Your reason for hobbying

I really really appreciate everyone's participation...

Thanks for humoring me and sharing your reason for hobbying...

I personally don't think anyone needs a reason necessarily to hobby... We're all grown folks here...

Y'all continue to have the fun and variety you deserve!

Stay sweet,
Ana Originally Posted by Analeese

Great topic Ana

I would hope someone to start a topic from the provider's perspective on why they escort. My theory and again this is my theory- 98 percent of them do it for the money directly or indirectly- I mention indirectly because you have to take into consideration the pimp element of the game where providers are making money for someone else and keeping nothing.

I seriously doubt any escort is doing this because they love sex so much, because if that was the case you would do it for free.

Great topic Ana



I seriously doubt any escort is doing this because they love sex so much, because if that was the case you would do it for free. Originally Posted by J.G Wentworth

Lots of people love their jobs. Does that mean they should do it for free?

While I get what you're saying-- I'm also going to say that if a woman in this business doesn't love sex.. she isn't going to last very long. It would be difficult to continue with the physical aspects of the industry if one didn't enjoy it.

Lots of people love their jobs. Does that mean they should do it for free?

While I get what you're saying-- I'm also going to say that if a woman in this business doesn't love sex.. she isn't going to last very long. It would be difficult to continue with the physical aspects of the industry if one didn't enjoy it. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

I agree. Most successful people like their jobs. Does Lebron James like basketball? Yes, if there was no way to make money off of basketball, he would do it for free (would be his hobby), and he would have another job. But in the current NBA, would he play for a team for free?

I agree. Most successful people like their jobs. Does Lebron James like basketball? Yes, if there was no way to make money off of basketball, he would do it for free (would be his hobby), and he would have another job. But in the current NBA, would he play for a team for free? Originally Posted by zzzyyy

Hell Naw he want play ball for free, one he makes wayyyyy more money from his endorsements than basketball, so he will have no reason to ball for free.

HAHAHAHA they are taking this too personal. One day if I am fortunate to live to 60 or 70, I too will be an old fart and have to resort to paying for pussy every time it's just the cold hard facts. Originally Posted by J.G Wentworth

Lmao

One of the most common reasons I hear that some hobby due to everyday life being too busy for a relationship. Originally Posted by Analeese

Me right here, and I don't even want one

Hi I'm TexasSapper and I am addicted to DATY. I was married for 24 years (18 of them wonderful) to a former Buffalo Jeans Model. I always punched above my weight class in the women dept. simply because I wasn't afraid of rejection... I've still managed to reel in 3 SB's one who I haven't paid a dime to and is calling me her boyfriend, and 2 of the 3 are downright stunning in their looks. #3 is no slouch, it's just she's competing against a couple of superstars. I'm an overweight ex-lineman that's gone to seed.

I pay for pussy the same way I pay for an oil change. I've stripped three VW bugs down to the pan and rebuilt them as show cars. I can do an oil change in my sleep, but I take my car to jiffy-lube. Why? Because my time is worth ~$100/hr... so I rationalize it's more cost effective for me to pay a guy ~60 bucks to change my oil in 15 minutes than it would for me to do it in an hour...and then I have to dispose of the oil. It's not that I can't do, don't have the skills, knowledge, tools, or capability.... I just don't have the time or the energy to find em, fool em, fuck em, and forget em, anymore.

Far better use of my time and resources to contact a lady, get sweaty and get down on the clit with my tongue than to go through 2-3 dates listening to a girl talk about her f*cking issues knowing that any advice I give will be promptly ignored. I do the math and figure I'm going to get an eager beaver on the 2nd date... figure 2 hours a piece plus dinner it's going to cost me $500-$600 dollars of my time and actual cash to get in her panties and then Christ on a crutch who knows if I end up with a chick that thinks her pussy juice is icky. (WTF? Yep they are out there)

Nope, a straight up mathematical calculation says it's economically smarter to hire a lady than it is to go through the social limbo dance of getting a civvie to play.

Maybe you think you're a better man cause you don't have to pay for it (or want to) but really you're not very bright... most of us older, fat, balding guys can still get laid, it just doesn't make sense for us to waste our resources (time) in the effort. We can peel off some bills and get the same effect our time and effort would achieve. That doesn't make us sad... that makes us smarter than you.

From an older (63) persons point of view, after 43 years of marriage, while you may love your so, there is no romance, intimacy or passion present. You seek the passion and intimacy without the strings attached. Plus, over the years, the so decides that oral, etc. are no longer on the table. All of this combined causes the wondering eye. complex, but simple!

From an older (63) persons point of view, after 43 years of marriage, while you may love your so, there is no romance, intimacy or passion present. You seek the passion and intimacy without the strings attached. Plus, over the years, the so decides that oral, etc. are no longer on the table. All of this combined causes the wondering eye. complex, but simple! Originally Posted by CHUNKER12

I feel ya CHUNKER, and what's sad about this is, women already know that men don't need any reason to cheat. If I was married or in a relationship and the wife said no more blowjobs, I would say cool. I'm going to go find some young hot ass girls to keep my dick wet for me then. Lol

I had this long ass personal response that probably went WAYYY too deep for Eccie and just left this snippet:

I'm a young looking 40 yr old. I still turn heads and could probably pull a few ladies if I put forth the effort. But the fact is...I don't want to put forth the effort. This lifestyle fits my demands and needs without the drama.

You want the long version PM me...

I had this long ass personal response that probably went WAYYY too deep for Eccie and just left this snippet:

I'm a young looking 40 yr old. I still turn heads and could probably pull a few ladies if I put forth the effort. But the fact is...I don't want to put forth the effort. This lifestyle fits my demands and needs without the drama.

You want the long version PM me... Originally Posted by txboi817

Perfectly said txboi

They come for the Nookie Originally Posted by melannie_star

Yeppers, and your number is coming up!

One of the most common reasons I hear that some hobby due to everyday life being too busy for a relationship. Originally Posted by Analeese

I'll offer a different variant. As several guys have mentioned it's to skip the drama. More than that though; me, myself, and I have finally learned the lesson that one way or another a guy is going to have to Pay for Pussy.

The method of barter is what is challenged....one can go through the drama of dating, marriage, etc and carry all the baggage that goes along with it or he can simply use the most efficient direct route and anty up for what he wants. The direct route allows for many more options, choices, flexibility, and is generally baggage free. I can walk into a roomful of ladies, and I'm willing to bet I could score. Maybe not right then and there, but eventually, I could. There's the sticker....the operative word... EVENTUALLY...and Eventually is Time, and Time is Money. Time = Money is the simplest form of the equation and discards all the cobwebs associated with the traditional, society sanctioned forms of barter for pussy. I much prefer the most simple equation.

Because I love eating pussy.

Because I love eating pussy. Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

As long as it's clean butch and smells like Victoria secret lol, then there is no better reason than this. Haha