I know providers with children and multiple businesses who still answer texts/pms promptlyWell some providers like myself have a career outside of this I work 70+ hours a week and sometimes don't get on eccie for a few days.. It's stated in my showcase I'm only available when I make an ad stating so.. If someone gets mad that's there loss I'm not going to risk my job for a fucktard period... I usually stick to regulars anyway it's less trouble...
When you find a lady who treats this like a real job,stick with her
I usually reach out to providers when I get the urge to spurt
Whoever catches my eye,gets a message
If she's not available, I move on to the next
Pre-planning and pre-booking days in advance seem corny to me
That's not what this hobby is for me
I'd rather try to fuck a civie than chase a provider
How I feel about you today may change by tomorrow
I don't contact any provider unless I really really want to fuck her or get sucked on by her
If she's not available, she will have to wait until i get that feeling again
That's just me though Originally Posted by FindumFuccemFleem
Well some providers like myself have a career outside of this I work 70+ hours a week and sometimes don't get on eccie for a few days.. It's stated in my showcase I'm only available when I make an ad stating so.. If someone gets mad that's there loss I'm not going to risk my job for a fucktard period... I usually stick to regulars anyway it's less trouble...Understable
For example the OP who continues to send me PMs calling me names after I told him to stop contacting me because he can't refrain from talking explicitly... I have over 100 reviews ads and a showcase if you can't figure out my menu you're a FUCKTARD... Don't call me names because you can't figure out the obvious... Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe
It depends on each lady. Some are very good at TCB, while others, not so much. Case in point, there's one lady that I see from time to time. If I text her when all is going well, it may take a couple of hours to 2 days later before I get a response. But let rent time come around...she's texting me back with the quickness! Originally Posted by StopShortYou must be on the " Only see if I'm desperate " list...
I think the Golden Rule says it all: Treat others as you would like to be treated.
Reciprocal respect goes a long way toward preventing inconvenience, and alleviating misunderstanding. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
THIS!!! Originally Posted by KammyeThen it should be remembered:
Then it should be remembered:Quite true! However, if someone else has bought a provider's time, he certainly doesn't want her using that time to communicate with another fellow. (I know some do, but it's rude!) That may not be much of a delaying issue for ladies who do mostly half hours and hours, but could be when a carnal companion is engaged for a multi-hour visit.
Those hobbyists who are in business or a position of employment that involve last minute schedule changes and obligations over which the hobbyist has NO CONTROL are at the mercy of the gainful endeavor that supplies hobby funds for the providers they desire to see (PLUS without factoring in "clean up and prep" time of the provider because it's not included in the hobbyist's time) and to engage a one hour appointment it requires a minimum of roughly three hours of the hobbyist's time out of the day .... two way travel IN HOUSTON TRAFFIC and the appropriate and customary early arrival so as not to be LATE and impose on the provider's time ..... AFTER the numerous communications to set and confirm the meeting date, time, and place. (Many hobbyists (I assume) have "problems" setting appts "after hours"!)
So, when making appointments during WORKING HOURS the hobbyist may have only a small window of opportunity to make the appointment, which means a prompt response by the provider ... which should mean within an hour or so. (How long does it take to text "Not available" or "2 pm today" or "2 pm tomorrow" or "ok" ... or "Fuck You"?) Originally Posted by LexusLover