NCNS Encounter - Disappointing experience

mrredcat43's Avatar
Brand new handle, probably from a recycled one. OP certainly has an agenda. Calling BS on his so called "review". Usually this is where I'd say the WKs have shown up, but not here. OP, YOU'RE FULL OF IT!!! Maybe go back to your previous handle.

Muffin, I'll gladly take the points
Brand new handle, probably from a recycled one. OP certainly has an agenda. Calling BS on his so called "review". Usually this is where I'd say the WKs have shown up, but not here. OP, YOU'RE FULL OF IT!!! Maybe go back to your previous handle.

Muffin, I'll gladly take the points Originally Posted by mrredcat43
Cat nailed it!
MuffinMan's Avatar
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Muffin, I'll gladly take the points Originally Posted by mrredcat43
Hey cat, you know I’ll be glad to point you or HID any time, but I haven’t seen either one of you cross the line. Carry on, gentlemen.
Hey Red we should have an ole'time get together soon.
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Hey cat, you know I’ll be glad to point you or HID any time, but I haven’t seen either one of you cross the line. Carry on, gentlemen. Originally Posted by MuffinMan

Muffy:


Hey, I tried!!! LOL


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FatCity's Avatar
Not trying to WK or anything. . Originally Posted by Just a normal guy
NONE of this means anything


A Reason is something you tell me BEFORE
Excuse is something you tell me AFTER

NCNS are the result of someone committing to an obligation, then completely blowing you off out of disrespect.

If I say I'm going to mow your yard at 2 pm because you're going to pay me $20, I do what I agreed to. Its simple. If I can't show up at 2 p.m., it is my RESPONSIBILITY to communicate that to you AHEAD OF TIME and try to make amends for backing out of a previous COMMITMENT. If I am unable to control my life, I have no business making promises to fulfill for other people.
Now multiply that by 100 because we're talking about someone's business/livelihood/profession. If you hire contractors to roof your house, you're not going to accept bullshit excuses why they can't/won't hold up their end, let alone go out of your way to hunt them down for an answer then make excuses for them and give them second and third chances.


If you NCNS for an in-call, okay....but take into account you've wasted at least 2 hours of a clients time and given them blue balls. I guess thats okay, right?
If you NCNS for an out-call.... now you've wasted more than 2 hours, the planning involved to get the room/venue, stuck them with the room rate, and given them blue balls. I guess thats okay, too,right?
But I forgot....we're supposed to dig around multiple websites to figure out a providers schedule and pop out our Sextant and find the correct azimuth to see if they'll be able to navigate to the destination for them....INSTEAD OF THEM JUST KNOWING WHAT THEY CAN AND CANNOT COMMIT TO.


How is basic human decency get thrown out the window just because of this game? Its not complicated
Be punctual, prepared, communicate = "I show respect and appreciation for you"
be late, disinterested, don't communicate = "eh,go fuck yourself, I don't care"



Grow some fucking nuts and quit making excuses for people who wantonly disrespect you and dishonor themselves. If a provider agrees to something, refuses to communicate the breach of agreement, THEY DESERVE THEIR REPUTATION TO GET BURNED. Likewise, for clients that don't hold up their end...though, this needs no support because I'm sure providers hold nothing back when sharing information on clients.
you picked her up and either you hold back because you want all of your time to be filled with your fulfillmen. Originally Posted by 1Elle
while all this may be TRUE, it has nothing to do with the NCNS OP reported.
If a provider has obligations other than her current client, it isn't the current client's responsibility to get her life in order




fuck 'em - there are TONS of women who will earn your money
Destiny has a solid reputation. If she says that she was unable to call I would believe it. If it was some random chick from STG I probably wouldn’t. But even then I wouldn’t be mad about it. Shit does happen and there is no way to know the veracity of someone’s claim without having been there. All you can really do is focus on the things within your own control. Try to maintain your own integrity and adjust your expectations before committing to future plans.
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I wouldn’t be mad about it.. Originally Posted by Gadabout
people let you down and leave you in the lurch - "everything's cool"
I mean, you guys DO see this is accepting being a doormat for others, right?
I'd be totally cool with a girl telling me she's backing out BEFORE the time. I'm totally cool with her agreeing to a meet, then saying she didn't think we'd fit. Anything AFTER the commitment shows you have ZERO RESPECT for the other person, excuses be damned.



try a NCNS on a provider and see what happens.
Enjoy your session with a provider and try the "oh no, i forgot my wallet" routine.



If you can't control your life, you have no business giving commitments to others.

Its just that simple. Your word is meaningless.
Maybe you folks in North Louisiana are so pussy starved that you'll do anything for these girls, but there are TONS of girls looking to make money. Why put up with this shit if, by your own admission, this is a 50/50 crap shoot whether or not she'll show up
This has turned into mental masturbation....
Just a normal guy's Avatar
This has turned into mental masturbation.... Originally Posted by Headkeeper
Horn^I^Dog's Avatar
This has turned into mental masturbation.... Originally Posted by Headkeeper
Was it good for you too? LOL

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Was it good for you too? LOL

HID (21-HID) Originally Posted by Horn^I^Dog
Unfortunately no. I need visuals.
Horn^I^Dog's Avatar
Unfortunately no. I need visuals. Originally Posted by Headkeeper





I"m such a slut!!!


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