - Emotional Intimacy in the Hobby

So after reading this shit (posted some of it below) it's clear I was right all along. You don't know how to properly communicate and worst of all you're upset over a few hundred dollars (in the context of success). Man get your clown ass outta here. I may have fucked up a couple of relationships due to my arrogance, inexperience, and occasional narcissism but you're crying over a few hundred dollars and allowing yourself to be suckered in such a fashion as a baby boomer and trying to talk shit to me. You're outta your ever loving, goddam, cotton pickin mind to be honest. The nerve of you even approaching me to argue such a topic. Get the fuck on dude for real for real. lol Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

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"due to my arrogance, inexperience, and occasional narcissism" sounds like a recurring theme for you. Case in point is your contribution to this thread.

I just have a different perspective on the whole thing. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I understand that these gutless wonders pay for your lifestyle, so you have to go along with it for the sake of business. More power to you.

The thousand page book indicates that there is so much wrong in what you have to say. I said old people like using today's technology. I never said that they were expert hackers or programmers that work for NASA. I am scatterbrain? This is more of the pot calling the kettle black. The fact is that you are pissed off that I made some good points that are difficult to refute. This country is suffering not because of the ideals of the Baby Boomers but because of the poor leadership. The newer generations have problems of their own that aren't necessarily the failure fruits of the generation before it. Responsibility can be a double-edged sword. Your rebuttal proves that you are part of the problem and certainly not part of the solution. You can't cry over spilt milk, just be a real man and go clean it up. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Imma let you have this one homie since I now consider you a clown. but can you tell me what type of beat you'd like me to use when I make a rap song out of your words below. fucking baby boomers falling in love over text.

I met her a few weeks ago. The first session was a good session and we hit it off pretty well. There was "chemistry" as she put it and I, myself, would have to agree.

We would occasionally text and got to know each other that way. I felt very good and the rapport was good. One day she texted about needing $100 I of course wanted to help because I was beginning to fall for this girl.

I was already in the sucker mode, big-time. The conversation was so amazing and we were just clicking emotionally.

The following day she texted me about needing $200 because she had no food for the kids and her government assistance was not kicking in until next week.

She said she would pay me back. I wanted to see her of course because I cared about her and so I drove all the way to Baytown.

I did give her the money after we talked and caressed each other in my car. We decided to meet an hour or so later after our car meet (gave her another $20 so that her babysitter mom would be paid).

I was very distraught because the night before we talked about developing trust and open communication. I felt slighted and used again. I was deeply hurt and insulted.

Things fell apart with us fighting and pointing fingers. She tells me to fuck off and that I am done. She says that she doesn't owe me any money at all in spite of sending in text that she would pay me back.

I kept texting her and calling her and eventually we begin to discuss reconciling. I of course apologized tenfold. I had to get something to eat and went inside.

She tells me that her ex would pick up the kids on a Saturday night but she has to find out if he can get off work for that. I waited patiently but no text or phone call. I even texted and called her for a reply.

On Sunday, she gives me an excuse about ex having to work. I confront her about not contacting me yesterday so that I don't have to waste my entire day. She makes an excuse that she fell asleep early with her kids. I asked her when we could spend time together. She says that I can get a room and pay for a session. I lost it then there because why am I paying for a session.

I don't want any guys to suffer what I have suffered and to lose money over such negativity and manipulation. I still care about Barbie and that is what hurts the most. But I don't know what to believe anymore. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

I plan to use this beat over your retard story. It will be fly I promise it's slow and rhythmic you'll like it.

Imma let you have this one homie since I now consider you a clown. but can you tell me what type of beat you'd like me to use when I make a rap song out of your words below. fucking baby boomers falling in love over text. Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

WW proves the fact that emotional attachment in the mind of a simpleton can be dangerous(Bonemaker Ref#1)But sensuality doesn't always involve LOVE. WW should listen to T-pain's "I'm in Love wid a stripper" and think about why he's such an angry internet persona

@Vicki I'm not jaded just a patient thinker who has learned not to think with the little head 24/7.

