Dominant or dominated

In bed a LOVE to be taken advantage of, to be used. I am in so much control normally in my daily life, just being able to submit and be totally controlled to the point where it pushes my limits is what gets me going
Just had a curious thought. I enjoy being the dominant one in the bed. Its very rare when im feeling submissive. I like pleasing dont get me wrong but I do get like a horny feeling when I'm using you as my personal slave.and your happy knowing im using you as a slave to my needs Men out there 1-10 how many times a year do you ever IF you do, feel submissive towards your girl or provider. Or you let the girl take control. Does that feeling come in the or is it random? Or do you feel one personality at All times and you only let your girl do it because she likes it not really your enjoyment? once again this was just a curious thought haha. Originally Posted by AlluringStacy
I fuckin love that redish blond hair on you.....incredibly sexy
"Just had a curious thought. I enjoy being the dominant one in the bed. Its very rare when im feeling submissive. I like pleasing dont get me wrong but I do get like a horny feeling when I'm using you as my personal slave.and your happy knowing im using you as a slave to my needs Men out there 1-10 how many times a year do you ever IF you do, feel submissive towards your girl or provider. Or you let the girl take control. Does that feeling come in the or is it random? Or do you feel one personality at All times and you only let your girl do it because she likes it not really your enjoyment? once again this was just a curious thought haha."

That turns me on in a major way
TristanThick's Avatar
I love mature, confident women who want to teach me a lesson I won’t forget; definitely love to be used. However, the primal, animal part of me wants to control her. I like to switch it up. I love when a woman tells me what she wants to do to me, but also what she wants from me. Something about a woman telling me to use her for what I want is hot, too - and still a level of control by the female - because ultimately, as a giver, she gets what she wants.
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Stacy always dominates me in bed its so sexy she knows how to bring my submissive side out
Stacy always dominates me in bed its so sexy she knows how to bring my submissive side out Originally Posted by KaitlynDior

I llllove to be dominated, it would be interesting to be tied to the bed and dominated and teased by Stacy. Kaitlyn baby if you have a dominant side, then you've got me very curious with delight
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I love it when the lady is more dominant. "SexyKim2008", I'm looking right at you, babe! LOL.

For whatever reason why, I just cannot be too forceful/demanding, as I feel like a jackass/asswipe when I'm doing it. Even with playful ass slapping things like that, I just can't do it - I feel like a predator or something.
I've never been able to find a true dominant woman on here even the ones that say they are not the take charge type. Ive been trying to find one.... feel free to p.m. me
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  • BLM69
  • 12-27-2018, 09:01 PM
I'm the dominant one except maybe if I'm feeling lazy and want to lie back like a slug and get a great hummer or let her ride me.

Otherwise, I like to be in charge and I usually like it a little rough. I dated a gal who had a penchant for domination but she never tried to talk me into participating as she knew that was not me. But, she would tell me these stories of this freak group she was in at one time where all these guys wanted to be kicked in the balls, burned with cigarettes, fucked in the ass with dildos, pissed on, led around on a leash like a dog and all kinds submissive shit that quite frankly disgusted me. Yeah, I know WALDT and different strokes for different folks and all that, but I don't get how you could allow yourself to be treated like that and still call yourself a man. Originally Posted by Super Sonic
I agree, there's women here that treat men like this by taking control of the guys time, a min of mouth action, rush to suit up and horrible quick service after that, mostly HJ's finishes.

I like to take control of my fun time here, the other way around reminds me of a butch telling her girl what's next. Total mood killer
Stacy can dominate me anytime
Do dominant escorts exist? The dominatrix type of escort.
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I love assertive women. I’m not into being treated like a sissy, though.
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I don't like being told what to do unless I'm naked.
I love it when the lady is more dominant. "SexyKim2008", I'm looking right at you, babe! LOL.

For whatever reason why, I just cannot be too forceful/demanding, as I feel like a jackass/asswipe when I'm doing it. Even with playful ass slapping things like that, I just can't do it - I feel like a predator or something. Originally Posted by SchnellerFahrer

yes I love it.

I am naturally that way
I don't like being told what to do unless I'm naked. Originally Posted by Samhyde
Get over here and get naked!