If CIM is not on the menu their is no excuse for doing it anyways...
•Let her know when your close so she can be prepared
•Instead of BBBJ go for CBJ then there's no worries at all
•If your a bit unpredictable with the timing of your "grand finale" give yourself a hand at the end and give her a nice peral necklace
With so many ways to make sure CIM doesn't happen their is no excuse, disregarding the rules and forcing someone into something outside of their comfort zone is never ok.

It reminds me of the old days, I actually wrote programs on punched cards. It was a huge improvement when we were able to program some machines with a roll of punched paper tape: both methods were huge time wasters. You children wouldn't begin to believe the hassle of the old way of doing things. Things improve everyday. By the way, is anyone in the market for a bunch of old computers that I keep outgrowing.
I can not believe that two weeks ago I got two wide thin fantastic monitors at $149 each that sit beside a monitor that cost me $2000 about 14 years ago. In my old computer bin is one of the first portable machines with a 1 meg chip that cost me $1000. Just a piece of junk now.