November 8, 2017. I got a text from a provider I had become friendly with toward the end of last year. She asked if she could call me, and I said yes. It was around lunch time at my work so I had some time. It was unusual because while we had texted quite a bit before that, she had never called me before, and her words in the text conveyed that she was very upset about something that happened.
When I answered the phone, she was inconsolable. Crying uncontrollably, practically hyperventilating. It took a good while to calm her down before I could even find out what was wrong.
What was wrong is that she had been verbally accosted and physically assaulted by a provider in the parking lot of her day job. Yelling obscenities and pushing her down to the ground. A provider that she had previously worked with for a pimp that she got involved with before she knew any better, and had left because of his physical abuse of her. The provider who attacked her also told her she'd better not tell anyone about them or they'd spread stories about her having STDs and being pimped. Does that sound familiar?
In an appointment well prior to this I had asked if she was still working with the other provider (not knowing about the pimp at the time), because I was thinking I might be interested in a double. She simply responded that she was not working with her anymore and said she wanted to keep it quiet so asked me not to tell anyone. She did not mention anything about the pimp or anything else at that time.
Between that appointment, and the next time I saw her, this happened:
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1060046659
So, a pimp got careless and got caught texting me as her. At the time I didn't know any more than that I wanted nothing more to do with the provider he was mimicking.
The provider involved in that was the same one my friend had previously worked with for the pimp. I mentioned it to her next time I saw her, and that's when she opened up and told me her story about having worked with this pimp when she first got into the business before knowing any better and leaving to go independent because she feared for her life.
She told me a lot of things.
Him throwing her across the room and telling her he wasn't going to kill her, just fuck her face up so badly that no one would ever want her again.
About the other provider that was with them watching as he beat her and doing nothing, even leaving the room so he could beat her more severely and she wouldn't have to see it.
Making her sleep beside him with the other provider in the room, hitting her when he wanted his dick sucked, and her doing it because she was so scared and wanted to do anything to make it out alive and see her children again.
Just little things like that.
After the parking lot incident in November, she had visitors to her house, banging on the windows to scare her and her kids. But there was more to come.
The pimp found out about her ex-husband and paid him a visit, bringing along copies of her eccie ads, pictures, and reviews to out her to him. At that time he also mentioned my name, saying something along the lines that I'd told the provider still with him that my friend had talked shit about her, which was untrue, I had stopped seeing that provider well before this and had no contact with her, I even had her number blocked and had her blocked on P411 as well. Another hobbyist's name was also mentioned but I will not disclose it. My friend's ex is not involved in the hobby in any way, so the only purpose mentioning my name could have served was to try to draw me into the conflict. Well, mission accomplished on that one I guess.
I was not at all pleased about this pimp using my name, so posted a semi-critical private comment (which happened to be true BTW) in one of her reviews, knowing that he would have a male handle to see it and wouldn't be able to keep himself from responding. Sure enough, I got a PM shortly after that from the provider's handle asking why I was "throwing shade" at her in private comments on reviews. Odd that she would know that, but "she" covered by saying that it's common knowledge that negative comments are made in private.
We had lots of unpleasant PMs back and forth, including "her" saying that my friend's ex that she had been outed to was now pimping her. Does that sound familiar? On my last PM at the time I said that I would leave "her" alone on the forum, both publicly and privately, in exchange for leaving my friend (and me) alone. As I mentioned before, I 100% lived up to that until this week. This is over at least 10 PMs back and forth, maybe more, so I had plenty of time to get used to the writing style, which is very, very similar to that used by Buxom Beauty.
My friend has been reluctant to post on eccie in any way due to what she's been afraid will be done to and said about her if she does. Mostly she she does not even post ads anymore because of not wanting to rile up her tormentors. But, due to making friends with me and some provider friends, she's gotten a little more confident lately and started posting some. Sure enough, as soon as she did, the provider posted in her thread. On the surface it was pleasant enough, but it was meant to send a message of intimidation, as my friend well understood when she saw it.
I don't have proof about Buxom Beauty being a pimp other than recognizing the writing style and knowing that she was with the same provider that's still with the pimp, for a time. Looking at her reviews might be instructive. As would going back and reading "her" opening post in the context of what I've told you:
https://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p...0&postcount=20
Does that sound more like a sympathetic fellow provider or a butthurt, vengeful pimp who wants to say something but knows he can't without wrecking his business, so hides behind a provider account to do it?
A good question to ask would be why Buxom Beauty suddenly resurfaced again after being dormant since her last post and review in early November. I'm sure there will be some excuse given for that, but here's my theory:
The other account the pimp posts under is still viable, a money maker. He doesn't engage in drama with that account, it would be bad for business. But, if you have an account for someone who isn't really with you any more, you have a bully pulpit and nothing to lose. Food for thought.
I have been sitting on this for 4 months because I've not wanted to cause drama over it and especially not wanted to cause any problems for my provider friend. All of this was posted with her knowledge and approval. She may or may not choose to speak (and I certainly wouldn't blame her if she didn't), but someone should speak for her because this is fucking bullshit.
There you go, pimp. Let's do this.