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        I agree we should all treat each other with respect, providers, johns, Mercedes dealers, etc. All deserve and should be treated with respect but that diverts from my question. I do not see where a lady should keep any donation amount period if SHE refuses to service him. Her choice, her fault, her problem, not his. But Old-T stated she should get back some of her costs even when SHE decides not to service, not him. I disagree and think he owes her nothing at all. I do not feel bad when I bought my BMW instead of Mercedes and I have no problem not reimbursing Mercedes for their time. He shows at her door drives 2 hours and she says "too fugly." And he owes her costs for effort and time spent getting dressed I guess. I say she owes him gas money, but know she will never do that. Originally Posted by gentlemantooSo if we reverse it:
 
        No one is saying it's unicorns & glitter. But when it's not, that doesn't give providers the right to treat someone like shit. Originally Posted by papadeeWe are not talking about bad service.
 
        I think some things are best posted in the ladies areas. Talk about slamming a door or two in ones own face.Please elaborate.Originally Posted by Kendall4U
 
        Wow.
I am sorry to inform you, but you posted in a PUBLIC forum, so to a large degree your comment was addressed to all here. If you only wanted a select few people, or only one person, to see it then a PM or different forum would have been a better choice.
As to not understanding--well, I always thought the ladies in this business were actually people. And if a person takes just a few moments to ecplain their thought process most folks actually CAN understand it. Maybe not agree with it, but differences of opinin are the essence of discussion boards, no?
My post to you was not an attack at all. Just a statement of my confusion about what you were saying. I am sorry that you feel upset that someone asked you to clarify. Originally Posted by Old-T