Good Cums Cum to those who wait.
Ghandi '

I am not saying that it is wrong. But it is selfish and egocentric. I wanted the dude to realize that he was searching for a win for himself and that deep down inside he really doesn't care about anyone else UNLESS the decision(s) thwarted his objective to maximize pleasures for himself. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

And you would be dead wrong. I am with her still and never argue in front of the kids. EVER. When we do have to hash something out, I make sure the kids are not home. I pay for everything and anything that she wants to do. I work my ass off while she stays home. I come home to a filthy house, no cooked meal, and we NEVER have sex. We've talked it over and it's not changing. We are "friends." But she still gets upset if I even look at another woman, believe it or not. She has no place to go if we divorce other than cramming into her parent's little house with her BSC sister's family, who lives there, and her drama.

I COULD get a divorce. But then I would barely see my kids. I would have to pay for a place for her and the kids to live, all the while trying to get a place for myself. I can barely afford the place we have now the way things are. Also, some other dickhead would eventually be living with MY kids. I wouldn't be able to raise them except as a part-time parent. My family would be broken apart and I wouldn't be there as much as I need to be for my kids.

So, what do I do? Just jerk off for the rest of my life? Sorry, that does get old and I do get lonely after a while. A chick on the side? Then I'm just asking for drama and a possible attachment happening.

The solution (unfortunately): Hookers.

They can give me the illusion of a relationship and I can have sex without it leading to anything else.

I ask you this, Wolfwhistle. Why am I the selfish one, and NOT her? SHE is the one being unreasonable. She refuses to have sex and to even try to work things out, BUT she doesn't want me with other women either. My "selfishness" is keeping my family together and giving my kids a stable home.

WW proves the fact that emotional attachment in the mind of a simpleton can be dangerous(Bonemaker Ref#1)But sensuality doesn't always involve LOVE. WW should listen to T-pain's "I'm in Love wid a stripper" and think about why he's such an angry internet persona

@Vicki I'm not jaded just a patient thinker who has learned not to think with the little head 24/7.

Good Cums Cum to those who wait.
Ghandi ' Originally Posted by maineblame

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But at least I could fuck my "SO" or "my stripper." LMAO.

And you would be dead wrong. Originally Posted by albundy

Well damn! You truly are Al Bundy.

Well damn! You truly are Al Bundy.

Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Except that on the show, his wife begs for sex and he turns HER down!

I'm Bizzaro Al Bundy.

THREAD DRIFT......


good Gawt damn

Thank you VOH!

Very entertaining.

This thread has reminded us why Wolf Turd and Sistine Fapel are colassal, festering carbuncles on the ass cheek of eccie.

I enjoy an emotional connection with my providers, even if is for a brief moment. It's just who I am and I believed helps the provider relax and enjoy the sess more. In my opinion sex with no connection would be like fucking a mannequin... OK maybe a few less splinters.

As to my reason why, lack of sexual desire in SO, but also curiosity in me to go experiment and try new things that are impossible on the home front. I can't say where the future will take me, but it's not just as simple as a quick fuck. Dealing with a passion for sex that makes ones blood boil but not having a reciprocal partner is ... hard.

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But at least I could fuck my "SO" or "my stripper." LMAO. Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

But u can't even get into MAmaSan's House hahahahahahahaha

and your trying to demean me when u fell in love with barbie Nucka Plzzzzzzz???? Is ur RW name KEN???

But u can't even get into MAmaSan's House hahahahahahahaha

and your trying to demean me when u fell in love with barbie Nucka Plzzzzzzz???? Is ur RW name KEN??? Originally Posted by maineblame

Read the reviews. Again I have sex with the "love interest." When was the last time you bed your wife-mother?

LoL ur a funny dude .....kinda. I'm not all wound up which allows me to wait till the time is good for my RW. You on the other hand seem angry and frustrated im not tripping cause cocksman don't have to trip.

I enjoy the closeness of a woman which means she more than a Fleshlight with boobs so i can be more methodical. This thread is about emotional enjoyment of a provider and there's nothing wrong with that. to each is own but i'm not dead inside...i want to connect somehow with who i give this ALABAMA BLACK SNAKE

If there's no human connection then i might as well fuck a blow up doll or fleshlight and save $$$. But again 2 Each's OWN ....